Can I dump my boyfriend over text?

My ex has moved on faster than Usain bolt and I’m still over here hurting

I’ve been cheated on in every relationship (both emotionally and physically) how can I distinguish whether my gut instinct is right or wrong? Can I ever trust again?




What more could you possibly want on your Thursday other than a big old dose of ASK UNCUT!? (Rhetorical question, don’t actually answer that)




Let’s do this lovers.




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Can I dump my boyfriend over text?My ex has moved on faster than Usain bolt and I’m still over here hurtingI’ve been cheated on in every relationship (both emotionally and physically) how can I distinguish whether my gut instinct is right or wrong? Can I ever trust again? What more could you possibly want on your Thursday other than a big old dose of ASK UNCUT!? (Rhetorical question, don’t actually answer that) Let’s do this lovers. This ep made possible thanks to our friends over at Marzena. At home, sustainable and gentle waxing strips.  If you loved this ep, or any other eps, please share the love, because, well, we love love x

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ASK UNCUT - HELP! My ex has moved on faster than Usain bolt

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Hey Lifers!

Today’s special ask uncut comes from our favourite fiances Britt and Ben!

First up, they answer a few questions about how it’s been seeing each other again, wedding plans, kids in the future etc! 

Then they jump into your questions!

MY HUSBAND DOESN’T APPRECIATE MY COOKING
My husband & I have a 6 month old baby. I’m a stay at home mum and he works full time. I make dinner every night which is always hard cooking with a baby as my husband doesn’t get home until 6.30 when we’re about to eat. Last night I made dinner like usual and in conversation I said do you like it? He responded ‘ahh it’s alright’ but said it in a way that he wasn’t impressed. This offended me as I put a lot of effort in, while juggling our baby. I would’ve been happy with just toast for dinner but I put in the effort just for him. He thinks it’s ok to be honest and that he thought the dinner was just ok. My question is.. if someone makes you something such as dinner.. is it ok to be honest and say you didn’t really like it? Or be appreciative that someone put in the effort and just say it was good! I asked him if he was at our friends house would he say something they made was just ok? He said no but because this is his home he thinks it’s ok to be honest


MY FRIEND HASN’T TOLD HER NEW BOYFRIEND THAT SHE CHEATED ON HER EX
Should my friend tell her new boyfriend the reason that her and her ex husband split was because she cheated? They’ve been together 6 months and she still hasn’t told him and is doubting she will but I think she’s crazy because he will eventually find out (shit gets around) and I think he will be pissed off that she wasn’t honest with him.

I’VE FALLEN FOR HIM BUT HE SAID HE SEES ME LIKE A SISTER
I have known this guy for 5 years + and he's been there through breakups, graduation, my mum’s cancer and as of recent my mum’s passing/ funeral! My mum loved him and he promised her he would protect me. He's always so active in my life and helping everywhere possible - since all this has happened I now think I'm falling for him but he says he sees me as nothing but a sister. He's 30, l'm 24. Am I just wasting my time or is there something I can do? Also Brit how do I get rid of the feeling as I feel the guy should always pursue you, not the other way around?

I KISSED ANOTHER GUY. DO I TELL MY LONG DISTANCE BOYFRIEND?
I’ve been with my partner for about 3 years, like Britt and Ben we are long distance with him living overseas. We have a great relationship but I haven't seen him for 3-4 months. I made a huge mistake and kissed someone recently on a night out. It meant nothing and I immediately regretted it and felt so guilty. I know it will never happen again. I worry if I tell him it will ruin everything and he may break up with me. Knowing I will never do it again and it was a mistake, do I tell him or can I just keep it to myself and pretend it didn't happen?

SHOULD I COMMIT TO HIM WHEN HE’S 8 YEARS YOUNGER?
So I have been seeing this guy off and on for a year and last night he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend. I’ve been searching for love for years now so this should have made me the happiest girl ever. He’s very into me and has told me and shown me as such. The thing is, he’s 8 years younger than me. I’ve reached an age where I hope my next partner is my last (I want to have kids and time is ticking). I like him and we get along great and have similar goals and values but I guess my question is, how do you know?

