Welcome back to the show! Coming up today: Does society have a weird sense of ownership over mothers? And if so, where does it stem from? What’s it connected to? And what does beauty, sex, and money have to do with it? 

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This podcast was recorded on the lands of the Boon Wurong people of the Kulin Nation. The land on which we're lucky enough to raise our sons and daughters always was and always will be Aboriginal land. We Pay The Rent and you can too here.

Welcome back to the show! Coming up today: Does society have a weird sense of ownership over mothers? And if so, where does it stem from? What&rsquo;s it connected to? And what does beauty, sex, and money have to do with it?&nbsp;
Got a question? <a href="https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScvRGMyKUqLpCtebfbYgc3sDSuVDBiKteZvDMu3nBddhzdJ6A/viewform">Submit it here!&nbsp;</a>
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Thanks for listening! If you liked the show, please tell your friends, subscribe or write a review, it supports the show more than you think.
You can also find us on Instagram:
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This podcast was recorded on the lands of the Boon Wurong people of the Kulin Nation. The land on which we're lucky enough to raise our sons and daughters always was and always will be Aboriginal land. We Pay The Rent and you can too <a href="https://paytherent.net.au/">here</a>.

The podcast for and about mums who make work, work, brought to you by two sort of cousins Loz (mum of three) and Lu (mum of two). Each Monday, we banter on all things motherhood, feminism, career, ambition, and pop culture. Thursdays, we answer three listener questions on all things motherhood and career. As an extension of the motherhood/career conversation, each month, you'll also find an interview with a real mum that's definitely not doing it all, but rather, doing her best to navigate it all. Find us at https://www.instagram.com/readyornot.pod/?hl=en

The podcast for and about mums who make work, work, brought to you by two sort of cousins Loz (mum of three) and Lu (mum of two). Each Monday, we banter on all things motherhood, feminism, career, ambition, and pop culture. Thursdays, we answer three listener questions on all things motherhood and career. As an extension of the motherhood/career conversation, each month, you'll also find an interview with a real mum that's definitely not doing it all, but rather, doing her best to navigate it all. Find us at https://www.instagram.com/readyornot.pod/?hl=en

The podcast for and about mums who make work, work, brought to you by two sort of cousins Loz (mum of three) and Lu (mum of two).

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How society uses sex, money & beauty to control mums

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DEAR READY OR NOT: What do you do when you're made redundant on maternity leave? Should you feel guilty taking a second round of parental leave when you're still relatively new in the job? And is it time to walk away from a high-paying job that's boring?

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This podcast was recorded on the lands of the Boon Wurong people of the Kulin Nation. The land on which we're lucky enough to raise our sons and daughters always was and always will be Aboriginal land. We Pay The Rent and you can too here.

DEAR READY OR NOT: What do you do when you're made redundant on maternity leave? Should you feel guilty taking a second round of parental leave when you're still relatively new in the job? And is it time to walk away from a high-paying job that's boring?
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Got a question? <a href="https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScvRGMyKUqLpCtebfbYgc3sDSuVDBiKteZvDMu3nBddhzdJ6A/viewform">Submit it here!&nbsp;</a>
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<a href="https://www.instagram.com/lucindamckimm_/">@lucindamckimm_</a>
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This podcast was recorded on the lands of the Boon Wurong people of the Kulin Nation. The land on which we're lucky enough to raise our sons and daughters always was and always will be Aboriginal land. We Pay The Rent and you can too <a href="https://paytherent.net.au/">here</a>.

“I was made redundant on maternity leave. Help!”

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When I noticed a new follower notification pop up just a few months ago, with some 300 followers and the Instagram handle @youwanted.this, I was intrigued by the name. Immediately, I had a pretty good idea of what the content might look like, and I was right: its creator - Ashley Brooks-Garrett – was clearly passionate about exploring feminism, life, and work through the lens of motherhood and womanhood.

In the short time since I first started noticing her content, she’s built a much bigger following: an audience made up of people who are either enraged or in full support of the topics she explores so thoughtfully and thoroughly, through social media, Substack, and her mental load app, Tether, too.

So today, we find out more about the mother and the brains behind it all: what her career life has looked like, what her motherhood journey has entailed so far, what drove her to the work she’s doing now, and why a woman that calls it how it is, is immediately branded as negative, complaining, and as you’ll hear from Ashley herself, far worse, too. 

This conversation set a fire within my brain, as we talk about so many of the issues that mothers and women face today, so I hope you like listening as much as I did.

I’m Lucinda, this is Ready or Not, and here’s the clever and candid Ashley Brooks-Garrett. 

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When I noticed a new follower notification pop up just a few months ago, with some 300 followers and the Instagram handle @youwanted.this, I was intrigued by the name. Immediately, I had a pretty good idea of what the content might look like, and I was right: its creator - Ashley Brooks-Garrett &ndash; was clearly passionate about exploring feminism, life, and work through the lens of motherhood and womanhood.
In the short time since I first started noticing her content, she&rsquo;s built a much bigger following: an audience made up of people who are either enraged or in full support of the topics she explores so thoughtfully and thoroughly, through social media, Substack, and her mental load app, Tether, too.
So today, we find out more about the mother and the brains behind it all: what her career life has looked like, what her motherhood journey has entailed so far, what drove her to the work she&rsquo;s doing now, and why a woman that calls it how it is, is immediately branded as negative, complaining, and as you&rsquo;ll hear from Ashley herself, far worse, too.&nbsp;
This conversation set a fire within my brain, as we talk about so many of the issues that mothers and women face today, so I hope you like listening as much as I did.
I&rsquo;m Lucinda, this is Ready or Not, and here&rsquo;s the clever and candid Ashley Brooks-Garrett.&nbsp;
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Got a question? <a href="https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScvRGMyKUqLpCtebfbYgc3sDSuVDBiKteZvDMu3nBddhzdJ6A/viewform">Submit it here!&nbsp;</a>
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The mythical history of women and work with Ashley Brooks-Garrett

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DEAR READY OR NOT: What do you do when your child will only eat beige food? How to manage being a working mum without a village and should I have a third baby at 40?

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This podcast was recorded on the lands of the Boon Wurong people of the Kulin Nation. The land on which we're lucky enough to raise our sons and daughters always was and always will be Aboriginal land. We Pay The Rent and you can too here

DEAR READY OR NOT: What do you do when your child will only eat beige food? How to manage being a working mum without a village and should I have a third baby at 40?
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Got a question? <a href="https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScvRGMyKUqLpCtebfbYgc3sDSuVDBiKteZvDMu3nBddhzdJ6A/viewform">Submit it here!&nbsp;</a>
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Thanks for listening! If you liked the show, please tell your friends, subscribe or write a review.
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You can also find us on Instagram:
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<a href="https://www.instagram.com/laurentreweek_/">@laurentreweek_</a>
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/lucindamckimm_/">@lucindamckimm_ </a>
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This podcast was recorded on the lands of the Boon Wurong people of the Kulin Nation. The land on which we're lucky enough to raise our sons and daughters always was and always will be Aboriginal land. We Pay The Rent and you can too <a href="https://paytherent.net.au/">here</a>

Help! My kid only eats beige food or vegemite on toast

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