Today, Loraine delves into the theme of healing the mind. Drawing inspiration from motivational speaker Bob Proctor and the book Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz, Loraine discusses the powerful practice of letter writing as a tool for releasing negative emotions and traumas. She explores the cathartic process of writing letters to express anger, resentment, shame, or guilt, and then burning them as a symbolic release. Loraine also introduces the concept of the burning bowl ceremony, shared by Randy Gage, as a ritual to transform negative memories into ashes. 

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• The practice of letter writing and journaling, as well as the burning bowl ceremony, can be effective tools for healing past hurt, negative memories, and traumas.

• Writing letters as a physical exercise to release anger and aggression, and then burning them, can help in processing and healing from negative emotions.

• It is important to allow emotions to come to the surface during the writing process, even if it may be distressing, as it is part of the healing journey.

• Repeating the exercise of writing letters on the same topic or situation at least four times can aid in processing and releasing the negative memory.

• The burning bowl ceremony, introduced as a ritual by Randy Gage, can be a symbolic way to release negative emotions and turn them into ashes, promoting healing and transformation.

BEST MOMENTS

"Vent your spleen in writing. Write a letter to the person who has frustrated or angered you. Pull out all the stops. Leave nothing to the imagination. Then burn the letter."

"I've used this practice on a number of occasions throughout my life journey, and I actually wrote about this in my first self-published book."

"You might actually experience tears or there might be a feeling of anxiety or fear arise or even anger. But this is all part of the healing process."

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Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author.
A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. 

Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. 

Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner.