How the f*ck do you move on when you're in the depths of a relationship?

Today's episode is with the incredible Jillian Turecki!

Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer. She has helped thousands of people be better in their relationships, including the relationship you have with yourself, and has helped just as many people manage the aftermath of a relationship breakdown.

We ask for Jillian's advice on:
How to know whether you should break up with your partner
How do I know if it's just a normal relationship lull or if it's actually the end of the relationship?
Do you know when you've found 'the one'? 
Are break ups always devastating or are they an opportunity?
When it's actually not them, it's you. You're the problem
Patterns in your dating and relationships

You can find more from Jillian on her website and on her Instagram

We did an episode on break ups back in 2020! You can listen here!

Another episode that we did on break ups with Alexis Fernandez on break ups is here!

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How the f*ck do you move on when you're in the depths of a relationship?
Today's episode is with the incredible Jillian Turecki!
Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer. She has helped thousands of people be better in their relationships, including the relationship you have with yourself, and has helped just as many people manage the aftermath of a relationship breakdown.
We ask for Jillian's advice on:
<ul>
<li>How to know whether you should break up with your partner</li>
<li>How do I know if it's just a normal relationship lull or if it's actually the end of the relationship?</li>
<li>Do you know when you've found 'the one'? </li>
<li>Are break ups always devastating or are they an opportunity?</li>
<li>When it's actually not them, it's you. You're the problem</li>
<li>Patterns in your dating and relationships</li>
</ul>
You can find more from Jillian on her <a href="https://www.jillianturecki.com/">website</a> and on her <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=en">Instagram</a>
We did an episode on break ups back in 2020! You can listen <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000590088336">here!</a>
Another episode that we did on break ups with Alexis Fernandez on break ups is <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000590088236">here!</a>
You can watch us on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@lifeuncutpodcast/featured">Youtube</a>
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Talking all things love, life, lust, and a bunch of other stuff. Nothing is off limits in this podcast that navigates relationships and dating in the modern day. Brought to you by two bachelor finalists Brittany Hockley and Laura Byrne.

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How to Manage a Break Up  & Why You Seem to be Dating the Same Person Over and Over- Uncut with Jillian Turecki

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/fa326977-3de5-4283-9b8b-af3500c58607/clips/18361ef2-fc9b-4f8e-a4e9-b1420177dd34/transcript

Hey Lifers!
Laura has had to go on a 'fishing' expedition in the grossest of places all thanks to Lola! Has your kid ever 'dropped' something valuable in a place that they shouldn't have?
Britt tried to replace the shrine but failed epically and has had to employ a man who woke up in our friend's bed to fix the problem! 


Vibes for the week:
Britt - Picking up a new hobby. Basketball
Laura - India Oxenberg's book 'Still Learning'
Keeshia - By Maay Brooklyn work bag

Then we get into your questions!

DO I START SLEEPING WITH STRANGERS OR JUST HAVE NO SEX LIFE THANKS TO MY PARTNER?
My partner and I have been together for 15 years. We have a 7 year old child who we love. But our sex life is 0. We talked a few months ago about opening our relationship. We both agreed and didn't have many rules. A few weeks later, I slept with an old friend. My partner was unhappy to say the least. Since then he convinced me to let him keep sleeping around but I can only see people I don't know. Now my question is... I'm not comfortable with people I don't know. Sex to me is intimate and needs friendship. Do I start sleeping with strangers or just have no sex for the rest of my life?

MY HUSBAND GAVE ME MONEY AS A BDAY PRESENT 
My husband recently gave me $400 in cash for my birthday present.  For context, we have a joint account and each has a personal account and we get paid equal amounts in our personal accounts every week. We keep a money tin at home where we keep a bit of cash to the side to spend on joint expenses. The $400 birthday money came from our shared tin. At the time I was super grateful and thankful for the cash gift. He also took me out to dinner and paid for that with his personal money which was part of the gift. He said the money is to go towards getting a necklace made that I’ve been wanting for a long time. We aren’t huge on gift giving but I can’t help but feel a little disappointed that he didn’t put any time into thinking about a nice present for me that wasn’t just grabbing money out of the tin and putting it in a card. He did cook me breakfast and show me love in other ways on my birthday but I wish he put some thought into a gift for me. We do live very busy lives and are both self employed and work together so I don’t want to be too hard on him as life has been pretty hectic for both of us lately. How would you bring this up, if even at all? Or do I just move on and stop even thinking about it? Maybe I’m just being completely unreasonable.

