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Relationships, Instagram Red Flags & Dating Disasters

Is commenting on someone's Instagram post disrespectful when you're in a relationship? What actually makes someone a good partner? And why do the smallest things cause the biggest relationship arguments?

This week on Relatables, Jake and Ottie dive into modern dating, relationship boundaries, social media red flags and the unspoken rules of being a good partner.

From showering together after a night out to unsolicited dick pics and a disastrous first date involving a fedora, the boys unpack the awkward, hilarious and sometimes uncomfortable realities of dating.

Along the way, they discuss trust, communication, consent, social media expectations and whether we're putting too much pressure on relationships to look perfect online.

Expect questionable dating stories, honest relationship advice, plenty of laughs and a few uncomfortable truths.

In This Episode


Instagram & Relationship Boundaries: When does interacting with someone online cross the line?


What Makes a Good Partner? The little things that build trust, respect and healthy relationships.


Social Media Red Flags: How Instagram and online expectations affect modern dating.


Dating Disasters: Unsolicited pictures, questionable decisions and a first-date fedora.


Communication & Consent: Navigating respect, boundaries and uncomfortable conversations.


Relationship Habits: The weird, funny and surprisingly important routines couples develop.

Whether you're single, dating or in a long-term relationship, this episode is packed with relatable stories, dating dilemmas and honest conversations about love and relationships.

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Relationships, Instagram Red Flags &amp; Dating Disasters
Is commenting on someone's Instagram post disrespectful when you're in a relationship? What actually makes someone a good partner? And why do the smallest things cause the biggest relationship arguments?
This week on Relatables, Jake and Ottie dive into modern dating, relationship boundaries, social media red flags and the unspoken rules of being a good partner.
From showering together after a night out to unsolicited dick pics and a disastrous first date involving a fedora, the boys unpack the awkward, hilarious and sometimes uncomfortable realities of dating.
Along the way, they discuss trust, communication, consent, social media expectations and whether we're putting too much pressure on relationships to look perfect online.
Expect questionable dating stories, honest relationship advice, plenty of laughs and a few uncomfortable truths.
In This Episode
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Instagram &amp; Relationship Boundaries: When does interacting with someone online cross the line?
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What Makes a Good Partner? The little things that build trust, respect and healthy relationships.
</li>
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Social Media Red Flags: How Instagram and online expectations affect modern dating.
</li>
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Dating Disasters: Unsolicited pictures, questionable decisions and a first-date fedora.
</li>
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Communication &amp; Consent: Navigating respect, boundaries and uncomfortable conversations.
</li>
<li>
Relationship Habits: The weird, funny and surprisingly important routines couples develop.
</li>
</ul>
Whether you're single, dating or in a long-term relationship, this episode is packed with relatable stories, dating dilemmas and honest conversations about love and relationships.

EP 48 - NO ONE WANTS A DI*K PIC FROM YOU!

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 BOOKCLUB: EMPIRE OF STORMS 37-50

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Would you sell your house to travel the world, or is that a quarter-life crisis waiting to happen?

This week on the Relatables Podcast, Jake and Ottie are tackling some big life dilemmas, questionable decisions and the everyday chaos that somehow always finds its way into the conversation.

From accidentally sending a bra photo to the wrong person and disastrous boat trips to a listener questioning whether she should sell her house to chase her dream of travelling the world, the boys unpack the fear of taking risks, choosing happiness over security and figuring out what you actually want from life.

Plus, should parents charge their adult children rent? Is staying comfortable holding you back? And when is it time to stop doing what society expects and start living for yourself?

Expect plenty of laughs, brutally honest advice, relationship and family dilemmas, and a few surprisingly wholesome moments.

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Would you sell your house to travel the world, or is that a quarter-life crisis waiting to happen?
This week on the Relatables Podcast, Jake and Ottie are tackling some big life dilemmas, questionable decisions and the everyday chaos that somehow always finds its way into the conversation.
From accidentally sending a bra photo to the wrong person and disastrous boat trips to a listener questioning whether she should sell her house to chase her dream of travelling the world, the boys unpack the fear of taking risks, choosing happiness over security and figuring out what you actually want from life.
Plus, should parents charge their adult children rent? Is staying comfortable holding you back? And when is it time to stop doing what society expects and start living for yourself?
Expect plenty of laughs, brutally honest advice, relationship and family dilemmas, and a few surprisingly wholesome moments.
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EP 47 - OUR WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER RUINED OUR PHOTOS!!

