Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been together for 6 years and married 3. He’s 37 and I’m 31. He’s divorced and has a son and a daughter from his marriage. I absolutely adore them and they spend weekends and summers with us. My husband has always put his children first and I love that about him. He still finds time to spoil me by doing all of the cooking, planning dates for us and sending me flowers at work or randomly calling me during the day to say he loves me........................