Are you a perfectionist? It is totally fine if you answered yes!

On this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty tells stories about how he overcame the perfectionist mindset and provides six simple steps for you to do it too. 

Are you a perfectionist? It is totally fine if you answered yes!
On this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty tells stories about how he overcame the perfectionist mindset and provides six simple steps for you to do it too.

I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace.

I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace.
I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

My name is Jay Shetty, and my purpose is to make wisdom go viral. I’m fortunate to have fascinating conversations with the most insightful people in the world, and on my podcast, I’m sharing those conversations with you. New episodes Mondays and Fridays. Please rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. Live life today ON PURPOSE.

My name is Jay Shetty, and my purpose is to make wisdom go viral. I’m fortunate to have fascinating conversations with the most insightful people in the world, and on my podcast, I’m sharing those conversations with you. New episodes Mondays and Fridays. Please rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. Live life today ON PURPOSE.

Are you a perfectionist? It is totally fine if you answered yes!

On this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty tells stories about how he overcame the perfectionist mindset and provides six simple steps for you to do it too.

6 Steps to Overcome the Perfectionist Mindset and Focus On the Process

How do you identify when you're restricting your desires in a relationship?

How can couples work together to align their desires and ensure mutual fulfillment?

Today, Jay welcomes back his good friend Lisa Bilyeu. Lisa is a co-founder of the billion-dollar brand Quest Nutrition and the president of Impact Theory, a digital media company aimed at empowering content. With a strong focus on developing content that speaks to personal growth and empowerment, especially for women, Lisa has been a pivotal figure in shifting paradigms within her industry. Her show, "Women of Impact," addresses issues facing modern women, combining personal anecdotes with actionable advice.

The core theme of this conversation is outlining a roadmap for individuals seeking to overcome insecurities and cultivate a resilient, action-oriented confidence. Jay and Lisa discuss the common misconceptions around confidence, emphasizing that it is not a prerequisite for action but a result of engaging with the world despite fears and doubts.

Lisa shares how her initial need for external validation was a significant barrier to personal growth, sharing transformative moments that reshaped her understanding of confidence and self-worth. She stresses the importance of embracing imperfection and vulnerability as catalysts for genuine self-improvement and empowerment.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to start building confidence

How to validate yourself

How to prioritize personal growth

How to handle fear of judgment

How to transform relationships

Together, let's continue to  question the preconceived notions about success and happiness and to take bold steps towards a life aligned with our deepest values and aspirations.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:32 How Do You Define Confidence?

06:54 Believe You’re Capable

09:54 Admitting That You’re Unhappy

16:13 The Frame of Reference

19:36 Everything Is A Risk

27:42 Non-Negotiables in Relationships

34:41 Conversations That Don’t Break Relationships

41:30 Who Leads, Who Follows

49:26 Conflicting Value System

54:57 Don’t Assume, Find a Compromise

59:21 Growth Mindset With Your Partner

Episode Resources:
Lisa Bilyeu | TikTok
Lisa Bilyeu | Instagram
Lisa Bilyeu | YouTube
Lisa Bilyeu | Twitter
Lisa Bilyeu | Facebook
Lisa Bilyeu | LinkedIn
Radical Confidence: 10 No-BS Lessons on Becoming the Hero of Your Own Life

