Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a recently divorced man with joint custody of my children. On the day that our divorce was final my ex-wife and I we went out for drinks and then back to her place to play a little game of hide and seek if you know what I mean. We only did that once and for the past six months we have not had sex or anything close to it. Not too long ago she told me that she had started dating again. So here's the problem. She wants her new guy to meet our son and daughter after dating him for only two months...........