Adam Lane Smith - Attachment science

Break 1

What have we been avoiding?

Break 2

Wife is narcissistic like my father

Adam Lane Smith joins Doug to discuss the importance of forging strong attachment bonds with your spouse.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Bob - What should a man do when his wife says 'he's a good husband and a good dad, but she has no interest in showing physical affection?' (27:08)
Michael - I had abnormal attachment to a narcissistic parent and picked a partner like that. How do I fix this? (37:57)
Angel - My fiancé asked me if I've had feelings for a fellow film producer, and I told him it was 14 years ago, and it was well before I met him. He went crazy and locked me out of social media. What am I supposed to do? (41:20)
Stacy - Maybe communication is the problem in these relationships. (45:40)

 

Resources:

Adam Lane Smith 

https://bundle.adamlanesmith.com/private-coaching?utm_source=podcast&utm_content=Unhindered&funnel_source=private-coaching 

Emotionally Focused Therapy

https://iceeft.com/

Adam Lane Smith joins Doug to discuss the importance of forging strong attachment bonds with your spouse.
&nbsp;
Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Bob - What should a man do when his wife says 'he's a good husband and a good dad, but she has no interest in showing physical affection?' (27:08)</li>
<li>Michael - I had abnormal attachment to a narcissistic parent and picked a partner like that. How do I fix this? (37:57)</li>
<li>Angel - My fianc&eacute; asked me if I've had feelings for a fellow film producer, and I told him it was 14 years ago, and it was well before I met him. He went crazy and locked me out of social media. What am I supposed to do? (41:20)</li>
<li>Stacy - Maybe communication is the problem in these relationships. (45:40)</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Resources:
Adam Lane Smith&nbsp;
<a href="https://bundle.adamlanesmith.com/private-coaching?utm_source=podcast&amp;utm_content=Unhindered&amp;funnel_source=private-coaching">https://bundle.adamlanesmith.com/private-coaching?utm_source=podcast&amp;utm_content=Unhindered&amp;funnel_source=private-coaching</a>&nbsp;
Emotionally Focused Therapy
<a href="https://iceeft.com/">https://iceeft.com/</a>

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air Monday through Friday at 5PM CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air Monday through Friday at 5PM CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

Marriage Unhindered

Fostering Deeper Marital Connection

Values First Therapy

The Inverted Family

A father needs to lead and protect

Overcoming the inverted family

What's the solution?

How can parents be tougher?

Dr. Johann D’Souza joins Doug to discuss the inverted family. They unpack the dynamic of the anxious mother and explore the importance of the father taking a leading role in protecting and guiding his family amid the pressures of the culture.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Maria - My granddaughter is 28. She said to me, 'I choose to have you out of my life'. What do I do? (32:28)

 

Resources:

https://www.johanndsouza.com/neversmartphone

Dr. Johann D&rsquo;Souza joins Doug to discuss the inverted family. They unpack the dynamic of the anxious mother and explore the importance of the father taking a leading role in protecting and guiding his family amid the pressures of the culture.
&nbsp;
Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Maria - My granddaughter is 28. She said to me, 'I choose to have you out of my life'. What do I do? (32:28)</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Resources:
<a href="https://www.johanndsouza.com/neversmartphone">https://www.johanndsouza.com/neversmartphone</a>

Husband hid pornography problem

Discovering my husband's past

 Loneliness 

Deceit and valid marriages

Communicating your loneliness

How can I pray for you?

What should you do when you learn something shocking about your spouse that happened many years ago? How should you deal with loneliness in marriage? Doug answers these questions and more.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Mark - Responding to the email about an invalid marriage: Deceit alone is not going to make a marriage invalid. (36:06)

 

Resources:

 

Marriage Unhindered

https://www.marriageunhindered.com/

 

The Forgiveness Institute

https://internationalforgiveness.com/

 

Marriage Unhindered shows on forgiveness

https://relevantradio.com/?cat=26671&s=Forgiveness

 

Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

https://www.amazon.com/Eight-Dates-Essential-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/1523504463

 

Ten Lessons to Transform Your Marriage

https://www.amazon.com/Lessons-Transform-Your-Marriage-Strengthening/dp/1400050197

What should you do when you learn something shocking about your spouse that happened many years ago? How should you deal with loneliness in marriage? Doug answers these questions and more.
&nbsp;
Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Mark - Responding to the email about an invalid marriage: Deceit alone is not going to make a marriage invalid. (36:06)</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Resources:
&nbsp;
Marriage Unhindered
<a href="https://www.marriageunhindered.com/">https://www.marriageunhindered.com/</a>
&nbsp;
The Forgiveness Institute
<a href="https://internationalforgiveness.com/">https://internationalforgiveness.com/</a>
&nbsp;
Marriage Unhindered shows on forgiveness
<a href="https://relevantradio.com/?cat=26671&amp;s=Forgiveness">https://relevantradio.com/?cat=26671&amp;s=Forgiveness</a>
&nbsp;
Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Eight-Dates-Essential-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/1523504463">https://www.amazon.com/Eight-Dates-Essential-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/1523504463</a>
&nbsp;
Ten Lessons to Transform Your Marriage
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Lessons-Transform-Your-Marriage-Strengthening/dp/1400050197">https://www.amazon.com/Lessons-Transform-Your-Marriage-Strengthening/dp/1400050197</a>

When You Discover Your Spouse’s Past

Beware of scammers

Al-Anon and an AA

Marriage Works

Managing wife's anger

Greg Schutte joins Doug to share why married couples need a commitment to change throughout their marriage.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Pat - How do I handle my granddaughter getting married to another woman? (8:10)
Andy - My wife and I are having a hard time due to her drinking and every time it happens it creates an argument. (13:13)
Sharon - Comment for Andy: I recommend Al-Anon and an AA meeting. (25:20)
Barbara - I work in drug and alcohol rehabilitation and it runs in my family. You must go to these meetings as soon as possible. (26:53)
Mary - I have been married for 40 years and we have been to counseling for many years. We have had low intimacy for the last few years and now he is wanting to be sexually active. (28:58)
Tom - I have a daughter and a new born and I feel anger coming out of my wife. I don’t know how to manage it. What should I do? 40:27

 

Resources:

Building a Eucharistic Marriage

https://www.eucharisticmarriage.org/

 

Marriage Works! Ohio

https://trustmarriage.com/

Greg Schutte joins Doug to share why married couples need a commitment to change throughout their marriage.
&nbsp;
Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Pat - How do I handle my granddaughter getting married to another woman? (8:10)</li>
<li>Andy - My wife and I are having a hard time due to her drinking and every time it happens it creates an argument. (13:13)</li>
<li>Sharon - Comment for Andy: I recommend Al-Anon and an AA meeting. (25:20)</li>
<li>Barbara - I work in drug and alcohol rehabilitation and it runs in my family. You must go to these meetings as soon as possible. (26:53)</li>
<li>Mary - I have been married for 40 years and we have been to counseling for many years. We have had low intimacy for the last few years and now he is wanting to be sexually active. (28:58)</li>
<li>Tom - I have a daughter and a new born and I feel anger coming out of my wife. I don&rsquo;t know how to manage it. What should I do? 40:27</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Resources:
Building a Eucharistic Marriage
<a href="https://www.eucharisticmarriage.org/">https://www.eucharisticmarriage.org/</a>
&nbsp;
Marriage Works! Ohio
<a href="https://trustmarriage.com/">https://trustmarriage.com/</a>

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