Dignity Roasters is an initiative of Wear Gloves in Ocala and is truly a God story from beginning until end! Ken and Wendy Kebrdle are the founders of the ministry. It began for them in Romania, where they saw abject poverty. They couldn't deny what they saw and couldn't resist the Lord's command for them to sell everything they owned! They traded in their lives of making money and instead, bought a bus, in which they traveled the country to spend time with the homeless, the addicted and disconnected. This led them to start Wear Gloves and today, the ministry is helping the downtrodden to learn about the Lord, while earning a living. The Lord is transforming scores of people, showing us how to treat His image bearers with love.... and dignity!
Sitting across from us. Ken and Wendy. Kabuto. Ken and Wendy. We are old friends. Yes, sir. And it's so nice to actually see you here face to face and.
To be here. This is so cool.
This is so cool that you're here. We're really honored that you decided to come and hang out with us in our cafe today.
I just want to dive in, guys. First of all, when it comes to, uh, how long have you guys known the Lord? I'm just going to ask you that right out of the gate.
So we were we were older. I mean, we were not children when we met. Jesus. Um, really? Yeah. No, we were both adults.
Um, were you married?
Our second marriage. Okay. Um, after we married each other for the second time. I mean, you know, our second marriages, and, um, he was 40, you know, I mean, it was later in life.
It was later in life. That's very interesting. It is an interesting part of the story.
An unusual statistic about that. Yeah.
Wow. Yeah, but that's great. I'd love to hear how how God works in people's lives. I mean, if you listen to the show, you know that's true. So you guys, um, you were doing very well. Yes. I mean, you were able to you had a very comfortable lifestyle. Yes. Um, you could take the fancy vacations, you could have the big house. You could have all those things. Um. And then God interrupted your life.
Interrupted? That's a great word.
Uh, let's talk about what happened. Ken, why don't you start?
All right. Well, again, we're fairly new believers, and we went on a mission trip to Romania with Harvest International, and that kind of changed everything. I mean, we're there and realizing that we're not using the skills and the, uh, gifts that God gave us. More than having a Bible study at her house once a week. Yes, we decided to do something. So we sold everything, moved into a bus with our 12 year old then 12 year old daughter, Maddie. And okay.
Now wait a minute. You kind of went through that fast. We sold everything.
We did.
That. How much prayer did that take before you took that step?
God doesn't have a communication problem. You know, it was pretty clear that we were going to do something, and we didn't know exactly what that was at that time. But we knew that, um, we needed to learn a lot more about poverty and folks that we wanted to help. So we just decided to immerse. So we quit our jobs and moved into a bus and sold everything.
This sounds like cold turkey. In essence, that what? That's what it was. It was about.
A four month process and God was working on us individually for towards the same goal. So I was I was reading articles and and studying the word and hearing, you know, that God was shaking things up and he was, um, driving and, and praying and listening to the radio, listening to the word and shaking things up in him, too. And, and one day we, we said, you know, something is coming. Some we knew something was coming. And it was a for about four months between when God was speaking to us individually and when we were in the bus. I mean, it happened really quickly.
What did you guys do for a living before you ended up in a bus?
Well, I ran a distribution company here, so I moved down to Florida, um, to follow that job. And, uh, it was it was fruitful.
Yeah, it was.
Very lucrative, wasn't it? It was. Yeah. God had blessed you. Yeah. So how did you prepare financially for all this? Honestly? I mean, that's just the practical stuff.
We weren't. Again, we were making money and stuff. We kind of drained our retirement and sold everything. So we had enough.
You drained your retirement?
Yep. Mhm. Okay. Yeah.
It doesn't make sense but.
Well it worked out well.
See this is counterintuitive. Yeah. But this is really a great illustration of the upside down economy of, of God's kingdom. Um, you know, he doesn't call all of us to do the very same thing, okay. But he does call some people to do what you guys have done. He calls.
Us all to do something, but he.
Calls us to do something, whatever it.
Is. Yeah. And, you know, I was talking to somebody about the this movie where a kid beat his brother swimming, basically. And he never had done that before. And he said, how did you do that? And he said, because I didn't leave anything for the trip back home. He used everything. And that's what you did. You used everything to go forward because you don't need anything for the trip back. He'll take you where you're going to go next. You know, I love that.
That's great. So, uh, you liquidated all your stuff. Then we.
