The Mystery of Suffering

Break 1

Loving through suffering

Break 2

Perseverance 

Dr. Aaron Kheriaty joins Doug discussing the Christian meaning of human suffering, especially in marriage.

Listener questions and comments:
Susan - I have an update on my husband who left me for his mistress. (21:42)
Laurel - I lost my husband to divorce. What should I do with the pain and frustration when I should have helped him years before. (29:58)
Chris - My wife and I experienced turbulence in our engagement and ever since, we struggle with forgiveness. (36:59)
Teresa - I have been working with Fr. Allen in Southern California and there aren't a ton of counselors. Where should I go? (43:08)

 

Resources:

Doce Me Passionem Tuam

https://www.passionemtuam.org/

 

Aaron Kheriaty, MD

https://www.aaronkheriaty.com/

 

The Forgiveness Institute

https://internationalforgiveness.com/

 

Catholic Therapists

https://catholictherapists.com/

 

Catholic Psychotherapy

https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/

 

Marriage Unhindered

https://www.marriageunhindered.com/

 

Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle

https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle

 

Happy Marriage for Life

https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/

Dr. Aaron Kheriaty joins Doug discussing the Christian meaning of human suffering, especially in marriage.
Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Susan - I have an update on my husband who left me for his mistress. (21:42)</li>
<li>Laurel - I lost my husband to divorce. What should I do with the pain and frustration when I should have helped him years before. (29:58)</li>
<li>Chris - My wife and I experienced turbulence in our engagement and ever since, we struggle with forgiveness. (36:59)</li>
<li>Teresa - I have been working with Fr. Allen in Southern California and there aren't a ton of counselors. Where should I go? (43:08)</li>
</ul>
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Resources:
Doce Me Passionem Tuam
<a href="https://www.passionemtuam.org/">https://www.passionemtuam.org/</a>
&nbsp;
Aaron Kheriaty, MD
<a href="https://www.aaronkheriaty.com/">https://www.aaronkheriaty.com/</a>
&nbsp;
The Forgiveness Institute
<a href="https://internationalforgiveness.com/">https://internationalforgiveness.com/</a>
&nbsp;
Catholic Therapists
<a href="https://catholictherapists.com/">https://catholictherapists.com/</a>
&nbsp;
Catholic Psychotherapy
<a href="https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/">https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/</a>
&nbsp;
Marriage Unhindered
<a href="https://www.marriageunhindered.com/">https://www.marriageunhindered.com/</a>
&nbsp;
Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle
<a href="https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle">https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle</a>
&nbsp;
Happy Marriage for Life
<a href="https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/">https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/</a>

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air every Saturday from 11am – 12pm CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air every Saturday from 11am – 12pm CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

Marriage Unhindered

What therapists wish you knew

My work as a paramedic 

Baggage does not unpack itself

Change is inevitable 

Establish a weekly check-in

Doug continues to unpack 13 things marriage therapists wish couples knew before they got married.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Don - My wife has told me that I've become jaded because of the gross work I do as a paramedic. I feel like I can't share that stuff with my wife because she shouldn’t be subject to it. She feels alienated. (18:04)
Richard - My wife left me for our marriage therapist. How do I find a good therapist in the future? (45:44)

 

Resources:

 

Catholic Therapists

https://catholictherapists.com/

 

Catholic Psychotherapy

https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/

 

Hold Me Tight

https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Me-Tight-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/031611300X

 

Rebuilding Trust

https://relevantradio.com/2026/01/rebuilding-trust/

 

 

Things therapists wish you knew
Marriage isn’t a fix for a broken relationship
Love isn’t all you need
You’re marrying their family too
Conflict is inevitable in every relationship
Financial compatibility is critical
Intimacy fades over time
Your partner can’t fulfill all your needs
Baggage doesn’t unpack itself
You’re going to change and so will your partner
Shared goals are essential
Communication styles matter
Routine can be a double-edged sword
Marriage is not always 50/50