DO I GIVE HIM ANOTHER GO AFTER HE DUMPED ME FOR ANOTHER GIRL?
My partner & I were together for 2 years, lived together, were speaking of marriage & kids within the coming year. 8 months ago, something happened randomly and my partner started pulling away. He was so checked out. He said he wanted to go to Bali with a mate and when he returned home he dumped me 2 days later. Little did I know he found a new girlfriend over in Bali, made it official & hard launched their relationship on Instagram 2 weeks later. I was beyond heart broken. I moved back in with my parents & it was the worst time of my life. Fast forward 8 months, he’s called things off with the new girl & has said he can’t move on from me. He said that he’s realised what he’s lost, he has massive issues & is willing to do anything to fix things including couples counselling and deleting his social media in order to gain my trust back… My whole family & friends hate him & I don’t know what to do. Is it worth giving him another go & trust he won’t break my heart again? Or am I risking ending up back at square one and too much damage has been done?



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Hey Lifers! Laura has had to go on a 'fishing' expedition in the grossest of places all thanks to Lola! Has your kid ever 'dropped' something valuable in a place that they shouldn't have? Britt tried to replace the shrine but failed epically and has had to employ a man who woke up in our friend's bed to fix the problem! 
 Vibes for the week: Britt - Picking up a new hobby. Basketball Laura - <a href="https://www.amazon.com.au/Still-Learning-India-Oxenberg/dp/B0DJPJMVW2/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=&amp;sr=">India Oxenberg's book 'Still Learning'</a> Keeshia - <a href="https://bymaay.com/products/brooklyn-cream">By Maay Brooklyn work bag</a>
Then we get into your questions!
DO I START SLEEPING WITH STRANGERS OR JUST HAVE NO SEX LIFE THANKS TO MY PARTNER? My partner and I have been together for 15 years. We have a 7 year old child who we love. But our sex life is 0. We talked a few months ago about opening our relationship. We both agreed and didn't have many rules. A few weeks later, I slept with an old friend. My partner was unhappy to say the least. Since then he convinced me to let him keep sleeping around but I can only see people I don't know. Now my question is... I'm not comfortable with people I don't know. Sex to me is intimate and needs friendship. Do I start sleeping with strangers or just have no sex for the rest of my life?
MY HUSBAND GAVE ME MONEY AS A BDAY PRESENT My husband recently gave me $400 in cash for my birthday present.  For context, we have a joint account and each has a personal account and we get paid equal amounts in our personal accounts every week. We keep a money tin at home where we keep a bit of cash to the side to spend on joint expenses. The $400 birthday money came from our shared tin. At the time I was super grateful and thankful for the cash gift. He also took me out to dinner and paid for that with his personal money which was part of the gift. He said the money is to go towards getting a necklace made that I’ve been wanting for a long time. We aren’t huge on gift giving but I can’t help but feel a little disappointed that he didn’t put any time into thinking about a nice present for me that wasn’t just grabbing money out of the tin and putting it in a card. He did cook me breakfast and show me love in other ways on my birthday but I wish he put some thought into a gift for me. We do live very busy lives and are both self employed and work together so I don’t want to be too hard on him as life has been pretty hectic for both of us lately. How would you bring this up, if even at all? Or do I just move on and stop even thinking about it? Maybe I’m just being completely unreasonable.
DO I GIVE HIM ANOTHER GO AFTER HE DUMPED ME FOR ANOTHER GIRL? My partner &amp; I were together for 2 years, lived together, were speaking of marriage &amp; kids within the coming year. 8 months ago, something happened randomly and my partner started pulling away. He was so checked out. He said he wanted to go to Bali with a mate and when he returned home he dumped me 2 days later. Little did I know he found a new girlfriend over in Bali, made it official &amp; hard launched their relationship on Instagram 2 weeks later. I was beyond heart broken. I moved back in with my parents &amp; it was the worst time of my life. Fast forward 8 months, he’s called things off with the new girl &amp; has said he can’t move on from me. He said that he’s realised what he’s lost, he has massive issues &amp; is willing to do anything to fix things including couples counselling and deleting his social media in order to gain my trust back… My whole family &amp; friends hate him &amp; I don’t know what to do. Is it worth giving him another go &amp; trust he won’t break my heart again? Or am I risking ending up back at square one and too much damage has been done? 
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Ask Uncut - Sleeping With Strangers, Birthday Gifts & Giving An Ex Another Go

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Ever feel as though you’re not quite able to ‘do it all?’ During the past 2 decades, there has been a huge push into the world of ‘hustle culture.’ So many of us feel like we are constant hot messes, rushing around to try and get a million things in our day done. 

Joining the podcast today is Israa Nasir, New York based psychotherapist and author of the new book “Toxic Productivity.” 

Israa is here today to help us let go of the belief that our value is defined by how busy and successful we feel. Israa speaks about this as someone who currently has skin in the game, not from a place of hindsight. We are all having to manage this idea of toxic productivity now!