Did. We sold everything. We had 12 garage sales in a row over three month period, and we had frequent shoppers coming in saying, what room are you doing today? Yeah, you could just go room by room and empty out drawers and take pictures off walls and put them out for sale.
And it happened a little quicker than we expected. You know, we thought we'd start getting rid of stuff, just kind of downsize and. Yeah, and really quick and oh, we got to get the money together for a bus, I guess.
Okay. So how did you find the bus?
We bought it sight unseen.
Oh.
Do you recommend doing that to by the way.
Is that it worked out.
It worked out great for us. It did. It was a it was a great home. We lived in it for four and a half years. It was great. Um, we we called a, um, dealership and talked to a salesman who happened to be a believer. Thank you. Jesus.
And there you go. God, I'm watching the dots already.
We told him what we were going to be doing, and we're going to be living in it full time. We need it to have lots of power to get up a mountain. If that's where God takes us. We need to be able to, um, have our own power and be self-sufficient in a disaster area if that's where God takes us. And he said, I think I have one for you. And it was exactly what we said. It's exactly what we had earned from selling all of our stuff to the.
Dollar to the.
Dollar.
The dollar and.
Yay! God. Uh, yeah.
That's the price. And that's exactly what we have. We'll take it. We did it over the phone.
See, a lot of us want to experience God in that way in our lives, but are we willing to put ourselves in the position where we need a miracle like this for God to show up? That's where the rub is. You guys took the step and you decided to do it.
We we believe that if if there's a a door opening, we're supposed to go through it when God closes a door. Okay, that wasn't the way we're going to turn and go a different direction. And God kept opening doors and we just kept walking through them.
See, this is great. You still do. And you're still doing it. Yeah, it's still a walk of faith. But to see how God has and we'll get to that part of the story of where we are today. But let's talk about driving around the country in the bus and what you experienced and what you you. I like that word that you use. Can you immersed yourselves? In all of this. You. Where did you go? How did you know where you were going to go and how did. Yeah. How did that work? Did you have a map?
Oh, yeah. Well, we kind of had an idea. We started communicating with churches, you know, and saying, hey, we're going to be coming through Houston, Texas in the next year or so. You know, can we come in and talk? So we had a lot of that stuff lined up. We really kind of expected more, uh, more of a welcoming, uh, you know, assistance. As we were traveling around and stuff.
Did you find the churches were mostly concerned? I hate to overgeneralize, but we're being honest with what was going on within the four walls of the church. And, uh, was that kind of a challenge for you?
Um. Yes. Okay.
Yeah. We need to lay.
It out there. We've got to be real.
Yeah, yeah, we, um, we learned a lot about that, too, you know, just, uh, uh, churches are often very tied up with their in walls business and not really open to new ideas and stuff. And we were kind of attacking it at a different level. Um, it was really before a lot of the books they came out now about when Helping Hurts and yeah, we were kind of going in there looking at how dependency is creating a problem.
How did you stay encouraged when you faced moments like that?
For for us, the greatest experiences that we had were hanging out on the streets and under bridges and in the deserts and in tent encampments.
Would you sit with these people?
Would you pray with them? Would you talk to them? And immersing.
Yourself?
Friends, you know, we wanted to learn about this culture of poverty that we did not come from. We weren't we didn't know anything about it. So the best way to learn about it is to to be there and stand in the soup kitchen line and receive the services and understand how it feels and how it works. And, um, people on the streets became our friends and they still are.
Do you stay in contact with some of these folks you met on your first trip?
There are several, um, we call them our homies. There are several homies around the country that, um, support our ministry every month. They they just automatically take $10 a month out of their check, whatever they receive, and they send it to us. Yes.
Still, God.
Is so pleased with that.
Yeah. Yes.
Let me just tell you, you know, it's the widow's mite, isn't it?
Exactly.
It's as if they gave $10 million in.
Exactly.
Wow. This is great, Kurt.
You mentioned. Uh, yeah. Uh, did we pray with them? Pray for them when we're out there? Um, the cool thing about our ministry is we ask them to be praying for us. So they still are in contact with us, letting us know that they're even though they're living in tents out in the middle of Oklahoma. They're still praying for our ministry, you know, which is the beautiful side of it.
You know what? What I'm thinking the word. Yeah, that's dignity. And that's humbling isn't it? Mhm. It's very, very humbling.
And you work with people not just who are homeless but who have been somehow disconnected. Correct. So that you help them reconnect.
