I Thought I Wanted to Be a Trad Wife… I Was Wrong ft. Lisa Bilyeu

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Why “Normal” Sex Doesn’t Work for Many Black and Brown Women Ft. Aida Mariam Davis

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What Men Actually Think About Before They Propose ft. Mark Manson

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Are You Nicer to Strangers Than Your Partner ft. DeWanda Wise

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What If You Never Meet the One ft. Melyssa Ford

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Can Intimacy Survive Porn, Drinks and Phone Addictions? ft. Dr Anna Lembke

Thanks to Cozy Earth for sponsoring this video. Go to cozyearth.com/LOVERS for up to 20% off! —-----------------------  In this episode of Lovers, I share something personal: the ways my own social media habit began affecting my presence, my focus, and ultimately my intimacy. Jared joins the conve…

Spinning the Block Doesn’t Work Without This ft. Jerrie Johnson and Dria Brown

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Do We Believe Her Now? | Abby De La Rosa Returns to Discuss Her Alternative Relationship

In this episode of Lovers, Abby De La Rosa returns three years after our first conversation to reflect on what time, motherhood, and public scrutiny have actually taught her. When Abby first joined the show, she was pregnant and navigating intense speculation about her relationship with Nick Canno…

What Men Risk When They Stay Quiet ft. Kier Gaines

In this episode of Lovers, therapist Kier Gaines shares a personal and professional reflection on how resentment builds when men are taught to silence their emotional truth. Kier opens up about a pivotal moment in his own relationship, when he realized that his partner’s tone was hurting his feeli…

Rachel Lindsay’s Shocking Discovery About Intimacy After Divorce

In this episode of Lovers, Higher Learning host and former Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay shares the deeply personal story of what it was like to experience intimacy both sexually and emotionally for the first time after divorce. After nearly a decade of being with only one partner, that she met whil…