Dear Steve and Shirley, I am keeping a secret from my sweetie and I need your advice. When I was 18 years old and a senior in high school, I was in love with a beautiful girl who was also 18 and went to a neighboring school. We were each other's first everything! Our puppy love ended when we went away to college. I got a good job and got married right after college. By the time I was 37, I was divorced and I got a job transfer back to the city I grew up in. Shortly after I moved back, I ran into my high school sweetheart............