Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 31 year old woman and I’ve been divorced for 5 years. I hate dating but I do want to be settled in a relationship soon. I’ve met some really weird men and I’ve started to weed them out by who has the least amount of issues. The last guy I met online is 31 years old and he lives with his parents. He’s employed, but says he’s looking for a better job. He said he had a weight loss surgery a few years ago and had some complications so he moved in with his parents for his recovery................