How do you identify when you're restricting your desires in a relationship?
How can couples work together to align their desires and ensure mutual fulfillment?
Today, Jay welcomes back his good friend Lisa Bilyeu. Lisa is a co-founder of the billion-dollar brand Quest Nutrition and the president of Impact Theory, a digital media company aimed at empowering content. With a strong focus on developing content that speaks to personal growth and empowerment, especially for women, Lisa has been a pivotal figure in shifting paradigms within her industry. Her show, "Women of Impact," addresses issues facing modern women, combining personal anecdotes with actionable advice.
The core theme of this conversation is outlining a roadmap for individuals seeking to overcome insecurities and cultivate a resilient, action-oriented confidence. Jay and Lisa discuss the common misconceptions around confidence, emphasizing that it is not a prerequisite for action but a result of engaging with the world despite fears and doubts.
Lisa shares how her initial need for external validation was a significant barrier to personal growth, sharing transformative moments that reshaped her understanding of confidence and self-worth. She stresses the importance of embracing imperfection and vulnerability as catalysts for genuine self-improvement and empowerment.
In this interview, you'll learn:
How to start building confidence
How to validate yourself
How to prioritize personal growth
How to handle fear of judgment
How to transform relationships
Together, let's continue to  question the preconceived notions about success and happiness and to take bold steps towards a life aligned with our deepest values and aspirations.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
03:32 How Do You Define Confidence?
06:54 Believe You’re Capable
09:54 Admitting That You’re Unhappy
16:13 The Frame of Reference
19:36 Everything Is A Risk
27:42 Non-Negotiables in Relationships
34:41 Conversations That Don’t Break Relationships
41:30 Who Leads, Who Follows
49:26 Conflicting Value System
54:57 Don’t Assume, Find a Compromise
59:21 Growth Mindset With Your Partner
Episode Resources:
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Lisa Bilyeu | <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu">TikTok</a></li>
<li aria-level="1">Lisa Bilyeu | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu">Instagram</a></li>
<li aria-level="1">Lisa Bilyeu | <a href="https://www.youtube.com/c/WomenofImpact">YouTube</a></li>
<li aria-level="1">Lisa Bilyeu | <a href="https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu">Twitter</a></li>
<li aria-level="1">Lisa Bilyeu | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu/">Facebook</a></li>
<li aria-level="1">Lisa Bilyeu | <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisabilyeu/">LinkedIn</a></li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Radical-Confidence-No-BS-Lessons-Becoming-ebook/dp/B09JPHK9C3?ref_=ast_author_dp&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Szh-ihjYzRGffB_o2B2eIw.HmsEk9RRZC7Zwqz0otgx6U7uKmmzY7on_Dwe8hhkatU&amp;dib_tag=AUTHOR">Radical Confidence: 10 No-BS Lessons on Becoming the Hero of Your Own Life</a></li>
</ul>

Why You Are Restricting Your Desires in Your Relationship & How to Stop Blocking Yourself from the Happiness You Deserve with Lisa Bilyeu

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Does timing really matter in whether a relationship works?

What are healthy ways to deal with a breakup?

Today, let’s welcome back dating coach Matthew Hussey. Matthew is also a YouTube personality and writer known for offering advice on dating, love, and relationships to both men and women through his online content, seminars, and his book "Get The Guy." His approach typically combines practical advice, motivational coaching, and a bit of psychology to help individuals understand what they want from a relationship and how to get it.

Matthew shares his insights on the complexities of love, self-discovery, and the importance of honest communication. He emphasizes on the significance of creating a peaceful relationship, distinguishing it from a boring one, and the value of embracing vulnerabilities to foster deeper connections. Matthew's reflections on his own experiences, coupled with his expertise, provide a comprehensive guide on navigating the challenges of modern dating, building meaningful relationships, and cultivating self-awareness. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to cultivate peaceful relationships without boredom

How to deepen connections through vulnerability

How to navigate modern dating with confidence

How to enhance relationships with effective communication

How to enrich love life through self-awareness

Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, this episode offers valuable lessons on love, resilience, and the transformative power of embracing your true self.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

04:20 Where Does Your Idea of Love Come From?

10:34 What Differentiates a Peaceful to a Boring Relationship?

19:35 What Are Your Must-Haves in a Relationship?

31:47 Tactics Are Different From Relationship Standards

39:59 Egoic Standards Versus Setting Standards for Happiness

51:20 Practice Having Real and Difficult Conversations

01:04:48 The Importance of Communicating Your Thoughts and Feelings

01:08:25 Is Your Partner the Right One for You?

01:15:05 Dealing with the Different Phases of Heartbreak

01:26:31 What’s Next for Matthew?    

Episode Resources:
Matthew Hussey | Website
Matthew Hussey | TikTok
Matthew Hussey | Instagram
Matthew Hussey | YouTube
Matthew Hussey | Twitter
Matthew Hussey | Facebook
Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
https://matthewhussey.com/llbook-launch/

