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Overnights with Mike Jeffreys -  Monday 19th May

Mike is joined by dating coach Karina Chapman, founder of Aligned Connections, to chat about her experience watching the new film Materialists.

While she expected to assess the matchmaking angle, Karina and her friends ended up discussing a surprising subtheme—height.

In the movie, two wealthy brothers undergo leg-lengthening surgery to boost their dating and business prospects.

It’s a real-world issue too. Tinder recently added a height preference feature, sparking backlash—especially from shorter men who already feel judged.

Karina says whether you’re a short guy or a tall girl, focusing too much on height can cause you to overlook a truly great match.

Mike is joined by dating coach Karina Chapman, founder of Aligned Connections, to chat about her experience watching the new film Materialists.
While she expected to assess the matchmaking angle, Karina and her friends ended up discussing a surprising subtheme&mdash;height.
In the movie, two wealthy brothers undergo leg-lengthening surgery to boost their dating and business prospects.
It&rsquo;s a real-world issue too. Tinder recently added a height preference feature, sparking backlash&mdash;especially from shorter men who already feel judged.
Karina says whether you&rsquo;re a short guy or a tall girl, focusing too much on height can cause you to overlook a truly great match.

The lengths short men will go to for love

Overnights with Mike Jeffreys - Monday 16th June

Relationships don’t have to be perfect - but they should feel mutual.

Bronwyn Penhaligon, Strategic Psychotherapist reveals to Mike that she sees so many people stuck in patterns where they’re always the one giving, explaining, or adjusting, while the other person stays passive or dismissive.

Over time, that kind of imbalance chips away at self-worth.

A relationship worth investing in is one where you feel safe to be honest, effort goes
both ways and growth is possible.

If it’s only working when you are working overtime, it may not be a partnership - it
might be a project.

So, ask yourself - “Do I feel more like myself in this relationship, or less?”  Your answer will tell you a lot.

When you’re around the right people you don’t shrink, you feel seen, respected, and
supported.

Don’t ignore that data. As the saying goes, if it costs you your peace, it’s too
expensive.

Relationships don&rsquo;t have to be perfect - but they should feel mutual.
Bronwyn Penhaligon, Strategic Psychotherapist reveals to Mike that she sees so many people stuck in patterns where they&rsquo;re always the one giving, explaining, or adjusting, while the other person stays passive or dismissive.
Over time, that kind of imbalance chips away at self-worth.
A relationship worth investing in is one where you feel safe to be honest, effort goes both ways and growth is possible.
If it&rsquo;s only working when you are working overtime, it may not be a partnership - it might be a project.
So, ask yourself - &ldquo;Do I feel more like myself in this relationship, or less?&rdquo;&nbsp; Your answer will tell you a lot.
When you&rsquo;re around the right people you don&rsquo;t shrink, you feel seen, respected, and supported.
Don&rsquo;t ignore that data. As the saying goes, if it costs you your peace, it&rsquo;s too expensive.

Overnights with Mike Jeffreys - Monday 19th May

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