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**Dive into the world of fantasy with this episode's epic battle scenes and character developments!**

This episode of the podcast delves into the latest chapters of the book, where Aelin and her allies are preparing for a massive battle against the Valg. The speaker discusses the intricate plot twists and character arcs, including Lorcan's growing feelings for Elide and Aelin's determination to take down the Valg. The conversation also touches on the mythology of the world, including the sea dragons and the ancient magic that lies within.

The episode covers the group's plan to defeat the Valg, which involves a daring attack on their ships and a clever use of magic. Aelin's powers are put to the test as she faces off against the Valg, and the speaker discusses the symbolism behind her use of the word key and the moonfire. The conversation also explores the relationships between the characters, including Lorcan and Elide's budding romance and Aelin's complicated past with her friends.

One of the most exciting aspects of this episode is the introduction of new characters and plot threads, including the mysterious Deanna and the ancient magic that lies within the word key. The speaker's analysis of the story's themes and symbolism adds depth to the discussion, making this episode a must-listen for fans of the series.

If you're as invested in the world of this book as we are, you won't want to miss this episode's in-depth analysis and discussion of the latest plot twists. Join us as we dive into the world of fantasy and explore the complexities of the characters and their relationships. Listen to the full episode to hear our thoughts on the latest developments and get ready for the next installment of this epic series!

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**Dive into the world of fantasy with this episode's epic battle scenes and character developments!**
This episode of the podcast delves into the latest chapters of the book, where Aelin and her allies are preparing for a massive battle against the Valg. The speaker discusses the intricate plot twists and character arcs, including Lorcan's growing feelings for Elide and Aelin's determination to take down the Valg. The conversation also touches on the mythology of the world, including the sea dragons and the ancient magic that lies within.
The episode covers the group's plan to defeat the Valg, which involves a daring attack on their ships and a clever use of magic. Aelin's powers are put to the test as she faces off against the Valg, and the speaker discusses the symbolism behind her use of the word key and the moonfire. The conversation also explores the relationships between the characters, including Lorcan and Elide's budding romance and Aelin's complicated past with her friends.
One of the most exciting aspects of this episode is the introduction of new characters and plot threads, including the mysterious Deanna and the ancient magic that lies within the word key. The speaker's analysis of the story's themes and symbolism adds depth to the discussion, making this episode a must-listen for fans of the series.
If you're as invested in the world of this book as we are, you won't want to miss this episode's in-depth analysis and discussion of the latest plot twists. Join us as we dive into the world of fantasy and explore the complexities of the characters and their relationships. Listen to the full episode to hear our thoughts on the latest developments and get ready for the next installment of this epic series!

BOOKCLUB: EMPIRE OF STORMS 20-37

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Baddies, this week we're asking the important questions. Like, what’s something you thought was completely normal in a relationship until you realised it was actually toxic? 🚩 And why on earth is Jake tracking his shits?

We're getting into toxic relationship habits, family drama, setting boundaries with difficult relatives and the reality of calling out your own family when they say something racist.

We also unpack the patriarchy, the things we've been conditioned to accept as normal, and why some people really don't like being called out.

But don't worry, it's not all deep and meaningful. Jake's been studying the Bristol Stool Chart like he's preparing for his final exams, and honestly, we're concerned.

Plenty of laughs, a few questionable overshares and some conversations that might have you rethinking a thing or two.

Love you, Baddies. Enjoy the chaos.

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Baddies, this week we're asking the important questions. Like, what&rsquo;s something you thought was completely normal in a relationship until you realised it was actually toxic? 🚩 And why on earth is Jake tracking his shits?
We're getting into toxic relationship habits, family drama, setting boundaries with difficult relatives and the reality of calling out your own family when they say something racist.
We also unpack the patriarchy, the things we've been conditioned to accept as normal, and why some people really don't like being called out.
But don't worry, it's not all deep and meaningful. Jake's been studying the Bristol Stool Chart like he's preparing for his final exams, and honestly, we're concerned.
Plenty of laughs, a few questionable overshares and some conversations that might have you rethinking a thing or two.
Love you, Baddies. Enjoy the chaos.

