Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 44 year old married man and my sister-in-law is living with us temporarily. She and my brother are separated because she caught my brother in her bed with another woman, that happened to live next door. She took pictures of him in the act and she posted them to her Facebook page. He told her that he hates her in the comments. She was willing to work things out, but the word “hate” kept coming back to her mind......................................