Conversion to the Catholic Church

Relationships after conversion

Break 1

Navigating changing dynamics in relationships

Break 2

Focusing on common ground

Guest host Monica Hinderer is joined by her guest Stephanie Sullivan to discuss how to maintain relationships through conversion.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Joni - My daughter was raised Catholic but got married to a Baptist in her husband's Church, but recently she said she wants to talk to the priest after a year of marriage. (24:04)
Mary - My husband was not Catholic when I got married. I would say that I don’t suggest it for those considering marrying someone who isn't Catholic. (46:19)

Guest host Monica Hinderer is joined by her guest Stephanie Sullivan to discuss how to maintain relationships through conversion.
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Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Joni - My daughter was raised Catholic but got married to a Baptist in her husband's Church, but recently she said she wants to talk to the priest after a year of marriage. (24:04)</li>
<li>Mary - My husband was not Catholic when I got married. I would say that I don&rsquo;t suggest it for those considering marrying someone who isn't Catholic. (46:19)</li>
</ul>

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air every Saturday from 11am – 12pm CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air every Saturday from 11am – 12pm CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

Marriage Unhindered

Family Dynamics After Conversion

Email: Dealing with In-laws

Things liars say 

Liar tactics 

Thoughts from a recovered liar  

What to do with liars 

Doug explores how lying affects marriages, how to respond, and ways to foster honesty. Listeners share personal experiences, including insights from a recovered liar and the impact of dementia on a spouse’s truthfulness.

Listener questions and comments:
Junior – I am a reformed liar and want to share my perspective. Confession helped me realize you don’t have to lie. (35:37)
Paulette – My husband died from dementia and began lying years ago when he couldn’t explain events. I now see his lying as a symptom of the disease. (45:23)

 

Resources: 

 

Marriage Unhindered

https://www.marriageunhindered.com/

 

Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle

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Happy Marriage for Life

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Doug explores how lying affects marriages, how to respond, and ways to foster honesty. Listeners share personal experiences, including insights from a recovered liar and the impact of dementia on a spouse&rsquo;s truthfulness.
Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Junior &ndash; I am a reformed liar and want to share my perspective. Confession helped me realize you don&rsquo;t have to lie. (35:37)</li>
<li>Paulette &ndash; My husband died from dementia and began lying years ago when he couldn&rsquo;t explain events. I now see his lying as a symptom of the disease. (45:23)</li>
</ul>
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Resources: 
&nbsp;
Marriage Unhindered
<a href="https://www.marriageunhindered.com/">https://www.marriageunhindered.com/</a>
&nbsp;
Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle
<a href="https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle">https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle</a>
&nbsp;
Happy Marriage for Life
<a href="https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/">https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/</a>

Dealing with Liars

Email: My husband is sexting someone 

We don't communicate well

Email: He doesn't want kids 

We changed our minds on kids 

Should I get the vasectomy?  

Doug dives into the mailbag to address what to do when a husband is sexting another woman and how couples can navigate fear and conflict around having children. He also tackles communication breakdowns and how to help loved ones facing marital abuse.

Listener questions and comments:
Addison – We have been married nine years and feel unheard when we try to communicate. Our arguments now seem to come out of nowhere. (21:05)
Kye – I became pregnant later in life and my husband felt unprepared at first. How can couples work through fear and still build a healthy family? (36:55)
Susan – How can I help a family member whose marriage is marked by verbal abuse? My sister-in-law is struggling with my brother’s behavior. (38:46)

 

Resources:

 

Marriage Unhindered

https://www.marriageunhindered.com/

 

Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle

https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle

 

Happy Marriage for Life

https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/

Doug dives into the mailbag to address what to do when a husband is sexting another woman and how couples can navigate fear and conflict around having children. He also tackles communication breakdowns and how to help loved ones facing marital abuse.
Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Addison &ndash; We have been married nine years and feel unheard when we try to communicate. Our arguments now seem to come out of nowhere. (21:05)</li>
<li>Kye &ndash; I became pregnant later in life and my husband felt unprepared at first. How can couples work through fear and still build a healthy family? (36:55)</li>
<li>Susan &ndash; How can I help a family member whose marriage is marked by verbal abuse? My sister-in-law is struggling with my brother&rsquo;s behavior. (38:46)</li>
</ul>
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Resources:
&nbsp;
Marriage Unhindered
<a href="https://www.marriageunhindered.com/">https://www.marriageunhindered.com/</a>
&nbsp;
Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle
<a href="https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle">https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle</a>
&nbsp;
Happy Marriage for Life
<a href="https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/">https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/</a>

Sexting, Children, and Communication 

What therapists wish you knew

My work as a paramedic 

Baggage does not unpack itself

Change is inevitable 

Establish a weekly check-in

Doug continues to unpack 13 things marriage therapists wish couples knew before they got married.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Don - My wife has told me that I've become jaded because of the gross work I do as a paramedic. I feel like I can't share that stuff with my wife because she shouldn’t be subject to it. She feels alienated. (18:04)
Richard - My wife left me for our marriage therapist. How do I find a good therapist in the future? (45:44)

 

Resources:

 

Catholic Therapists

https://catholictherapists.com/

 

Catholic Psychotherapy

https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/

 

Hold Me Tight

https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Me-Tight-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/031611300X

 

Rebuilding Trust

https://relevantradio.com/2026/01/rebuilding-trust/

 

 

Things therapists wish you knew
Marriage isn’t a fix for a broken relationship
Love isn’t all you need
You’re marrying their family too
Conflict is inevitable in every relationship
Financial compatibility is critical
Intimacy fades over time
Your partner can’t fulfill all your needs
Baggage doesn’t unpack itself
You’re going to change and so will your partner
Shared goals are essential
Communication styles matter
Routine can be a double-edged sword
Marriage is not always 50/50

Doug continues to unpack 13 things marriage therapists wish couples knew before they got married.
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Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Don - My wife has told me that I've become jaded because of the gross work I do as a paramedic. I feel like I can't share that stuff with my wife because she shouldn&rsquo;t be subject to it. She feels alienated. (18:04)</li>
<li>Richard - My wife left me for our marriage therapist. How do I find a good therapist in the future? (45:44)</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Resources:
&nbsp;
Catholic Therapists
<a href="https://catholictherapists.com/">https://catholictherapists.com/</a>
&nbsp;
Catholic Psychotherapy
<a href="https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/">https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/</a>
&nbsp;
Hold Me Tight
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Me-Tight-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/031611300X">https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Me-Tight-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/031611300X</a>
&nbsp;
Rebuilding Trust
<a href="https://relevantradio.com/2026/01/rebuilding-trust/">https://relevantradio.com/2026/01/rebuilding-trust/</a>
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Things therapists wish you knew
<ol>
<li>Marriage isn&rsquo;t a fix for a broken relationship</li>
<li>Love isn&rsquo;t all you need</li>
<li>You&rsquo;re marrying their family too</li>
<li>Conflict is inevitable in every relationship</li>
<li>Financial compatibility is critical</li>
<li>Intimacy fades over time</li>
<li>Your partner can&rsquo;t fulfill all your needs</li>
<li>Baggage doesn&rsquo;t unpack itself</li>
<li>You&rsquo;re going to change and so will your partner</li>
<li>Shared goals are essential</li>
<li>Communication styles matter</li>
<li>Routine can be a double-edged sword</li>
<li>Marriage is not always 50/50</li>
</ol>

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