EP 46 - HOW TO RECOGNISE  A BAD MAN?

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his episode of the podcast is a wild ride, full of twists and turns that will keep you on the edge of your seat. The hosts dive into the latest chapters of their book club, discussing the intricate world of Throne of Glass and the complex characters that inhabit it. From the mysterious and powerful Aelin to the cunning and charismatic Lorcan, the conversation is filled with theories, predictions, and debates about the fate of the characters and the direction of the story.

The hosts discuss the latest developments in the story, including the arrival of Aelin, Adion, and Lysandra in the town of Ilium, where they encounter Adelanian troops and a mysterious temple. They also delve into the history of the Mycenaeans, a group of crime lords who were said to have ridden sea dragons and played a significant role in a war. The conversation is peppered with references to the book's intricate mythology and the hosts' own theories about the story's direction.

As the discussion unfolds, the hosts touch on the relationships between the characters, including the complicated history between Manon and her grandmother, and the budding romance between Lorcan and Alide. They also speculate about the fate of Aelin and her court, and the potential role of the mysterious Maeve in the story.

If you're a fan of the Throne of Glass series, you won't want to miss this episode. The hosts' enthusiasm and knowledge of the series are infectious, and their discussion is filled with insights and predictions that will keep you guessing. Join the conversation and listen to the full episode to find out more about the latest developments in the world of Throne of Glass.

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his episode of the podcast is a wild ride, full of twists and turns that will keep you on the edge of your seat. The hosts dive into the latest chapters of their book club, discussing the intricate world of Throne of Glass and the complex characters that inhabit it. From the mysterious and powerful Aelin to the cunning and charismatic Lorcan, the conversation is filled with theories, predictions, and debates about the fate of the characters and the direction of the story.
The hosts discuss the latest developments in the story, including the arrival of Aelin, Adion, and Lysandra in the town of Ilium, where they encounter Adelanian troops and a mysterious temple. They also delve into the history of the Mycenaeans, a group of crime lords who were said to have ridden sea dragons and played a significant role in a war. The conversation is peppered with references to the book's intricate mythology and the hosts' own theories about the story's direction.
As the discussion unfolds, the hosts touch on the relationships between the characters, including the complicated history between Manon and her grandmother, and the budding romance between Lorcan and Alide. They also speculate about the fate of Aelin and her court, and the potential role of the mysterious Maeve in the story.
If you're a fan of the Throne of Glass series, you won't want to miss this episode. The hosts' enthusiasm and knowledge of the series are infectious, and their discussion is filled with insights and predictions that will keep you guessing. Join the conversation and listen to the full episode to find out more about the latest developments in the world of Throne of Glass.

BOOKCLUB: EMPIRE OF STORMS CH 12-20

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It's all fun, games and plenty of laughs on The Relatables Podcast, but somewhere between the banter, Jake and Ottie find themselves tackling some pretty important conversations.

Why do some men get so defensive when women speak about their experiences? And why is it so hard for men to call out other men?

In this episode, Jake and Ottie dive into modern masculinity, men's behaviour, relationships, empathy and the growing divide between men and women.

We unpack why conversations about women's safety can leave some men feeling personally attacked, how zero-sum thinking is damaging the way we communicate, and why holding your mates accountable is one of the most important things men can do.

We also discuss the disturbing Cornell Seven case, the culture surrounding problematic male behaviour, and why staying silent isn't always as harmless as we might think.

Along the way, there's plenty of laughs, personal stories, relationship advice and the usual ridiculous conversations that somehow turn into something meaningful.

It's a mix of humour, honesty and some uncomfortable truths about masculinity, accountability and understanding each other better.

Whether you're here for a laugh, a different perspective or just two mates figuring life out as they go, there's something in this episode for you.

Welcome to The Relatables Podcast.

