Dear Steve and Shirley, I was married for 6 years to a man that I didn’t even want to be with at first, but he pursued me heavily and I gave in. After he proposed to me, I waited 3 years to marry him. I guess it was my intuition because I had second thoughts about getting married up until my wedding day. Looking back on things, the signs were there that he was a cheater, but we had sex 3-4 times a week and I was naïve enough to think that would satisfy him.............................................