We chat:
Productivity no longer just applies to work. It’s infiltrated our romantic relationships, friendships, parenting and personal health
Productivity guilt; the guilty feeling when we ‘relax’
The need for external validation can look like people pleasing or a workaholic
Chaotic state of a dysregulated nervous system becoming familiar e.g. ”I do my best work under pressure.” “I thrive in chaos.”
Dynamics that keep us constantly busy, but never satisfied such as; self-worth, shame, social comparison, burnout, and perfectionism
Cultivating a healthier perspective on achievement to understand, manage, and shift our intense emotions 

You can find more from Israa, including her new book at her website

You can follow Israa on Instagram



You can watch us on Youtube

Find us on Instagram

Join us on tiktok

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Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! Xx

Ever feel as though you’re not quite able to ‘do it all?’ During the past 2 decades, there has been a huge push into the world of ‘hustle culture.’ So many of us feel like we are constant hot messes, rushing around to try and get a million things in our day done. 
Joining the podcast today is Israa Nasir, New York based psychotherapist and author of the new book “Toxic Productivity.” 
Israa is here today to help us let go of the belief that our value is defined by how busy and successful we feel. Israa speaks about this as someone who currently has skin in the game, not from a place of hindsight. We are all having to manage this idea of toxic productivity now!
We chat:
<ul>
<li dir="ltr">Productivity no longer just applies to work. It’s infiltrated our romantic relationships, friendships, parenting and personal health</li>
<li dir="ltr">Productivity guilt; the guilty feeling when we ‘relax’</li>
<li dir="ltr">The need for external validation can look like people pleasing or a workaholic</li>
<li dir="ltr">Chaotic state of a dysregulated nervous system becoming familiar e.g. ”I do my best work under pressure.” “I thrive in chaos.”</li>
<li dir="ltr">Dynamics that keep us constantly busy, but never satisfied such as; self-worth, shame, social comparison, burnout, and perfectionism</li>
<li dir="ltr">Cultivating a healthier perspective on achievement to understand, manage, and shift our intense emotions </li>
</ul>
You can find more from Israa, including her new book at her <a href="https://www.israanasir.com/">website</a> 
You can follow Israa on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/well.guide/?hl=en">Instagram</a> 
 
You can watch us on<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@lifeuncutpodcast/featured"> Youtube</a>
Find us on<a href="https://www.instagram.com/lifeuncutpodcast/?hl=en"> Instagram</a>
Join us on<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@lifeuncutpodcast?lang=en"> tiktok</a>
Or join the<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/549565895610504"> Facebook Discussion Group</a>
Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! Xx

How Productivity Has Hijacked Your Life - Uncut with Israa Nasir

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Hey Lifers,

It's officially Britt's bangiversary! She's tried to dupe Ben into a fancy gift but Ben's aware of her antics.
We speak about the advice we got from our grandmothers. Some of it hasn't aged particularly well. 

We might have found the world's most conflict avoidant man; the man who *likely has faked his own death to ditch his family and go to a woman in Europe. There was a video filmed back in June (two months before Ryan Borgwardt's disappearance). It shows a man on a bike asking if he should go to Uzbekistan to meet a woman, despite being married. After the video went viral, authorities say that the video isn't Ryan. 

Also, how do you like your labia? We've spoken about symmetry, length and comfort when it comes to labia but labia puffing seems new.
We ask:
Is our generation more obsessed than ever with labia?


Do you think this trend highlights empowerment or unnecessary pressure for perfection?

You can watch us on Youtube

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Join us on tiktok

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Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! xx

Hey Lifers,
It's officially Britt's bangiversary! She's tried to dupe Ben into a fancy gift but Ben's aware of her antics. We speak about the advice we got from our grandmothers. Some of it hasn't aged particularly well. 
We might have found the world's most conflict avoidant man; the man who *likely has faked his own death to ditch his family and go to a woman in Europe. There was a video filmed back in June (two months before Ryan Borgwardt's disappearance). It shows a man on a bike asking if he should go to Uzbekistan to meet a woman, despite being married. After the video went viral, authorities say that the video isn't Ryan. 
Also, how do you like your labia? We've spoken about symmetry, length and comfort when it comes to labia but labia puffing seems new. We ask:
<ul>
<li>Is our generation more obsessed than ever with labia?</li>
<li dir="ltr" aria-level="1">
Do you think this trend highlights empowerment or unnecessary pressure for perfection?
</li>
</ul>
You can watch us on<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@lifeuncutpodcast/featured"> Youtube</a>
Find us on<a href="https://www.instagram.com/lifeuncutpodcast/?hl=en"> Instagram</a>
Join us on<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@lifeuncutpodcast?lang=en"> tiktok</a>
Or join the<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/549565895610504"> Facebook Discussion Group</a>
Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! xx

Do You Like Your Labia ... Puffed? Plus The Man Who *Likely Faked His Own Death

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/fa326977-3de5-4283-9b8b-af3500c58607/clips/0c531097-8022-4e9d-bb0c-b22c002f30f7/transcript

How to Manage a Break Up & Why You Seem to be Dating the Same Person Over and Over- Uncut with Jillian Turecki

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