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It's all fun, games and plenty of laughs on The Relatables Podcast, but somewhere between the banter, Jake and Ottie find themselves tackling some pretty important conversations.
Why do some men get so defensive when women speak about their experiences? And why is it so hard for men to call out other men?
In this episode, Jake and Ottie dive into modern masculinity, men's behaviour, relationships, empathy and the growing divide between men and women.
We unpack why conversations about women's safety can leave some men feeling personally attacked, how zero-sum thinking is damaging the way we communicate, and why holding your mates accountable is one of the most important things men can do.
We also discuss the disturbing Cornell Seven case, the culture surrounding problematic male behaviour, and why staying silent isn't always as harmless as we might think.
Along the way, there's plenty of laughs, personal stories, relationship advice and the usual ridiculous conversations that somehow turn into something meaningful.
It's a mix of humour, honesty and some uncomfortable truths about masculinity, accountability and understanding each other better.
Whether you're here for a laugh, a different perspective or just two mates figuring life out as they go, there's something in this episode for you.
Welcome to The Relatables Podcast.

EP 45 - WHY DO MEN GET SO DEFENSIVE ABOUT WOMEN'S EXPERIENCES?

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BOOKCLUB: EMPIRE OF STORMS 0-20....

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This week on The Relatables Podcast, Jake and Ottie are asking the important questions… Are little white lies actually harmless, or are we all just terrible people pretending to be nice? 👀

From lying about a shocking haircut to the little things we tell our partners to keep the peace, the boys unpack when it's okay to bend the truth (and when you’re just being a dick).

Things get a little more serious when a Baddie writes in about a controlling partner who's making her uncomfortable. Jake and Ottie get into relationship boundaries, navigating conflict and knowing when something just isn't right.

And because no Relatables episode would be complete without an absolutely ridiculous business idea, the boys are back with their latest invention: a bed divider for couples who love each other… just not enough to share their side of the bed. Sarah joins the conversation to help decide whether they're sitting on a million-dollar idea or have completely lost the plot.

Expect questionable advice, plenty of oversharing, a few heated debates and the usual Jake and Ottie chaos.

Love ya, Baddies! 💜

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This week on The Relatables Podcast, Jake and Ottie are asking the important questions&hellip; Are little white lies actually harmless, or are we all just terrible people pretending to be nice? 👀
From lying about a shocking haircut to the little things we tell our partners to keep the peace, the boys unpack when it's okay to bend the truth (and when you&rsquo;re just being a dick).
Things get a little more serious when a Baddie writes in about a controlling partner who's making her uncomfortable. Jake and Ottie get into relationship boundaries, navigating conflict and knowing when something just isn't right.
And because no Relatables episode would be complete without an absolutely ridiculous business idea, the boys are back with their latest invention: a bed divider for couples who love each other&hellip; just not enough to share their side of the bed. Sarah joins the conversation to help decide whether they're sitting on a million-dollar idea or have completely lost the plot.
Expect questionable advice, plenty of oversharing, a few heated debates and the usual Jake and Ottie chaos.
Love ya, Baddies! 💜

EP 44 - YOU SHOULD LIE TO YOUR PARTNER?!

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BOOKCLUB: QUEEN OF SHADOWS FINALE

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Welcome to the Relatables Podcast with Jake and Ottie! Your metaphorical shoulder to cry on, the soundtrack to your hot girl walks and your pick-me-up... Come with us as we try to navigate this funny place we call ‘life’. Our aim is to light up your day, find a sense of belonging and support all the girls in their quest to understand the modern man. We're the most relatable guys on the internet.

Welcome to the Relatables Podcast with Jake and Ottie! Your metaphorical shoulder to cry on, the soundtrack to your hot girl walks and your pick-me-up... Come with us as we try to navigate this funny place we call &lsquo;life&rsquo;. Our aim is to light up your day, find a sense of belonging and support all the girls in their quest to understand the modern man. We're the most relatable guys on the internet.

Welcome to the Relatables Podcast with Jake and Ottie! Your metaphorical shoulder to cry on, the soundtrack to your hot girl walks and your pick-me-up.

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