Probably only about 30% of our clients are truly homeless. Oh, a lot of our clients are recently incarcerated. They're, um, in recovery houses for substance use disorder. They have, uh, a mental illness. Um, all of our they all come from different walks of life. But there is a common thread and that is trauma. So everybody's been through something traumatic in their life, and they just didn't have the community or the support to help them get through it. I mean, if if I lost my job and lost everything, I would have 100 people say, come stay with me while you grieve and while.
Folks don't have anybody, you know, and it's a situation where, you know, and and to there again, I, I'd just like to highlight this because it's so important because you can have people, uh, even from false religions. I'm just going to lay it out there. Who will meet temporal needs. And it's good that they're helping people, but it's bad that they're leading them astray. Or at the very least, they're not even sharing the gospel with them. So you're giving them something so much more than just helping this life, right?
It's a it's a community here. Yes. It's it's people with lived experiences helping people with lived experiences. Right. So it's a peer to peer. We found that that is so much more valuable and impactful.
Do you guys.
Get a lot of donations of stuff in your warehouse from maybe businesses?
So we do have a general store here where we, um, stock items that you cannot purchase with your food stamps with your EBT. And so those items we sell for pennies on the dollar as our clients are learning how to budget, budget, we all.
Work on that.
Learning what financial wellness looks like. And they have an opportunity then to shop in our general store for those kind of items. Yes, we take donations. We have an Amazon wish list too.
Oh good. Yeah, we should.
Put that on somewhere. It must be somewhere on online. Is it on here? Okay, great. It's on your website which if you text.
Coffee.
Coffee. You will get that all that information text coffee to 888. 777. Six. Eight, ten. Oh, there's the wish list.
Okay, here's the wish list. Uh, is this the one that's on Amazon? Yes. Okay, so all kinds of I don't have my reading glasses here. So big trouble.
We need 24 font household.
Yeah that's Mr. 24. That's my that's my font size uh, household cleaning supplies. I'm just going to mention a few of these things. Uh, deodorant, shampoo, first aid supplies. Uh, Kleenex. Uh, Kate has. Yeah. You want to donate some Kleenex here this morning? Uh, yeah. All kinds of stuff. Medications like Tylenol, Advil, Benadryl, vitamins, sunscreen, batteries, flashlights, diapers and wipes and dog and cat and pet food. Um, do you see any pets come through? You know, your, uh, you know, for instance, some folks, maybe they they're homeless, but they have a dog or something.
Pets make great companions. Yes, they.
Do.
Unconditional love. And for folks who need that, pets are. That's a great pets fill a void.
And you mentioned diapers and I know another I mean, you have so much going on here. Another aspect is you help people in domestic violence situations.
We do. We were realizing, you know, as God's unfolding, what this ministry, uh, looks like and, and what it could be. We were realizing that some of our ladies were struggling with housing because of, uh, domestic violence. Right. Or just being homeless and living in the park. Uh, and it's just not safe now for a woman to do that. So, um, with a lot of prayer, we decided where gloves would with our board. We decided we would buy a house. So where gloves has a house, we own a three bedroom house. They each have their own private room with a door with a lock. Where? The place where they can feel safe. Um, and that's kind of a new initiative for us, but we're very excited to, you know, maybe buy more houses and, and house more, more women or men. The need is great. The need is really, really great for housing.
Is that called dignity House?
It's the dignity house.
Okay. Yes, I've got it now. That's exciting. Yes, that would be great. So it's just for the ladies now.
For right now.
Yeah.
What is God placing on your hearts right now that you can tell us about? How is he moving? How is he opening doors? Is there something a brewing? Pun intended.
Yeah. Um, the housing is just really kind of what we're focused on now. He's really. And that's really just in the last couple of months. I mean, it's that recent. Yes. God speaks and we're just like, all right, he's opening a door. Let's go. Uh, that's just sort of our attitude about it. So we are talking with our community leaders about purchasing, uh, other houses that we can that we can put folks in hotel.
Yeah. I always I've.
Seen some of those turned in. That would be nice. Mhm. 20 rooms right away. Yep I like.
It. Do you guys like to dream.
Oh we're big dreamers.
