Emotional intelligence in leadership isn’t optional anymore - it’s your edge.

In this episode of Leading You, I sit down with emotional intelligence expert, speaker, and author Amy Jacobson to unpack what EQ really looks like in today’s high-performing, fast-moving workplaces.

We explore why emotional intelligence is no longer just a “soft skill”- it’s a critical leadership advantage. From navigating difficult conversations to building trust and team culture, EQ is the key to leading with clarity, confidence and connection.

Amy shares a powerful 5-step framework for high-stakes conversations, how to stop over-preparing and start connecting, and what leaders can do today to improve emotional agility and self-awareness.

Whether you're avoiding tough conversations, reacting under pressure, or simply want to be a more effective and human leader, this episode delivers real tools for lasting impact.

What we cover in this episode:

• Why emotional intelligence is the new competitive edge in leadership
• How EQ transforms team performance, trust, and culture
• The biggest reason leaders avoid hard conversations
• Amy’s 5-step strategy for leading with clarity under pressure
• How your emotional wiring impacts your leadership style
• The link between EQ and self-leadership
• What emotionally intelligent leadership looks like in action
• Simple mindset shifts to lead more effectively today

Episode Timestamps

00:00 – Meet Amy Jacobson: Emotional intelligence expert and author
01:00 – Why emotional intelligence is the new leadership edge
03:45 – The real reason leaders avoid hard conversations
05:30 – EQ’s impact on team trust, culture and performance
07:20 – Amy’s 5-step framework for emotionally intelligent conversations
10:00 – When over-preparing becomes a leadership liability
13:00 – Understanding emotional wiring and self-leadership
15:30 – Real-world examples of EQ in high-performing teams
18:00 – One small mindset shift that boosts EQ

EQ starts with you. And it starts now.

Tune in now to build trust, deepen connection, and lead with emotional agility.

Links:
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Connect with Julie:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/
Instagram: @juliehydeleads
Website: https://juliehyde.com.au

Connect with Amy:
Website: https://amyjacobson.com.au/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amyjacobson_ei
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/finding-your-y/