Hey Lifers!

Welcome to your therapy Thursday where we all trauma bond and feel better about ourselves because other people have bigger problems than us!

First up today, we unpack whether an Australian designer or a reality TV influencer is in the wrong. Is it fair to out someone if you think they're wrongly asking for a hand out, or is it more wrong to try and publicly humiliate someone?

Our vibes this week:
Keeshia: The Briefing's episode "Was Queen Charlotte the UK's first black Queen?" here

Britt: Jury Duty on Amazon Prime Video here

Then we jump into your questions!

• Our next door neighbour is a sex worker, and we have a 4 month old new baby (read: sleep deprived, exhausted, overwhelmed, all the things). We don’t have any issue with sex work, it’s just… really loud, a lot of spanking, whipping, moaning etc. This is a problem because on the rare occasion we get to sleep, we are often kept awake by the noise. I’m conscious it’s her job though so what can she do? Vice versa, a crying baby probably isn’t the best for her business. Help! 😩
• Are terms of endearment in the workplace ever appropriate? 
  
  
• I’m getting married in November and some people are assuming they’re invited to my wedding. I’m talking to the borderline friends that I see maybe once or twice a year saying statements like “I can’t wait for your wedding” or “have you finished your guest list”. It makes me super uncomfortable and I don’t know how to respond so I just kind of awkwardly laugh.  Do I just need to wait for people's disappointment when they don’t get an invite or do I tell them now that we don’t have enough space for them and they’re not on my list? Help!
  
  

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