Dear Steve and Shirley, my boyfriend and I have been together for five years and we’ve been faced with many obstacles, but the main one started over two years ago when I cheated on him and admitted it. I swore to never do it again and we moved on. I really thought that all was forgiven, but my boyfriend still has major trust issues with me and here’s why… He has a high sex drive and so do I, but I refuse to give in whenever he wants to have sex, which is every day or every-other-day. He knows exactly why I won’t do it as much as he’d like to…........