Doug continues to unpack 13 things marriage therapists wish couples knew before they got married.
&nbsp;
Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Don - My wife has told me that I've become jaded because of the gross work I do as a paramedic. I feel like I can't share that stuff with my wife because she shouldn&rsquo;t be subject to it. She feels alienated. (18:04)</li>
<li>Richard - My wife left me for our marriage therapist. How do I find a good therapist in the future? (45:44)</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Resources:
&nbsp;
Catholic Therapists
<a href="https://catholictherapists.com/">https://catholictherapists.com/</a>
&nbsp;
Catholic Psychotherapy
<a href="https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/">https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/</a>
&nbsp;
Hold Me Tight
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Me-Tight-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/031611300X">https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Me-Tight-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/031611300X</a>
&nbsp;
Rebuilding Trust
<a href="https://relevantradio.com/2026/01/rebuilding-trust/">https://relevantradio.com/2026/01/rebuilding-trust/</a>
&nbsp;
&nbsp;
Things therapists wish you knew
<ol>
<li>Marriage isn&rsquo;t a fix for a broken relationship</li>
<li>Love isn&rsquo;t all you need</li>
<li>You&rsquo;re marrying their family too</li>
<li>Conflict is inevitable in every relationship</li>
<li>Financial compatibility is critical</li>
<li>Intimacy fades over time</li>
<li>Your partner can&rsquo;t fulfill all your needs</li>
<li>Baggage doesn&rsquo;t unpack itself</li>
<li>You&rsquo;re going to change and so will your partner</li>
<li>Shared goals are essential</li>
<li>Communication styles matter</li>
<li>Routine can be a double-edged sword</li>
<li>Marriage is not always 50/50</li>
</ol>

What couples should know before marriage

Reconciling after an annulment 

What is an annulment?

Advice for reconciliation

When you are unhappy in our marriage

Husband praise reports

Love does not grow in margins

Doug shares the inspiring story of a couple who got back together after their annulment. He emphasizes the importance of seeking a profound encounter with God, as well as finding a skilled therapist. Reconciling takes courage, faith, and trust in God that He will make all things new.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Theresa - My husband was running around with other women. Is that grounds for annulment? (18:56)
Kelly - What should you do when you’re not happy in your marriage? My husband changed and doesn’t go to church. He put us in debt, and we are political opposites. (32:54)
Adam - I am a Lutheran, and I went to Mass this week. I really liked it, and I want to encourage people to attend church. It was great to see so many people there. (44:59)

 

Resources:

 

Catholic Therapists

https://catholictherapists.com/

 

Catholic Psychotherapy

https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/

 

Marriage Unhindered

https://www.marriageunhindered.com/

 

Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle

https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle

 

Happy Marriage for Life

https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/

 

Doug shares the inspiring story of a couple who got back together after their annulment. He emphasizes the importance of seeking a profound encounter with God, as well as finding a skilled therapist. Reconciling takes courage, faith, and trust in God that He will make all things new.
&nbsp;
Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Theresa - My husband was running around with other women. Is that grounds for annulment? (18:56)</li>
<li>Kelly - What should you do when you&rsquo;re not happy in your marriage? My husband changed and doesn&rsquo;t go to church. He put us in debt, and we are political opposites. (32:54)</li>
<li>Adam - I am a Lutheran, and I went to Mass this week. I really liked it, and I want to encourage people to attend church. It was great to see so many people there. (44:59)</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Resources:
&nbsp;
Catholic Therapists
<a href="https://catholictherapists.com/">https://catholictherapists.com/</a>
&nbsp;
Catholic Psychotherapy
<a href="https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/">https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/</a>
&nbsp;
Marriage Unhindered
<a href="https://www.marriageunhindered.com/">https://www.marriageunhindered.com/</a>
&nbsp;
Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle
<a href="https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle">https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle</a>
&nbsp;
Happy Marriage for Life
<a href="https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/">https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/</a>
&nbsp;

Hope & Reconciling 

Rebuilding trust

4 types of love

Family dynamics

I've been praying for you

Doug shares 5 things marriage therapists wish couples knew before they got married.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Sarah - How do I build trust with my fiancé after we had something happen that broke it. (3:46)

 

Resources:

Catholic Therapists

https://catholictherapists.com/

 

Catholic Psychotherapy

https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/

 

Hold Me Tight

https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Me-Tight-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/031611300X

 

Things therapists wish you knew
Marriage isn’t a fix for a broken relationship
Love isn’t all you need
You’re marrying their family too
Conflict is inevitable in every relationship
Financial compatibility is critical

Doug shares 5 things marriage therapists wish couples knew before they got married.
&nbsp;
Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Sarah - How do I build trust with my fianc&eacute; after we had something happen that broke it. (3:46)</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Resources:
Catholic Therapists
<a href="https://catholictherapists.com/">https://catholictherapists.com/</a>
&nbsp;
Catholic Psychotherapy
<a href="https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/">https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/</a>
&nbsp;
Hold Me Tight
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Me-Tight-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/031611300X">https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Me-Tight-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/031611300X</a>
&nbsp;
Things therapists wish you knew
<ol>
<li>Marriage isn&rsquo;t a fix for a broken relationship</li>
<li>Love isn&rsquo;t all you need</li>
<li>You&rsquo;re marrying their family too</li>
<li>Conflict is inevitable in every relationship</li>
<li>Financial compatibility is critical</li>
</ol>

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