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Hey yall! This episode we discuss placeholders in dating, following your heart, sex on the first date and more! 
 
Get 10 meals + free shipping with code POURMINDS10 from <a href="http://www.hellofresh.com">www.hellofresh.com</a> 
 
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Two single Houstonians residing in Atlanta, Drea and Lex are navigating their way through life, friendships and dating. Discussing all the hot topics while getting lit on their favorite wine along the way! Just like having a good ol' drunk therapy session with your friends, pull up a chair, join the convo and wine down!

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You Just A Temporary Placeholder, Hun

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This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole kick off the new year with a solo episode, just the two of them, catching up and getting honest as they step into 2026.

The girls talk lifestyle shifts, Dry January (or the attempt at it), fitness journeys, and the pressure that comes with trying to “reset” every new year. From debating cutting back on drinking to unpacking personal habits they’re actively working through, this episode is all about growth without pretending perfection exists.

Lex and Drea also dive into relationships and boundaries—why more women are choosing not to live with men, how cleanliness and personal space can make or break a relationship, and the difference between standards and control. They touch on beauty trends, filler culture, and the quiet insecurity that can come with chasing an ever-changing look online.

Things take a deeper turn as they discuss friendship fallouts, family betrayal, letting go of people who no longer serve you, and whether everything really deserves closure. The conversation wraps with candid talk about aging, sex, libido myths, flakiness, accountability, and why communication still matters, even when you’re tired.

This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole kick off the new year with a solo episode, just the two of them, catching up and getting honest as they step into 2026.
The girls talk lifestyle shifts, Dry January (or the attempt at it), fitness journeys, and the pressure that comes with trying to &ldquo;reset&rdquo; every new year. From debating cutting back on drinking to unpacking personal habits they&rsquo;re actively working through, this episode is all about growth without pretending perfection exists.
Lex and Drea also dive into relationships and boundaries&mdash;why more women are choosing not to live with men, how cleanliness and personal space can make or break a relationship, and the difference between standards and control. They touch on beauty trends, filler culture, and the quiet insecurity that can come with chasing an ever-changing look online.
Things take a deeper turn as they discuss friendship fallouts, family betrayal, letting go of people who no longer serve you, and whether everything really deserves closure. The conversation wraps with candid talk about aging, sex, libido myths, flakiness, accountability, and why communication still matters, even when you&rsquo;re tired.

Look At That Donkey

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This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole are joined by the queen of reinvention herself — India Love — for an honest, vulnerable, and hilarious conversation that covers everything.

India opens up about growing up on the internet, being one of the original influencers before social media was even a job, and how she’s navigated fame, criticism, and constant reinvention. From her Tumblr days to reality TV, music, and now Twitch streaming, she breaks down what it really takes to stay relevant without losing yourself.

The girls get into her viral streamer awards moment (yes, that moment), internet backlash, learning accountability, and why she’s currently taking a break from alcohol and dating to focus on her relationship with God. India also gets real about OnlyFans, money, family, and the moment that made her walk away from it all.

Of course, it wouldn’t be Pour Minds without a little mess — the ladies play Love It or Leave It, talk celebrity dating (or not ), men chasing women they can’t have, soul ties, boundaries, and why turning 30 hits different.

This episode is funny, raw, reflective, and full of growth — a reminder that evolution isn’t always pretty, but it’s always necessary.

This week on&nbsp;Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole are joined by the queen of reinvention herself &mdash; India Love &mdash; for an honest, vulnerable, and hilarious conversation that covers everything.
India opens up about growing up on the internet, being one of the original influencers before social media was even a job, and how she&rsquo;s navigated fame, criticism, and constant reinvention. From her Tumblr days to reality TV, music, and now Twitch streaming, she breaks down what it really takes to stay relevant without losing yourself.
The girls get into her viral streamer awards moment (yes, that moment), internet backlash, learning accountability, and why she&rsquo;s currently taking a break from alcohol and dating to focus on her relationship with God. India also gets real about OnlyFans, money, family, and the moment that made her walk away from it all.
Of course, it wouldn&rsquo;t be Pour Minds without a little mess &mdash; the ladies play Love It or Leave It, talk celebrity dating (or not ), men chasing women they can&rsquo;t have, soul ties, boundaries, and why turning 30 hits different.
This episode is funny, raw, reflective, and full of growth &mdash; a reminder that evolution isn&rsquo;t always pretty, but it&rsquo;s always necessary.

Cant Fake It Ft. India Love

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The girls are back on the couch — and this time, they’re joined by media personality, journalist, and fitness baddie Kayla Nicole. From the jump, it’s laughs, honesty, and real conversations as Lex P and Drea Nicole sit down with someone they’ve been watching, respecting, and rooting for for a long time.

The trio gets into everything from Kayla’s journey in media, her early days at TMZ, and what it really takes to survive in entertainment when the internet won’t let you forget your past. They talk reinvention, public perception, and why letting comments shape your identity will burn you out faster than anything else.

Things get real as they unpack fitness as therapy, mental health, discipline, and why movement isn’t just about bodies — it’s about clarity, confidence, and sanity. Kayla opens up about building her own lane, protecting her peace, and learning when to speak up versus when to let people talk.

Of course, it wouldn’t be Pour Minds without the chaos. The conversation spirals into shooting your shot in 2026 (no more hint-dropping), dating fatigue, freezing eggs vs. trusting the timeline, and whether your sexual past is allowed to stay in the past — including a hilarious debate about “retiring” from things you once did in the bedroom.

Funny, honest, and full of grown-woman gems, this episode is all about growth, boundaries, self-trust, and realizing you don’t owe the internet an explanation for who you used to be.

The girls are back on the couch &mdash; and this time, they&rsquo;re joined by media personality, journalist, and fitness baddie Kayla Nicole. From the jump, it&rsquo;s laughs, honesty, and real conversations as Lex P and Drea Nicole sit down with someone they&rsquo;ve been watching, respecting, and rooting for for a long time.
The trio gets into everything from Kayla&rsquo;s journey in media, her early days at TMZ, and what it really takes to survive in entertainment when the internet won&rsquo;t let you forget your past. They talk reinvention, public perception, and why letting comments shape your identity will burn you out faster than anything else.
Things get real as they unpack fitness as therapy, mental health, discipline, and why movement isn&rsquo;t just about bodies &mdash; it&rsquo;s about clarity, confidence, and sanity. Kayla opens up about building her own lane, protecting her peace, and learning when to speak up versus when to let people talk.
Of course, it wouldn&rsquo;t be Pour Minds without the chaos. The conversation spirals into shooting your shot in 2026 (no more hint-dropping), dating fatigue, freezing eggs vs. trusting the timeline, and whether your sexual past is allowed to stay in the past &mdash; including a hilarious debate about &ldquo;retiring&rdquo; from things you once did in the bedroom.
Funny, honest, and full of grown-woman gems, this episode is all about growth, boundaries, self-trust, and realizing you don&rsquo;t owe the internet an explanation for who you used to be.

Egg Rent ft. Kayla Nicole

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