Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 34 years old and I was dating a guy that’s 32 years old and we broke up because he said I am not a team player. A week ago, he had to put his car in the shop and he asked if I could pick him up from the repair shop. I went by to get him and he said his car would be ready in a week. I had planned to drop him off at home and go to dinner with my co-worker. I got to his house and went in to use the bathroom. I noticed he was in his closet and he had a suitcase on his bed...............