What if the biggest thing holding you back isn't a lack of confidence...but caring too much about what other people think?

In this episode of Leading You, Julie Hyde shares a simple moment from a morning walk that became an unexpected lesson in self-leadership. Watching a father joyfully sing to his baby daughter without worrying who might be listening sparked a powerful question...

How much of your life are you editing because of an audience that isn't even watching?

Julie explores why fear of judgement shapes our decisions more than we realise, how self-editing chips away at our confidence, and why authentic leadership begins with giving yourself permission to simply be yourself.

In this episode:
Why fear of judgement quietly influences our choices.
How self-editing affects confidence and leadership.
The hidden cost of trying to meet other people's expectations.
Why authenticity is one of the greatest acts of self-leadership.
A simple question that could change the way you show up.

 

Timestamps

00:00 A Morning Walk That Made Me Think
01:28 The Invisible Audience We Carry
03:42 Where Are You Editing Yourself?
06:05 Confidence vs Approval
08:37 The Cost of Playing Small
10:56 Leading From Authenticity
13:14 One Question to Take Away

 

Links:
Learn more about my group coaching program here
Get the Clarity Compass here



Connect with Julie:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/
Instagram:@juliehydeleads
Website: https://juliehyde.com.au

What if the biggest thing holding you back isn't a lack of confidence...but caring too much about what other people think?
In this episode of&nbsp;Leading You, Julie Hyde shares a simple moment from a morning walk that became an unexpected lesson in self-leadership. Watching a father joyfully sing to his baby daughter without worrying who might be listening sparked a powerful question...
How much of your life are you editing because of an audience that isn't even watching?
Julie explores why fear of judgement shapes our decisions more than we realise, how self-editing chips away at our confidence, and why authentic leadership begins with giving yourself permission to simply be yourself.
In this episode:
<ul>
<li>Why fear of judgement quietly influences our choices.</li>
<li>How self-editing affects confidence and leadership.</li>
<li>The hidden cost of trying to meet other people's expectations.</li>
<li>Why authenticity is one of the greatest acts of self-leadership.</li>
<li>A simple question that could change the way you show up.</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Timestamps
00:00 A Morning Walk That Made Me Think 01:28 The Invisible Audience We Carry 03:42 Where Are You Editing Yourself? 06:05 Confidence vs Approval 08:37 The Cost of Playing Small 10:56 Leading From Authenticity 13:14 One Question to Take Away
&nbsp;
Links: Learn more about my group coaching program&nbsp;<a href="https://juliehyde.com.au/leadher-mastermind">here</a> Get the Clarity Compass <a href="https://programs.juliehyde.com.au/programs/claritycompass/">here</a> 
Connect with Julie: LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/" data-href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/">https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/</a> Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/juliehydeleads/" data-href="https://www.instagram.com/juliehydeleads/"> @juliehydeleads</a> Website:&nbsp;<a href="https://juliehyde.com.au">https://juliehyde.com.au</a>

Want to know the secret to confident and successful leadership?

Every week, Leading You showcases leadership of all kinds and you get the scoop on how to be an effective, modern leader who makes an impact.

There’s one thing we all have in common. We’re all leaders. First and foremost, you’re a leader of you. You don’t need a title to be a leader. Leadership is a mindset which anyone can adopt to create influence. The more leaders the world has, the better it will be.

I'll let you into something I know to be true - You can’t be a leader of others unless you’re a leader of self first. So if you want to have impact that leads to prosperity and happiness, it all starts with you. With your mindset and personal leadership toolbox, which Leading You will help you build up.

Leading you is hosted by Julie Hyde, an entrepreneur, corporate drop out and passionate leader. Julie knows one thing: you can’t control what happens to you but you can control how you respond. It’s why Leading You is important.

Each week, guests share their secret sauce. They reveal their roadmaps to success. How they’ve stayed anchored to who they are, insights into their courage and resilience and how to be emotionally and behaviourally agile. It’s a conversation, not an interrogation, and you’ll hear the human side of household names.