Does timing really matter in whether a relationship works?
What are healthy ways to deal with a breakup?
Today, let’s welcome back dating coach Matthew Hussey. Matthew is also a YouTube personality and writer known for offering advice on dating, love, and relationships to both men and women through his online content, seminars, and his book "Get The Guy." His approach typically combines practical advice, motivational coaching, and a bit of psychology to help individuals understand what they want from a relationship and how to get it.
Matthew shares his insights on the complexities of love, self-discovery, and the importance of honest communication. He emphasizes on the significance of creating a peaceful relationship, distinguishing it from a boring one, and the value of embracing vulnerabilities to foster deeper connections. Matthew's reflections on his own experiences, coupled with his expertise, provide a comprehensive guide on navigating the challenges of modern dating, building meaningful relationships, and cultivating self-awareness. 
In this interview, you'll learn:
How to cultivate peaceful relationships without boredom
How to deepen connections through vulnerability
How to navigate modern dating with confidence
How to enhance relationships with effective communication
How to enrich love life through self-awareness
Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, this episode offers valuable lessons on love, resilience, and the transformative power of embracing your true self.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
04:20 Where Does Your Idea of Love Come From?
10:34 What Differentiates a Peaceful to a Boring Relationship?
19:35 What Are Your Must-Haves in a Relationship?
31:47 Tactics Are Different From Relationship Standards
39:59 Egoic Standards Versus Setting Standards for Happiness
51:20 Practice Having Real and Difficult Conversations
01:04:48 The Importance of Communicating Your Thoughts and Feelings
01:08:25 Is Your Partner the Right One for You?
01:15:05 Dealing with the Different Phases of Heartbreak
01:26:31 What’s Next for Matthew?    
Episode Resources:
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Matthew Hussey | <a href="https://matthewhussey.com/">Website</a></li>
<li aria-level="1">Matthew Hussey | <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thematthewhussey">TikTok</a></li>
<li aria-level="1">Matthew Hussey | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey">Instagram</a></li>
<li aria-level="1">Matthew Hussey | <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9HGzFGt7BLmWDqooUbWGBg">YouTube</a></li>
<li aria-level="1">Matthew Hussey | <a href="https://twitter.com/matthewhussey">Twitter</a></li>
<li aria-level="1">Matthew Hussey | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/">Facebook</a></li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Love-Life-Standards-Person-Happily/dp/0063294389">Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)</a></li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-life-with-matthew-hussey/id1064051384">Love Life with Matthew Hussey</a></li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://matthewhussey.com/llbook-launch/">https://matthewhussey.com/llbook-launch/</a> </li>
</ul>

Matthew Hussey: 5 Reasons Why There is No Such Thing As The Right Person At The Wrong Time & How to Stop Missing Your Ex

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How do you know when you're overthinking too much?

How can you break the cycle of overthinking?

Today, Jay will talk about the complexity of overthinking and how we can turn it around and look at things differently. Jay presents seven practical strategies to help listeners combat the grip of overthinking. These range from the psychological—to limit how many people's opinions we seek, preventing the confusion and indecision that too many perspectives can cause—to the physical, recommending activities that disengage the analytical brain and encourage mental reset, like exercise or simply moving around.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to use over thinking for problem-solving

How to manage alarmed responses

How to use physical movement for mental clarity

How to focus on positives and small wins

Don't let overthinking hold you back! Start implementing these strategies today and take control of your mental space.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:52 Has Overthinking Slowed You Down?

07:53 The Science Behind Overthinking

10:50 #1: Overthinking as a Problem-Solving Approach

14:24 #2: Don’t Ask Too Many People For Their Opinion

18:19 #3: Avoid Responding While You’re Feeling Alarmed

19:17 #4: Move Your Body When Your Mind Is Stuck

20:32 #5: Focus on the Good Thing and Small Wins

22:05 #6: Spontaneous Drawings Relieve Psychological Stress

24:23 #7: Go Back to Analog

How do you know when you're overthinking too much?
How can you break the cycle of overthinking?
Today, Jay will talk about the complexity of overthinking and how we can turn it around and look at things differently. Jay presents seven practical strategies to help listeners combat the grip of overthinking. These range from the psychological—to limit how many people's opinions we seek, preventing the confusion and indecision that too many perspectives can cause—to the physical, recommending activities that disengage the analytical brain and encourage mental reset, like exercise or simply moving around.
In this episode, you'll learn:
How to use over thinking for problem-solving
How to manage alarmed responses
How to use physical movement for mental clarity
How to focus on positives and small wins
Don't let overthinking hold you back! Start implementing these strategies today and take control of your mental space.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
00:52 Has Overthinking Slowed You Down?
07:53 The Science Behind Overthinking
10:50 #1: Overthinking as a Problem-Solving Approach
14:24 #2: Don’t Ask Too Many People For Their Opinion
18:19 #3: Avoid Responding While You’re Feeling Alarmed
19:17 #4: Move Your Body When Your Mind Is Stuck
20:32 #5: Focus on the Good Thing and Small Wins
22:05 #6: Spontaneous Drawings Relieve Psychological Stress
24:23 #7: Go Back to Analog

7 Ways to Reduce the Time You Spend Overthinking & Make Better Decisions Quicker

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/e73c998e-6e60-432f-8610-ae210140c5b1/clips/b63ea8dc-98d1-4375-a1a1-b15e0013914c/transcript

6 Steps to Overcome the Perfectionist Mindset and Focus On the Process

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