In this episode of Radical Reframe, host Vashti Whitfield engages in a deep conversation with Kiz Harvey, a reinvention coach, about her transformative journey through divorce, grief, and personal growth. We explore how she is finding new paths to intimacy, love, and fulfilment, and creating a new vision for personal and professional success. Kiz shares her experiences of estrangement from her son, the emotional toll of divorce, and the importance of self-care and mindfulness in navigating life's challenges. The discussion emphasises the significance of understanding one's identity post-divorce and the role of shame in the healing process. Ultimately, Kiz encourages listeners to embrace their journey of reinvention and to find joy amidst the struggles.

🔖 resilience, divorce, grief, self-care, emotional healing, family dynamics, personal growth, mindfulness, relationship

Key Takeaways:
Kiz faced profound transformation after her divorce at 49.
Estrangement from her son was a significant emotional challenge.
Shame often accompanies the end of a marriage.
Self-care is crucial during times of emotional upheaval.
Reinvention involves understanding who you are without your partner.
Mindfulness can aid in navigating relationships post-divorce.
It's important to allow yourself moments of joy.
The journey of healing is not linear; it involves ups and downs.
You have permission to thrive after hardship.

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Continue the conversation with Kiz - https://www.instagram.com/kizmet.me/

https://www.kizmet.me/

Series Produced by - www.sessioninprogress.com.au



Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Reinvention and Resilience

02:50 The Journey of Transformation

06:06 Navigating Grief and Loss

09:01 The Impact of Divorce on Family Dynamics

11:52 Understanding Divorce and Its Emotional Toll

15:01 Reinventing Self After Divorce

17:56 The Role of Shame in Divorce

20:58 Finding Purpose and Intention

24:10 The Importance of Self-Care

27:14 Creating a New Identity

29:50 Mindfulness in Relationships

33:01 Final Thoughts on Reinvention

In this episode of Radical Reframe, host Vashti Whitfield engages in a deep conversation with Kiz Harvey, a reinvention coach, about her transformative journey through divorce, grief, and personal growth. We explore how she is finding new paths to intimacy, love, and fulfilment, and creating a new vision for personal and professional success. Kiz shares her experiences of estrangement from her son, the emotional toll of divorce, and the importance of self-care and mindfulness in navigating life's challenges. The discussion emphasises the significance of understanding one's identity post-divorce and the role of shame in the healing process. Ultimately, Kiz encourages listeners to embrace their journey of reinvention and to find joy amidst the struggles.
🔖 resilience, divorce, grief, self-care, emotional healing, family dynamics, personal growth, mindfulness, relationship
Key Takeaways:
<ul>
<li>Kiz faced profound transformation after her divorce at 49.</li>
<li>Estrangement from her son was a significant emotional challenge.</li>
<li>Shame often accompanies the end of a marriage.</li>
<li>Self-care is crucial during times of emotional upheaval.</li>
<li>Reinvention involves understanding who you are without your partner.</li>
<li>Mindfulness can aid in navigating relationships post-divorce.</li>
<li>It's important to allow yourself moments of joy.</li>
<li>The journey of healing is not linear; it involves ups and downs.</li>
<li>You have permission to thrive after hardship.</li>
</ul>
<ul></ul>
Join the Radical Reframe - <a href="https://www.vashti-whitfield.com/">https://www.vashti-whitfield.com/</a>
Follow the journey and learnings - <a href="https://www.instagram.com/vashtiwhitfield/">https://www.instagram.com/vashtiwhitfield/</a>
Continue the conversation with Kiz - <a href="https://www.instagram.com/kizmet.me/">https://www.instagram.com/kizmet.me/</a>
<a href="https://www.kizmet.me/">https://www.kizmet.me/</a>
Series Produced by - <a href="http://www.sessioninprogress.com.au">www.sessioninprogress.com.au</a>
 
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Reinvention and Resilience
02:50 The Journey of Transformation
06:06 Navigating Grief and Loss
09:01 The Impact of Divorce on Family Dynamics
11:52 Understanding Divorce and Its Emotional Toll
15:01 Reinventing Self After Divorce
17:56 The Role of Shame in Divorce
20:58 Finding Purpose and Intention
24:10 The Importance of Self-Care
27:14 Creating a New Identity
29:50 Mindfulness in Relationships
33:01 Final Thoughts on Reinvention

Turning Grit into Gold and Pain into Purpose

Turning Grit into Gold and Pain into Purpose

Radical Reframe - with Vashti Whitfield

Turning Grit into Gold and Pain into Purpose 

Turning Grit into Gold and Pain into Purpose

Life, Sex, and Intimacy After Divorce - Kiz Harvey on Redefining Fulfillment and Relationships

