Ify got chatting on a cold Eora morning with Tanya Koens, a somatic sexologist and pleasure activist from Pleasure Love Rating. Tanya joins us on our segment Let's Talk About Sex!

Tanya discusses the importance of holding on to our own identity when we are within a relationship. Why is it that sometimes we get caught up in our romantic relationships and neglect our friendships and other connections? Tanya talks about how we can manage jealousy, insecurity, and our own independence within our relationships and how this can strengthen our bond.