Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a hairstylist and in the last few years I've built up a great clientele and I'm enjoying the fruits of my labor. I was able to buy a new car and I purchased my first home, a nice home. I also have found love again with a great supportive man. So here's my problem. My professional life and my love life are going great but my friendships are suffering. I've lost a lot of girlfriends in this past year....