We’re joined by our friends Terry and Heather Dubrow, who open up about how they met on a blind date and Heather’s initial reluctance to settle down. They get candid about the challenges (or lack thereof) of raising four children in Orange County and in the reality TV spotlight, Terry’s ultimate act of betrayal to get Heather to join The Real Housewives of Orange County, and the rules they’ve put in place to keep their marriage strong while laying it all out on television.

We&rsquo;re joined by our friends Terry and Heather Dubrow, who open up about how they met on a blind date and Heather&rsquo;s initial reluctance to settle down. They get candid about the challenges (or lack thereof) of raising four children in Orange County and in the reality TV spotlight, Terry&rsquo;s ultimate act of betrayal to get Heather to join The Real Housewives of Orange County, and the rules they&rsquo;ve put in place to keep their marriage strong while laying it all out on television.

Blind Dates, Vacation Hanky-Panky, and Withstanding the Real Housewives Curse with Terry and Heather Dubrow

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Chris and Vanessa Spencer are in the house! They take us back to where it all started; a comedy club, Kevin Hart playing matchmaker, and a connection that turned into more than 20 years together. We get into how they’ve balanced two careers in Hollywood while raising kids close in age, the rules that keep their arguments from going off the rails (including a strict no-cursing policy), and why scheduling sex at least three days in advance might actually be the secret to keeping the spark alive. Now that the kids are out of the house, Chris and Vanessa are officially empty nesters; and they’re giving us the real story on what that next chapter of marriage looks like, what they love about it, and what you definitely shouldn’t get your hopes up about.

Chris and Vanessa Spencer are in the house! They take us back to where it all started; a comedy club, Kevin Hart playing matchmaker, and a connection that turned into more than 20 years together. We get into how they&rsquo;ve balanced two careers in Hollywood while raising kids close in age, the rules that keep their arguments from going off the rails (including a strict no-cursing policy), and why scheduling sex at least three days in advance might actually be the secret to keeping the spark alive. Now that the kids are out of the house, Chris and Vanessa are officially empty nesters; and they&rsquo;re giving us the real story on what that next chapter of marriage looks like, what they love about it, and what you definitely shouldn&rsquo;t get your hopes up about.

Empty Nesting, Scheduling Sex & Fighting Fair with Chris and Vanessa Spencer

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Let’s get into it!

Tony and Tobie kick things off by letting you into their world; from their similarities and differences to the story of how they first met at Dennis Rodman’s bar… while Tobie had a boyfriend. They also pay tribute to Dolly Parton, reflecting on her decades-long marriage to Carl Dean and how the couple managed to balance love, independence and life in the spotlight. Tony and Tobie explore whether being opposites can actually make a relationship stronger, and get surprisingly candid about what happens when “till death do us part” becomes a reality. Finally, they break down their own “rules” of marriage, the boundaries and habits that have worked for them, and what they believe has helped their relationship last more than 20 years.

It’s love, marriage, death and Dennis Rodman. No topic is off-limits, and there are definitely no safe words.

Let&rsquo;s get into it!
Tony and Tobie kick things off by letting you into their world; from their similarities and differences to the story of how they first met at Dennis Rodman&rsquo;s bar&hellip; while Tobie had a boyfriend. They also pay tribute to Dolly Parton, reflecting on her decades-long marriage to Carl Dean and how the couple managed to balance love, independence and life in the spotlight. Tony and Tobie explore whether being opposites can actually make a relationship stronger, and get surprisingly candid about what happens when &ldquo;till death do us part&rdquo; becomes a reality. Finally, they break down their own &ldquo;rules&rdquo; of marriage, the boundaries and habits that have worked for them, and what they believe has helped their relationship last more than 20 years.
It&rsquo;s love, marriage, death and Dennis Rodman. No topic is off-limits, and there are definitely no safe words.

Our Meet Cute, Dolly Parton’s Relationship Legacy and the Rules of Marriage | No Safe Words with October and Tony Gonzalez!

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Introducing: "No Safe Words with October and Tony Gonzalez

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Let’s be honest: marriage isn’t one-size-fits-all. It takes trust, resilience, reinvention, and serious effort, especially under public scrutiny. Fame doesn’t protect a relationship; it pressures it. Love alone isn’t enough. In No Safe Words, October “Tobie” Gonzalez and Tony Gonzalez, partners of 20 years, pull back the curtain on what it really takes. Part memoir, part comedy, part relationship revolution, the showfeatures raw, unfiltered conversations with high-profile couples about love, conflict, and growth in the modern world. It’s not a highlight reel. It’s the real stuff, messy and honest, so you feel a little less alone.

Let&rsquo;s be honest: marriage isn&rsquo;t one-size-fits-all. It takes trust, resilience, reinvention, and serious effort, especially under public scrutiny. Fame doesn&rsquo;t protect a relationship; it pressures it. Love alone isn&rsquo;t enough. In&nbsp;No&nbsp;Safe&nbsp;Words, October &ldquo;Tobie&rdquo; Gonzalez and Tony Gonzalez, partners of 20 years, pull back the curtain on what it really takes. Part memoir, part comedy, part relationship revolution, the&nbsp;showfeatures raw, unfiltered conversations with high-profile couples about love, conflict, and growth in the modern world. It&rsquo;s&nbsp;not a highlight reel. It&rsquo;s the real stuff, messy and honest, so you feel a little less alone.

No Safe Words with October and Tony Gonzalez

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