Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for almost two months and a few days after we said ‘I do,’ my life changed. We met at church and we were friends first and then we started dating. One thing we said we’d never do, was talk about our past relationships in detail and we never have, until after our wedding. Early on the morning of our wedding, my ex-girl from 12 years ago sent a text to tell me that she was in town and would love to visit my mom.....................................