Want to know the secret to confident and successful leadership?
Every week, Leading You showcases leadership of all kinds and you get the scoop on how to be an effective, modern leader who makes an impact.
There’s one thing we all have in common. We’re all leaders. First and foremost, you’re a leader of you. You don’t need a title to be a leader. Leadership is a mindset which anyone can adopt to create influence. The more leaders the world has, the better it will be.
I'll let you into something I know to be true - You can’t be a leader of others unless you’re a leader of self first. So if you want to have impact that leads to prosperity and happiness, it all starts with you. With your mindset and personal leadership toolbox, which Leading You will help you build up.
Leading you is hosted by Julie Hyde, an entrepreneur, corporate drop out and passionate leader. Julie knows one thing: you can’t control what happens to you but you can control how you respond. It’s why Leading You is important.
Each week, guests share their secret sauce. They reveal their roadmaps to success. How they’ve stayed anchored to who they are, insights into their courage and resilience and how to be emotionally and behaviourally agile. It’s a conversation, not an interrogation, and you’ll hear the human side of household names.

A Podcast dedicated to business owners and leaders to inspire you to make it count

Leading You

Want to know the secret to confident and successful leadership?
Every week, Leading You showcases leadership of all kinds and you get the scoop on how to be an effective, modern leader who makes an impact.
There’s one thing we all have in common. We’re all leaders. First and foremost, you’re a leader of you. You don’t need a title to be a leader. Leadership is a mindset which anyone can adopt to create influence. The more leaders the world has, the better it will be.
I'll let you into something I know to be true - You can’t be a leader of others unless you’re a leader of self first. So if you want to have impact that leads to prosperity and happiness, it all starts with you. With your mindset and personal leadership toolbox, which Leading You will help you build up.
Leading you is hosted by Julie Hyde, an entrepreneur, corporate drop out and passionate leader. Julie knows one thing: you can’t control what happens to you but you can control how you respond. It’s why Leading You is important.
Each week, guests share their secret sauce. They reveal their roadmaps to success. How they’ve stayed anchored to who they are, insights into their courage and resilience and how to be emotionally and behaviourally agile. It’s a conversation, not an interrogation, and you’ll hear the human side of household names.

Leading You | Self-Leadership for High Achievers

He Was Singing to His Baby and Didn't Care Who Was Watching

What if one of the biggest factors affecting your leadership isn't another course, another strategy or another productivity hack... but the quality of your sleep?

In this episode of Leading You, Julie Hyde is joined by behavioural scientist and performance expert Dr Jemma King to explore the science of sleep and why it's one of the most overlooked drivers of leadership performance.

Together, they unpack what really happens when you wake at 3am, how sleep impacts your ability to think, regulate emotions and make decisions, and the simple habits that can help you perform at your best.

In this episode:
Why sleep is a leadership strategy, not a luxury.
What happens to your brain while you sleep.
Why so many people wake at 2am or 3am.
How poor sleep affects decision-making, resilience and emotional regulation.
The role of cortisol, caffeine and circadian rhythms.
Practical ways to improve your sleep and performance.

 

Links:

Learn more about my group coaching program here
Get the Clarity Compass here

 

Connect with Julie:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/
Instagram: @juliehydeleads
Website: https://juliehyde.com.au

 

Connect with Dr Jemma: 
Website: https://jemmakingbio-pa.com.au/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.jemma.king/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-jemma-king-phd-76013328/

What if one of the biggest factors affecting your leadership isn't another course, another strategy or another productivity hack... but the quality of your sleep?
In this episode of&nbsp;Leading You, Julie Hyde is joined by behavioural scientist and performance expert Dr Jemma King to explore the science of sleep and why it's one of the most overlooked drivers of leadership performance.
Together, they unpack what really happens when you wake at 3am, how sleep impacts your ability to think, regulate emotions and make decisions, and the simple habits that can help you perform at your best.
In this episode:
<ul>
<li>Why sleep is a leadership strategy, not a luxury.</li>
<li>What happens to your brain while you sleep.</li>
<li>Why so many people wake at 2am or 3am.</li>
<li>How poor sleep affects decision-making, resilience and emotional regulation.</li>
<li>The role of cortisol, caffeine and circadian rhythms.</li>
<li>Practical ways to improve your sleep and performance.</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Links:
Learn more about my group coaching program&nbsp;<a href="https://juliehyde.com.au/leadher-mastermind">here</a> Get the Clarity Compass&nbsp;<a href="https://programs.juliehyde.com.au/programs/claritycompass/">here</a>
&nbsp;
Connect with Julie: LinkedIn:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/">https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/</a> Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/juliehydeleads/">&nbsp;@juliehydeleads</a> Website:&nbsp;<a href="https://juliehyde.com.au">https://juliehyde.com.au</a>
&nbsp;
Connect with Dr Jemma:&nbsp; Website:&nbsp;<a href="https://jemmakingbio-pa.com.au/">https://jemmakingbio-pa.com.au/</a> Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/dr.jemma.king/">&nbsp;https://www.instagram.com/dr.jemma.king/</a> LinkedIn:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-jemma-king-phd-76013328/">https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-jemma-king-phd-76013328/</a>

The 3am Wake Up Call | Sleep, Performance and Leadership | with Dr Jemma King

What if happiness wasn't something you had to chase, but something you could learn?