We're big I know I knew you were going to say that obviously. Do you think so. Let's talk about that principle of following where God leads. Um sometimes we make our plans but he's the one who directs our step. How do you guys walk that line of. I don't want to presume upon God. I want to follow him. But I also know that we do need to, you know, we like to make plans, right? You kind of need to know where you're going. In general, how do you hold your plans loosely? How does God guide you? What role does prayer and the word play in all of that in your life?
God will. It's interesting. My husband is a great visionary and he'll start stirring and start thinking about hmm, I wonder what it would look like if wear gloves got into housing. So then I am, uh, very logical and I'm the planner. I'm like, okay, we need to go to a conference. We need to read these books. We need to do these things and start learning whatever we can learn about it. And and he's he's praying. We're both praying together and individually. And I'm studying and sharing what I'm learning. And, um, we're we're diving in. We dive in head first. We we go to other states and we visit models, you know, that are working and some that aren't working.
You do your due diligence here.
You guys are a great team.
Started wear gloves by spending four years on the road learning you know. So that's how we do everything. We have to learn about it. First we have to understand it. Uh, and through that process, God will open doors and we take a step toward a door. And if what we think is a door, sometimes and and then it closes and that's not going to happen. So we will we will adjust until, you know, we're on the path that he.
That's how he guides you, right? I mean, open and closed doors again. We have to we have to be careful. We don't want to make it, uh, you know where it's too much of a formula, right? When it comes to following God. Because it's about a relationship, not just, okay, do this, this and this, and he's going to tell you what to do, but you can position yourself for his guidance in your life. That's exactly what you're talking about.
Exactly. Mhm. Um, following following the steps and just prayerfully feeling a stirring and, and you know, hearing from the Lord, um, of what may be a next step might be and, and giving it a try.
Yeah. Willing to.
Follow. Yeah. Stepping out in faith. Without faith it's impossible to please him.
You have to.
Believe that he exists and he is a rewarder of those who seek him.
Mhm. For sure.
Joining us here this morning is Bert Yancey. He's a board member and volunteer coordinator as well. Hi Bert. How are you? I'm doing well. Good morning. Good morning. Great to see you. My friend. How did you get involved? Well, a couple couple ways with, uh, Ken and Wendy would go around.
The churches and do their program, Dignity Serves and, uh, workbook, where you went through, like, a six week program. And I participated in that. Yeah. And that was one way. And then the other way was back when they were at the storefront, um, they had a lady that would cook lunch for him, and she got a job. So they needed someone to help out in Kansas. Said one day, my my deceased wife was working or volunteering there at the time. And she said, can I ask her, can y'all help out with lunch? And that's where it all started.
So you were a lunch volunteer coordinator officially?
Well, I am now.
You are now.
Calls me I.
Don't yeah, that's.
That's it calls me other names too.
Yeah. Yeah. We're not going to get into that. I've heard some. No, I'm just kidding. I bet you have. So, uh, when we talk about it's meeting temporal needs, obviously you're providing meals then, right? I mean, that's obvious. Yeah. So what does that entail?
Well, for a while there, there was a lot of volunteers doing it. And then all of a sudden, for whatever reason, Covid hit and things started dropping off and it was hard to gain traction again with the lunches. And obviously, um, as you can see, the facility here, it's grown. And Ken needed some more people. So and it was a lot for him to organize that as well as everything else I do. And I took that over and that was an interesting experience. There's a lot of churches that are willing to help out, but the difficulty I was having was getting through the administration of the churches. To get to the people. Now I know the people want to serve. Yes, they want to do God's work. Yes. And so it was hard to do that. So my current wife and I go to Meadowbrook Church and they have a function, like most churches do, a small group type thing. Yeah. And through that small group I was able to connect to the people. And from there I also made cold calls to churches and my contacts. And so now we've got 4 or 5 churches involved on a regular basis serving lunch every, every weekday.
This is wonderful. And Wendy, how do you fund all of this? That is $1 million question literally, isn't it? Sold the.
Bus? No. Sold the bus.
Okay. That that was for. Did you get a good deal, you know, on the bus. No, no.
Okay.
How many miles do they have on. Yeah. It's very exactly. Okay. So let's let's talk about that because that's an important part of it. Because it takes money to do ministry.
It does. We have um, private donors. We call them dignity Partners, um, that give $10 a month or more, um, people all over the country that support us monthly. Um, that's our, um, the real meat and potatoes of how how we can budget, how we know how many people we can hire. We have 98 people on payroll here, 98 clients. So our dignity partners really help us provide the environment for all of the other projects to happen. So Dignity Partners are a huge, important part of our our ministry.
