THE LETTER

Hi Mapaseka, the situation with my wife i feel is sensitive; i just paid lobola last
month. My challenge is that I always feel she doesn't understand me and she wants to win in all arguments. She says i always sulk during conflict moments and I dont view it that way as i simply step back and not continue the argument in order to avoid further misunderstanding. This is weighing me down and i can see its having the same effect on her as well. FROM ZWELAKHE

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