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Hey Lifers!
Today&rsquo;s special ask uncut comes from our favourite fiances Britt and Ben!
First up, they answer a few questions about how it&rsquo;s been seeing each other again, wedding plans, kids in the future etc!&nbsp;
Then they jump into your questions!
MY HUSBAND DOESN&rsquo;T APPRECIATE MY COOKING My husband &amp; I have a 6 month old baby. I&rsquo;m a stay at home mum and he works full time. I make dinner every night which is always hard cooking with a baby as my husband doesn&rsquo;t get home until 6.30 when we&rsquo;re about to eat. Last night I made dinner like usual and in conversation I said do you like it? He responded &lsquo;ahh it&rsquo;s alright&rsquo; but said it in a way that he wasn&rsquo;t impressed. This offended me as I put a lot of effort in, while juggling our baby. I would&rsquo;ve been happy with just toast for dinner but I put in the effort just for him. He thinks it&rsquo;s ok to be honest and that he thought the dinner was just ok. My question is.. if someone makes you something such as dinner.. is it ok to be honest and say you didn&rsquo;t really like it? Or be appreciative that someone put in the effort and just say it was good! I asked him if he was at our friends house would he say something they made was just ok? He said no but because this is his home he thinks it&rsquo;s ok to be honest
 MY FRIEND HASN&rsquo;T TOLD HER NEW BOYFRIEND THAT SHE CHEATED ON HER EX Should my friend tell her new boyfriend the reason that her and her ex husband split was because she cheated? They&rsquo;ve been together 6 months and she still hasn&rsquo;t told him and is doubting she will but I think she&rsquo;s crazy because he will eventually find out (shit gets around) and I think he will be pissed off that she wasn&rsquo;t honest with him.
I&rsquo;VE FALLEN FOR HIM BUT HE SAID HE SEES ME LIKE A SISTER I have known this guy for 5 years + and he's been there through breakups, graduation, my mum&rsquo;s cancer and as of recent my mum&rsquo;s passing/ funeral! My mum loved him and he promised her he would protect me. He's always so active in my life and helping everywhere possible - since all this has happened I now think I'm falling for him but he says he sees me as nothing but a sister. He's 30, l'm 24. Am I just wasting my time or is there something I can do? Also Brit how do I get rid of the feeling as I feel the guy should always pursue you, not the other way around?
I KISSED ANOTHER GUY. DO I TELL MY LONG DISTANCE BOYFRIEND? I&rsquo;ve been with my partner for about 3 years, like Britt and Ben we are long distance with him living overseas. We have a great relationship but I haven't seen him for 3-4 months. I made a huge mistake and kissed someone recently on a night out. It meant nothing and I immediately regretted it and felt so guilty. I know it will never happen again. I worry if I tell him it will ruin everything and he may break up with me. Knowing I will never do it again and it was a mistake, do I tell him or can I just keep it to myself and pretend it didn't happen?
SHOULD I COMMIT TO HIM WHEN HE&rsquo;S 8 YEARS YOUNGER? So I have been seeing this guy off and on for a year and last night he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend. I&rsquo;ve been searching for love for years now so this should have made me the happiest girl ever. He&rsquo;s very into me and has told me and shown me as such. The thing is, he&rsquo;s 8 years younger than me. I&rsquo;ve reached an age where I hope my next partner is my last (I want to have kids and time is ticking). I like him and we get along great and have similar goals and values but I guess my question is, how do you know?
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Summer Ask Uncut with Britt and Ben!

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Hey Lifers!! Merry Christmas you wonderful things!

Can we start by saying that if you’re able to watch this on youtube instead, we highly recommend it because we have videos of the entire year and you’ll witness about 17 different hair styles from Britt in 2024 alone!

Laura really wanted us to sing some Christmas carols and she…kinda got her way. We might have discovered one of the weird audio duality sounds where ‘pumpkin pie’ can sound like something else!
Here are some of our favourite bits from the year, and you can listen to the whole episodes by clicking on the links!



Funny bits 


Britt eating someone else’s calamari 


Laura checking a nappy like a dipstick


Britt’s wedding dress code


Laura welfare check

Britt’s Engagement 

Surprise 
Britt and Ben share their engagement details 

Interviews
Elizabeth Gilbert
Tones and I
Angela White

Ask Uncut
Does your partner greet you at the end of the day?