Melissa Abney is with us. She is the manager of Dignity Roasters. Would you share your testimony with us? I think that's really that's really what we want to hear this morning.
The easiest way for me to start is if we would have met three and a half years ago, you would have met a violent, homeless drug addict living in a crack house. For 15 years I lived on and off the streets here in Ocala. I've been to 12 different rehabs. I've been to jail three times, in prison once. And on September 27th of 2020, my daughter had dropped off a bag of clothes and in there was a shirt. It said I was going to go running today. But Proverbs 28 one said, only the wicked run when no one's chasing them. Supposed to be a funny, wicked.
Flee when.
No one is pursuing. Is that Proverbs 28? It's 28 128 one okay.
So in that moment it hit me. Every disagreement, every argument. I'd go running back to my addiction. So I decided in that moment to go and get help. I went into a 72 hour detox, and when I came out, by the grace of God, I found wear gloves. Wow. They started me out on the litter crew picking up trash. They helped me to get my driver's license back, which I lost due to drug induced seizures. They let me become a driver for them for the litter crew. They helped me to save money to purchase a car. They asked me if I wanted to learn about coffee, which why not? So I became of course, I became the coffee roaster here at Dignity Roasters. I started doing all the deliveries and all the online subscriptions and actually roasting the coffee, and then they helped me to find my home church, which is neighborhood church here in Ocala. Yeah. Ken and Wendy came with me when I got baptized.
Wow.
They helped me to find a dentist so I could get my dentures so I could smile for you guys today. Well, that's so. And they put me through management and supervisor training, and I recently trained someone else to roast in here so I can do the community specialist. Yeah. So I can go out and do outreach to let other people know about wear gloves and how they can be a part of it or how they can help. I came here for a job, but I've stayed for the mission. I want to be for somebody else. Yes. What? Ken and Wendy were and still are for me.
And you have? Well, that's just. That's like a holy ground moment. Yeah. Just everybody just let that soak in.
Some people who. Yeah. Your your story today is what they are praying for. For someone they love. Yes.
Completely. And I tell people just to hold on you. You don't know. My mother was going to church weekly, praying nonstop. And a lady in her prayer group told her, just keep praying and one day your daughter will invite you to church. And my mother laughed. At the moment you don't know my daughter and three years ago I invited her to church.
You're right Kate, that's given a lot of folks hope.
Yes.
Yeah, yeah. And see, um, when you met Jesus and you encountered him that moment for you, um, what was it like for you? Did you did you feel free for the first time?
Just an overwhelming sense of peace.
Peace?
That's the easiest way I can explain it. Just pure peace. There was. I knew I was in the right place. I knew I was in the right path. And I was just at peace. Well, and now, with everything that they've done here for me, I've got not only my kids back in my life, but I've got my grandkids back in my life. Before, I was the last person to get a call. Now I'm the first. Ah.
God has restored the years the locusts had eaten. And your story, your trophy. We all are a trophy of God's grace. We know that's true, but some of us have more dramatic testimonies than others. So when you have an opportunity to share Jesus with others, for those you know who come through the program here or, you know, show up, uh, here, Dignity Roasters, um. When you have a chance to do that, do you ever pinch yourself and you're like, I can't believe that God's given me, of all people, the opportunity to reach out to this person. This is God. God doesn't need us. He does not. But but he wants us and wants to use us. And sometimes our greatest pain out of our greatest pain comes our our greatest opportunity for ministry. Because that's the upside down economy of God's kingdom, isn't it?
100%. I am grateful that I'm given this opportunity, and I let everyone know when they hear my story. Well, mine's not as bad as yours. No one story is, you know, doesn't have to be bigger than the last. Yes, everyone's story is important. Yes. And it's part of your life.
Yes, yes. It's not a competition. We're all lost and get found if we're. If, you know Jesus does and.
Everyone has a story.
Yes. Yeah.
And see, that's part of it too. Uh, you know, it's such a welcoming atmosphere atmosphere here, Dignity Roasters. I mean, obviously you can feel the love, the joy of the Lord here, but it's a good place. As many, you know, coffee shops are. But this one's special. You put an asterisk by that where you can have God conversations. Right. Your conversations can breathe with people here. And there's no telling what appointments, divine appointments that God will make here on any given day. Do you have somebody you've encountered maybe recently? Um, and you'd like to share that story with us? Somebody come to mind? You've had a chance to share the story your story with or just interact with.
