Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 36 year old married woman and my husband is 33. We've been married for almost eight years and he has told me that he regrets getting married so young. I asked him if he needed a break from the marriage and he said no. He told me we could find ways to make our marriage work, so we planned a trip back to our hometown and it didn't work out as planned. We went for Thanksgiving and there was a big game in town, so we barely saw each other. I was busy with my parents and he was out late every night. He came in to my parents home late, and I noticed on the third night that his cell phone was off while he slept................................................