Is it okay to wank at work?
She Cheated With Her Second Cousin

We hope you have the BEST Christmas imaginable. We love and appreciate you!

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Hey Lifers!! Merry Christmas you wonderful things!
Can we start by saying that if you&rsquo;re able to watch this on youtube instead, we highly recommend it because we have videos of the entire year and you&rsquo;ll witness about 17 different hair styles from Britt in 2024 alone!
Laura really wanted us to sing some Christmas carols and she&hellip;kinda got her way. We might have discovered one of the weird audio duality sounds where &lsquo;pumpkin pie&rsquo; can sound like something else! Here are some of our favourite bits from the year, and you can listen to the whole episodes by clicking on the links! 
Funny bits&nbsp;
<ul>
<li dir="ltr" aria-level="1">
<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000656178544">Britt eating someone else&rsquo;s calamari&nbsp;</a>
</li>
<li dir="ltr" aria-level="1">
<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000651109754">Laura checking a nappy like a dipstick</a> 
</li>
<li dir="ltr" aria-level="1">
<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000672088252">Britt&rsquo;s wedding dress code</a>
</li>
<li dir="ltr" aria-level="1">
<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000663014211">Laura welfare check</a>
</li>
</ul>
<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000663014211"></a>Britt&rsquo;s Engagement&nbsp; 
<ul>
<li dir="ltr"><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000658816500">Surprise&nbsp;</a></li>
<li dir="ltr"><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000659309218">Britt and Ben share their engagement details&nbsp;</a></li>
</ul>
Interviews
<ul>
<li><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000675781344">Elizabeth Gilbert</a></li>
<li><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000650521247">Tones and I</a></li>
<li><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000646025797">Angela White</a></li>
</ul>
Ask Uncut
<ul>
<li><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000662556286">Does your partner greet you at the end of the day?</a></li>
<li>
<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000653490986">Is it okay to wank at work?</a>
</li>
<li><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000654205493">She Cheated With Her Second Cousin</a></li>
</ul>
We hope you have the BEST Christmas imaginable. We love and appreciate you!
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Year in Review for 2024! The Funniest, Most Impactful and Most Controversial Moments!

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Hey lifers!
We are coming to you cross continental! Britt is in Romania and has met her brand new niece! We get some updates on how her reunion has been and whether meeting her dream, unicorn niece has shifted the needle on her decision around having a baby herself. 
Laura confesses to rage baiting us all and she's high on the power. Will her house end up looking like Dr Seuss? Most likely!

Vibes for the week:

Laura: All in the mind. The design tricks brands use to get you to buy
Keeshia: Search Engine - What if ayahuasca made you stop podcasting?
Britt: Just Married. The Anthea Bradshaw Mystery

Then we jump into your questions!

HUSBAND DOESN'T LIKE ME WEARING G STRINGS
Been together 12 years (since I was 17), married with 3 young kids. When I was younger, I never wore g-strings and thought they were uncomfortable. Fast forward to my late 20s, and in the past year I've started wearing them to the gym for comfort and more of a seamless style. My husband does not like this. He thinks I'm disrespecting his boundaries and that I'm not being a good wife because I'm 'parading' myself by wearing that kind of underwear with shorts/leggings running or to gym, while he is working hard to provide for our family. I think the request to control the type of underwear I wear is over the top, and it was a decision I made for my own comfort and not to parade to others. I don't want to disrespect him or his boundaries though. What should I do?

SHOULD I BE OFFENDED THAT I WASN’T ASKED TO GO TO THE CHRISTMAS PARTY?
My partner works in a professional job and is employed by the government. I’ve met only a few of his colleagues. For their work Christmas party, they were just going out for dinner to a restaurant that is about an hour away from where we actually live (it’s 20 minutes from their workplace). He initially said that he wasn’t sure if he was going to go but his colleague had said that he should. I asked if partners were also invited and his response was ‘yes’. 
I was a bit taken back because he did not ask me if I wanted to go. When I mentioned this he responded “well you wouldn’t want to go to that surely?” It’s true; it’s not my idea of a good time but I’m feeling upset that I wasn’t actually asked. Is it normal to not ask your partner to go to a Christmas party when there is the option for partners to be included?

