Rebuilding Us: Marriage PodcastI’m joined by my husband, Shaun, to discuss the sometimes complicated world of gift-giving in a relationship. If you’ve ever found yourself debating with your spouse or partner over how much money you spend on gifts, how much is “too much,” or how to honor each other's money habits, this conversation is for you.
Shaun and I get real about our different financial personalities—me as the frugal saver who values experiences over things, and Shaun as the generous giver who believes in creating smiles through thoughtful presents. We share how our upbringings shaped these perspectives and how they lead to “spirited” conversations around the holidays, birthdays, and everyday giving.
Key Takeaways:
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Value and respect each other’s approach to giving
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Don’t go into debt for holiday gifts—find ways to bless your loved ones within your means
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Set a simple holiday budget or gift limit to relieve stress
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Recognize when old money stories (like scarcity thinking) are influencing your present
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Focus on connection—sometimes a heartfelt note means more than any wrapped package
Resources Mentioned in this Episode:
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