Dear Steve and Shirley, I met the love of my life 7 years ago and I was 21 years old at the time. He’s 3 years older than me and had already had a child. He was my first everything and he influenced everything I did. I overlooked a lot of things he did because I was young and crazy in love. He would be intimate with the mother of his child and he didn’t try to hide it. It made me feel like I wasn’t good enough or skilled enough at sex because he kept on having sex with her...............