HUSBAND ISN'T HELPING WITH HOSTING CHRISTMAS FUNCTION

Each year, my cousin, her husband and my husband do Christmas dinner. We plan it in January as December is hectic and we plant it a year out. This year my husband and I are hosting. The problem is that my husband has just been invited to a work mate’s bucks party and it falls on the same day as our Christmas tradition night. He has said yes to going to the bucks for bottomless lunch, but here I am having to clean, prepare the food, decorate and get everything sorted all on my own. On top of this, the day before is my husband’s work Christmas function. So I’m fully on my own riding this beast. I’m annoyed that I’ve been lumped with all of the responsibilities. What can I actually do about this? Do I just ‘suck it up’ and try to not allow the dates for next time to clash so much or do I cancel our Christmas dinner?

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Hey lifers! We are coming to you cross continental! Britt is in Romania and has met her brand new niece! We get some updates on how her reunion has been and whether meeting her dream, unicorn niece has shifted the needle on her decision around having a baby herself.&nbsp; Laura confesses to rage baiting us all and she's high on the power. Will her house end up looking like Dr Seuss? Most likely!
Vibes for the week:
Laura: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-design-tricks-brands-use-to-get-you-to-buy/id73330911?i=1000680368849">All in the mind. The design tricks brands use to get you to buy</a> Keeshia: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/search-engine/id1614253637?i=1000680248330">Search Engine - What if ayahuasca made you stop podcasting?</a> Britt: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/just-married-the-anthea-bradshaw-mystery/id1755666485">Just Married. The Anthea Bradshaw Mystery</a>
Then we jump into your questions!
HUSBAND DOESN'T LIKE ME WEARING G STRINGS Been together 12 years (since I was 17), married with 3 young kids. When I was younger, I never wore g-strings and thought they were uncomfortable. Fast forward to my late 20s, and in the past year I've started wearing them to the gym for comfort and more of a seamless style. My husband does not like this. He thinks I'm disrespecting his boundaries and that I'm not being a good wife because I'm 'parading' myself by wearing that kind of underwear with shorts/leggings running or to gym, while he is working hard to provide for our family. I think the request to control the type of underwear I wear is over the top, and it was a decision I made for my own comfort and not to parade to others. I don't want to disrespect him or his boundaries though. What should I do?
SHOULD I BE OFFENDED THAT I WASN&rsquo;T ASKED TO GO TO THE CHRISTMAS PARTY? My partner works in a professional job and is employed by the government. I&rsquo;ve met only a few of his colleagues. For their work Christmas party, they were just going out for dinner to a restaurant that is about an hour away from where we actually live (it&rsquo;s 20 minutes from their workplace). He initially said that he wasn&rsquo;t sure if he was going to go but his colleague had said that he should. I asked if partners were also invited and his response was &lsquo;yes&rsquo;. I was a bit taken back because he did not ask me if I wanted to go. When I mentioned this he responded &ldquo;well you wouldn&rsquo;t want to go to that surely?&rdquo; It&rsquo;s true; it&rsquo;s not my idea of a good time but I&rsquo;m feeling upset that I wasn&rsquo;t actually asked. Is it normal to not ask your partner to go to a Christmas party when there is the option for partners to be included?
HUSBAND ISN'T HELPING WITH HOSTING CHRISTMAS FUNCTION
Each year, my cousin, her husband and my husband do Christmas dinner. We plan it in January as December is hectic and we plant it a year out. This year my husband and I are hosting.&nbsp;The problem is that my husband has just been invited to a work mate&rsquo;s bucks party and it falls on the same day as our Christmas tradition night. He has said yes to going to the bucks for bottomless lunch, but here I am having to clean, prepare the food, decorate and get everything sorted all on my own. On top of this, the day before is my husband&rsquo;s work Christmas function. So I&rsquo;m fully on my own riding this beast. I&rsquo;m annoyed that I&rsquo;ve been lumped with all of the responsibilities. What can I actually do about this? Do I just &lsquo;suck it up&rsquo; and try to not allow the dates for next time to clash so much or do I cancel our Christmas dinner?
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Ask Uncut - Christmas Parties, G Strings and the Mental Load of Hosting Christmas

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