About the Guest: 

Victoria is a senior executive at a multinational company. Her career encompasses roles in people management, talent management, and operations. Known for her strategy formulation and execution, she stands out as a multifaceted professional. However, Victoria’s story is not just about her professional achievements; it’s also about her personal journey overcoming domestic abuse, rebuilding her life, and finding love again post-divorce. She uses her managerial position to make change and support women going through similar crises. 

Episode Summary: 

In this revealing episode of “She Wasn’t Born Yesterday,” hosts Dr. Amelia Haines and Janet Evans speak with Victoria, who opens up about her experiences of finding love after a traumatic past involving domestic violence. Victoria’s candid discussion offers insights into the complexities of starting anew, providing support for women 40+ who are navigating similar challenges. 

Victoria’s journey encapsulates the harrowing experience of domestic abuse while highlighting the resilience needed to escape and reconstruct a life of safety and happiness. The episode delves into her approach to dating and the process of rebuilding trust in new relationships. With a poignant and hopeful narrative, Victoria’s story underscores the possibility of rediscovering love and the importance of self-care. 

Key Takeaways: 

• Domestic violence survivors can rebuild their lives and find love again with time and healing. 
• Supportive work environments play a crucial role in providing solace and stability during times of personal turmoil. 
• Creating a safe and strategic plan is paramount when leaving an abusive relationship. 
• Entering the dating scene with a sense of fun and adventure is beneficial, rather than searching for someone to “fix” past trauma. 
• Open communication about past experiences in new relationships can lay a foundation for trust and understanding. 

Notable Quotes: 

• “Being alive is way better than being dead … every day is a great day to be alive.”
• “It didn’t impact how I saw other men.”
• “I felt ready again to actually think about those things and, yeah, start dating again.”
• “If he walks away after knowing this, then it wasn’t meant to be anyway.”

Resources: 

The resources mentioned in the podcast include Lifeline, a crisis support service (Phone 13 11 14 here in Australia). 

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