Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm dating a man that goes overboard to please me. We've been together for three years, and from our first date until today, he's always done too much. Our first date was at a place where you could eat and play games. I wore a dress and a pair of heels, and he came in workout clothes. I didn't know where he was taking me, so I was shocked. When we pulled up. He made us matching shirts to wear and told me that he wanted to see how good I was at basketball............................................