In this episode of Leading You, Julie Hyde is joined by happiness expert, speaker and author Declan Edwards to explore the science behind happiness, emotional intelligence and why so many of us fall into the "I'll be happy when..." trap.

Together they unpack why achievement alone doesn't create fulfilment, how our emotions influence those around us, and why happiness is less about circumstance and more about the skills we build every day.

In this episode we discuss:
Why we're pursuing happiness more than ever, yet feeling less fulfilled.
The "hedonic treadmill" and why the goalposts keep moving.
Why happiness is a learnable skill, not a personality trait.
The link between emotional intelligence, leadership and wellbeing.
How perfectionism, people pleasing and external validation affect happiness.
Why relationships have a greater impact on happiness than success.
A simple two-word exercise to improve emotional awareness.

 

Timestamps

00:00 From 75 Skills to 5
00:43 Meet Declan Edwards
01:48 Why We Are Less Happy
04:17 Declan's Personal Turning Point
08:46 Building a Happiness Toolkit
09:54 Sponsor – Clarity Compass
10:39 Happiness Is Contagious
14:49 Leadership's Ripple Effect
17:24 Five Core Happiness Skills
23:26 The Two-Word Emotional Check-In
27:26 Book Launch and Final Thoughts

 

Links:
Learn more about my group coaching program here
Get the Clarity Compass here

 

Connect with Julie:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/
Instagram: @juliehydeleads
Website: https://juliehyde.com.au

 

Connect with Declan:
Website: https://declanedwards.com.au/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/declan-edwards-bu-happiness-college/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/declanedwards_bu/

What if happiness wasn't something you had to chase, but something you could learn?
In this episode of&nbsp;Leading You, Julie Hyde is joined by happiness expert, speaker and author Declan Edwards to explore the science behind happiness, emotional intelligence and why so many of us fall into the "I'll be happy when..." trap.
Together they unpack why achievement alone doesn't create fulfilment, how our emotions influence those around us, and why happiness is less about circumstance and more about the skills we build every day.
In this episode we discuss:
<ul>
<li>Why we're pursuing happiness more than ever, yet feeling less fulfilled.</li>
<li>The "hedonic treadmill" and why the goalposts keep moving.</li>
<li>Why happiness is a learnable skill, not a personality trait.</li>
<li>The link between emotional intelligence, leadership and wellbeing.</li>
<li>How perfectionism, people pleasing and external validation affect happiness.</li>
<li>Why relationships have a greater impact on happiness than success.</li>
<li>A simple two-word exercise to improve emotional awareness.</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Timestamps
00:00 From 75 Skills to 5 00:43 Meet Declan Edwards 01:48 Why We Are Less Happy 04:17 Declan's Personal Turning Point 08:46 Building a Happiness Toolkit 09:54 Sponsor &ndash; Clarity Compass 10:39 Happiness Is Contagious 14:49 Leadership's Ripple Effect 17:24 Five Core Happiness Skills 23:26 The Two-Word Emotional Check-In 27:26 Book Launch and Final Thoughts
&nbsp;
Links: Learn more about my group coaching program&nbsp;<a href="https://juliehyde.com.au/leadher-mastermind">here</a> Get the Clarity Compass&nbsp;<a href="https://programs.juliehyde.com.au/programs/claritycompass/">here</a>
&nbsp;
Connect with Julie: LinkedIn:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/">https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/</a> Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/juliehydeleads/">&nbsp;@juliehydeleads</a> Website:&nbsp;<a href="https://juliehyde.com.au">https://juliehyde.com.au</a>
&nbsp;
Connect with Declan: Website:&nbsp;<a href="https://declanedwards.com.au/">https://declanedwards.com.au/</a> LinkedIn:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/declan-edwards-bu-happiness-college/">https://www.linkedin.com/in/declan-edwards-bu-happiness-college/</a> Instagram:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/declanedwards_bu/">https://www.instagram.com/declanedwards_bu/</a>

How to Be Happier with Declan Edwards

How many times have you told yourself:

"I'm going to do that."
"I really should get onto that."
"This year will be different."

And then… nothing changes?