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This conversation delves into the themes of authenticity, grief, personal growth, and the complexities of loss. Vashti Whitfield sits down with her son Jesse to reflect on their experiences with the loss of their partner and father, the impact of Andy as a figure in their lives, and the duality of life events. They explore how grief shapes identity and the importance of embracing both the pain and growth that come from such experiences. The discussion also touches on privilege and the varying perspectives on life and loss, ultimately emphasising the need for open conversations about these topics. They explore the complexities of navigating personal change, societal expectations, and the impact of social media on self-image while also being authentic about the balance between consumption and self-care, and the necessity of embracing the full spectrum of life experiences, including loss. 


🔖authentic conversations, grief, loss, personal growth, privilege, family dynamics, identity, acceptance, change, father figures, self-acceptance, social media, authenticity, personal growth, mental health, aging, expectations, relationships, mindfulness, life lessons

Key Takeaways:
Authenticity is key in conversations about life and loss.
Grief can lead to personal growth and understanding.
The identity of a father figure can be complex for those who have lost one.
It's important to celebrate the memories of lost loved ones.
Loss can be reframed as an opportunity for growth.
Understanding privilege can shape our perspectives on life experiences.
Children often process grief differently than adults.
Integrating sadness and happiness is essential in coping with loss.
Life is a duality of experiences, including grief and joy.
Open conversations about grief can help normalize the experience. The journey of self-acceptance is ongoing and complex.
Expectations can be overwhelming, especially in the context of aging.
Social media often distorts our self-image and creates unrealistic standards.
Authenticity is key to inspiring others and ourselves.
It's important to focus on what we can control, not what we can't.
Finding balance in consumption—both of media and material goods—is crucial.
Life is about experiencing a range of emotions, not just happiness.
Loss can lead to a deeper appreciation for what we have.
Detachment from outcomes can enhance our presence in relationships.
We all have different ways of processing loss and privilege.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Radical Reframe

02:51 Authenticity in Conversations

03:48 Exploring Loss and Life Choices

07:29 Career Aspirations and Personal Values

11:46 Privilege and Perspective on Loss

14:09 Gains from Loss and Personal Growth

20:09 Navigating Grief and Memory

24:18 Creating Space for Grief

26:13 Integrating Grief and Joy

29:30 Children's Perspective on Loss

31:57 Cultural Attitudes Towards Death

33:55 Acceptance of Change and Loss

37:14 Navigating Expectations in Midlife

41:35 Capacity vs. Capability

43:30 Mindfulness in Self-Image

49:11 Confronting Mortality 

This conversation delves into the themes of authenticity, grief, personal growth, and the complexities of loss. Vashti Whitfield sits down with her son Jesse to reflect on their experiences with the loss of their partner and father, the impact of Andy as a figure in their lives, and the duality of life events. They explore how grief shapes identity and the importance of embracing both the pain and growth that come from such experiences. The discussion also touches on privilege and the varying perspectives on life and loss, ultimately emphasising the need for open conversations about these topics. They explore the complexities of navigating personal change, societal expectations, and the impact of social media on self-image while also being authentic about the balance between consumption and self-care, and the necessity of embracing the full spectrum of life experiences, including loss.&nbsp;
 🔖authentic conversations, grief, loss, personal growth, privilege, family dynamics, identity, acceptance, change, father figures, self-acceptance, social media, authenticity, personal growth, mental health, aging, expectations, relationships, mindfulness, life lessons
Key Takeaways:
<ul>
<li>Authenticity is key in conversations about life and loss.</li>
<li>Grief can lead to personal growth and understanding.</li>
<li>The identity of a father figure can be complex for those who have lost one.</li>
<li>It's important to celebrate the memories of lost loved ones.</li>
<li>Loss can be reframed as an opportunity for growth.</li>
<li>Understanding privilege can shape our perspectives on life experiences.</li>
<li>Children often process grief differently than adults.</li>
<li>Integrating sadness and happiness is essential in coping with loss.</li>
<li>Life is a duality of experiences, including grief and joy.</li>
<li>Open conversations about grief can help normalize the experience. The journey of self-acceptance is ongoing and complex.</li>
<li>Expectations can be overwhelming, especially in the context of aging.</li>
<li>Social media often distorts our self-image and creates unrealistic standards.</li>
<li>Authenticity is key to inspiring others and ourselves.</li>
<li>It's important to focus on what we can control, not what we can't.</li>
<li>Finding balance in consumption&mdash;both of media and material goods&mdash;is crucial.</li>
<li>Life is about experiencing a range of emotions, not just happiness.</li>
<li>Loss can lead to a deeper appreciation for what we have.</li>
<li>Detachment from outcomes can enhance our presence in relationships.</li>
<li>We all have different ways of processing loss and privilege.</li>
</ul>
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Radical Reframe
02:51 Authenticity in Conversations
03:48 Exploring Loss and Life Choices
07:29 Career Aspirations and Personal Values
11:46 Privilege and Perspective on Loss
14:09 Gains from Loss and Personal Growth
20:09 Navigating Grief and Memory
24:18 Creating Space for Grief
26:13 Integrating Grief and Joy
29:30 Children's Perspective on Loss
31:57 Cultural Attitudes Towards Death
33:55 Acceptance of Change and Loss
37:14 Navigating Expectations in Midlife
41:35 Capacity vs. Capability
43:30 Mindfulness in Self-Image
49:11 Confronting Mortality&nbsp;

