Hi Steve I want your advice. My boyfriend and I have a relationship for six years. He started cheating on me three years ago. He had a child with that girl and now he's cheating again. His mother stopped talking to me because she thought I was trying to take her son from her. I wrote him a letter a while back telling him that I need him to be a man that I can rely on the man that I need to head our household and the only way that can happen is if you stop allowing his mother to control him and our relationship as well.