In this episode of Leading You, Julie Hyde explores one of the biggest reasons capable people fail to create meaningful change: the difference between being interested in something and being truly committed to it.

Using a simple but surprisingly powerful story about homemade muesli bars, Julie unpacks the psychology behind why good intentions rarely lead to consistent action. She explores the "intention-behaviour gap"—the space between what we say we want to do and what we actually follow through on.

Drawing on the research of psychologist Peter Gollwitzer, Julie explains why people are dramatically more likely to achieve their goals when they move beyond vague intentions and make specific commitments about when, where and how they'll take action.

Whether it's your leadership, health, relationships or personal growth, this episode will challenge you to stop confusing wanting something with deciding to do it.

In this episode, we discuss:
The difference between being interested and being committed
The psychology behind the intention-behaviour gap
Why good intentions rarely create lasting change
How procrastination keeps capable people stuck
Why language shapes mindset and behaviour
The power of specificity, structure and accountability
Why clarity matters more than motivation
How commitment changes focus, energy and follow-through
Leadership habits that stay stuck in "interested" mode
Practical strategies to turn intention into action

This is a practical, honest and highly relatable conversation about self-leadership, accountability and closing the gap between knowing what to do and actually doing it.

 

Timestamps

00:00 Welcome and Theme
00:16 The Muesli Bars Lesson
02:21 The Intention vs Action Gap
03:27 The 50/50 Problem
05:23 Interested or Committed?
08:01 How Language Shapes Behaviour
10:09 Three Practical Steps
10:22 Step One: Name It
11:40 Step Two: When, Where and How
13:05 Step Three: Meaning and Honesty
15:23 Wrap Up and Next Actions
16:51 Clarity Compass and Farewell

 

Links:
Learn more about my group coaching program here
Get the Clarity Compass here

 

Connect with Julie:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/
Instagram:@juliehydeleads
Website: https://juliehyde.com.au

How many times have you told yourself:
"I'm going to do that." "I really should get onto that." "This year will be different."
And then&hellip; nothing changes?
In this episode of&nbsp;Leading You, Julie Hyde explores one of the biggest reasons capable people fail to create meaningful change: the difference between being interested in something and being truly committed to it.
Using a simple but surprisingly powerful story about homemade muesli bars, Julie unpacks the psychology behind why good intentions rarely lead to consistent action. She explores the "intention-behaviour gap"&mdash;the space between what we say we want to do and what we actually follow through on.
Drawing on the research of psychologist Peter Gollwitzer, Julie explains why people are dramatically more likely to achieve their goals when they move beyond vague intentions and make specific commitments about when, where and how they'll take action.
Whether it's your leadership, health, relationships or personal growth, this episode will challenge you to stop confusing wanting something with deciding to do it.
In this episode, we discuss:
<ul>
<li>The difference between being interested and being committed</li>
<li>The psychology behind the intention-behaviour gap</li>
<li>Why good intentions rarely create lasting change</li>
<li>How procrastination keeps capable people stuck</li>
<li>Why language shapes mindset and behaviour</li>
<li>The power of specificity, structure and accountability</li>
<li>Why clarity matters more than motivation</li>
<li>How commitment changes focus, energy and follow-through</li>
<li>Leadership habits that stay stuck in "interested" mode</li>
<li>Practical strategies to turn intention into action</li>
</ul>
This is a practical, honest and highly relatable conversation about self-leadership, accountability and closing the gap between knowing what to do and actually doing it.
&nbsp;
Timestamps
00:00 Welcome and Theme 00:16 The Muesli Bars Lesson 02:21 The Intention vs Action Gap 03:27 The 50/50 Problem 05:23 Interested or Committed? 08:01 How Language Shapes Behaviour 10:09 Three Practical Steps 10:22 Step One: Name It 11:40 Step Two: When, Where and How 13:05 Step Three: Meaning and Honesty 15:23 Wrap Up and Next Actions 16:51 Clarity Compass and Farewell
&nbsp;
Links: Learn more about my group coaching program&nbsp;<a href="https://juliehyde.com.au/leadher-mastermind">here</a> Get the Clarity Compass <a href="https://programs.juliehyde.com.au/programs/claritycompass/">here</a>
&nbsp;
Connect with Julie: LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/" data-href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/">https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/</a> Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/juliehydeleads/" data-href="https://www.instagram.com/juliehydeleads/"> @juliehydeleads</a> Website:&nbsp;<a href="https://juliehyde.com.au">https://juliehyde.com.au</a>

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