A mothers cub now a lion | A conversation with Jesse Whitfield

In this VSpot, Vashti delves into the themes of vulnerability, anxiety, and the nature of resilience. We explore how these elements intersect with personal transformation and mental health, emphasising the importance of seeking help and redefining bravery. We highlight the need for open conversations about mental health, particularly among men, and encourage listeners to embrace vulnerability as a strength and to turn their pain into purpose.

🏷️ vulnerability, anxiety, mental health, disability, resilience, personal transformation, seeking help, authenticity, bravery, emotional well-being

Key Takeaways
Vulnerability is not a weakness but a strength.
Anxiety can manifest in various forms and needs to be addressed.
Disability is a universal experience that can affect anyone.
The importance of seeking help and breaking the silence around mental health.
Redefining bravery involves sharing one's truth and experiences.
Shame can thrive in silence, making it crucial to speak out.
Personal transformation often comes from embracing vulnerability.
Understanding the nature of disability can foster empathy and connection.
Men are encouraged to express their feelings and seek support.
Turning pain into purpose can lead to profound personal growth.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Vulnerability and Business Dynamics

02:58 Exploring Anxiety and Its Impact

06:01 The Nature of Disability and Its Universal Impact

08:56 The Power of Vulnerability in Personal Transformation

12:10 Understanding Mental Health and Seeking Help

14:56 Redefining Bravery and Authenticity

18:01 Conclusion: Turning Pain into Purpose

In this VSpot, Vashti delves into the themes of vulnerability, anxiety, and the nature of resilience. We explore how these elements intersect with personal transformation and mental health, emphasising the importance of seeking help and redefining bravery. We highlight the need for open conversations about mental health, particularly among men, and encourage listeners to embrace vulnerability as a strength and to turn their pain into purpose.
🏷️ vulnerability, anxiety, mental health, disability, resilience, personal transformation, seeking help, authenticity, bravery, emotional well-being
Key Takeaways
<ul>
<li>Vulnerability is not a weakness but a strength.</li>
<li>Anxiety can manifest in various forms and needs to be addressed.</li>
<li>Disability is a universal experience that can affect anyone.</li>
<li>The importance of seeking help and breaking the silence around mental health.</li>
<li>Redefining bravery involves sharing one's truth and experiences.</li>
<li>Shame can thrive in silence, making it crucial to speak out.</li>
<li>Personal transformation often comes from embracing vulnerability.</li>
<li>Understanding the nature of disability can foster empathy and connection.</li>
<li>Men are encouraged to express their feelings and seek support.</li>
<li>Turning pain into purpose can lead to profound personal growth.</li>
</ul>
 Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Vulnerability and Business Dynamics
02:58 Exploring Anxiety and Its Impact
06:01 The Nature of Disability and Its Universal Impact
08:56 The Power of Vulnerability in Personal Transformation
12:10 Understanding Mental Health and Seeking Help
14:56 Redefining Bravery and Authenticity
18:01 Conclusion: Turning Pain into Purpose

Navigating Anxiety: Your personal Journey | VSpot

Chance Burns recounts how a life-changing accident led him to discover a new sense of freedom and purpose, turning adversity into a powerful catalyst for personal and professional growth.



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https://chanceburns.com.au/

Series Produced by - www.sessioninprogress.com.au

Chance Burns recounts how a life-changing accident led him to discover a new sense of freedom and purpose, turning adversity into a powerful catalyst for personal and professional growth.
 
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Continue the conversation with Chance - <a href="https://www.instagram.com/chanceburns/">https://www.instagram.com/chanceburns/</a>
<a href="https://chanceburns.com.au/">https://chanceburns.com.au/</a>
Series Produced by - <a href="http://www.sessioninprogress.com.au">www.sessioninprogress.com.au</a>

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