It's part of my position here to go out and share my story as much as I can.
Okay, so tell us a story. Okay? You met somebody, you told the story.
I'll tell you that.
I was at a church. I was telling the story. Yeah. And a young lady came up to me very. I mean, visibly, you know, shaken. And she told me that I gave her hope. She goes, I'm three days clean and sober, and you give me hope.
Yes. That's great.
But yeah, I would say 95% of the time when I go and tell my story, someone comes up to me and says, I have a daughter, I have a brother, I have a son, I have a grandchild that's going through what you're what you've been through. Yes. You know, and now we see that there is light that change can happen. It took me 15 years. Yeah. And people ask, what can they do? Just hold on.
Yeah.
You know, sometimes we say.
Just hold on.
Well, all I can do is pray. Well, you know what? That should be the first step, not the last resort. You know, it's like prayer begins. Yeah, that's how it begins. Yes.
Because there was nothing anybody could say to you. Yeah, there was nothing.
Right? I lost a husband. I lost my children, I lost a career, I lost everything, and that didn't make me change. Mhm. Well, but a t shirt at 3 a.m. while I was in a crack house made me change.
Well. Wow.
See, that's so God isn't it?
That's the word of God not returning to him.
Void. Yeah, exactly. For sure. Do you like, uh, do you like to read the word? Is the word your lifeline?
I do.
I can tell, so I can tell. What would you like to say to somebody? I think we've illustrated this with your story, but I'd love for you to speak directly to someone who is listening this morning and always think about these folks who are listening, and they're like, just going through the the radio, maybe. And they're like, huh, what's this? This is a Christian radio station. Why am I even listening to this? And yet they are still listening. And by the way, if that's you, we believe that God makes divine appointments. Um, and that person is listening. And maybe they are dealing with some of the challenges that you dealt with or something along those lines, and your story is speaking to them. Um, I want to give you the opportunity to address them directly. What would you like to say to that person? They could be, uh, maybe mired in addiction. They could maybe be experiencing some type of crisis in their life. Um, what do you want to say to them right now?
A lot of people get overwhelmed when they first start to turn their life around. They want to think six months in advance next year. They want to plan out. You can't. You need to plan out what's happening in five minutes. Yeah. And then it's.
Wise.
Tomorrow, let's do ten and go on like that. Just hold on. Just go minute by minute.
One step at a time.
Completely. And I know that's a cliche statement. One step at a time, but you have to.
Aren't you glad God is patient with us?
Very much.
So. Do you ever look back on your life when you were on the streets and you're looking in the rear view mirror and you realize that God was looking out for you even before you came to him.
Many times, yeah, I have, I have actually died on three separate occasions. So you're.
Kidding. Was it an overdose?
Yes, sir. And brought back by Narcan.
Oh, my. Three times. Yes, sir. God really, really was reaching down and touching you. So I.
Can look at those moments and saying he had bigger plans for.
Me. And here you are today, sharing your hope with others.
Yeah. And I content will continue.
Well, Melissa, thank you for taking the time to share with us.
I appreciate you guys coming here.
We appreciate the coffee. Yeah.
Are you actually roasting you roast the coffee I am.
One of the roasters.
Yes.
There's two roasters.
Here. Well done.
Yeah yeah. Good. So you've you've actually worked on the Courtenay Mornings coffee blend previously.
I have and mailed it out to you guys.
Ah that's great.
Round of applause. That's perfect. Joining us now is Jessica Rehak and Jessica. Uh, you are the manager of dignity House. Tell us about dignity House and how that works.
Um, well, we assemble parts, um, for closetmaid. So, um, our clients come down and they'll get paid by piece work. So, um, they have the opportunity to work, but they don't. They can work at their own pace because some of them, you know.
Some of them, it's hard to get a job if you don't have an address and you don't have a phone. Some some jobs just are aren't even available to you without.
We don't ask any of that of our clients. They can come down straight off the street. We don't need any kind of back informations, résumés, anything. They can come straight in and get work today.
So is dignity.
House a shelter?
No, it's not a shelter.
Okay. So when it comes to housing, explain how that that works. Helping folks get housing.
Um, well, we have a manager here on site. Carlos. Mhm. Um, works with everybody. One on a one on one basis. Uh, go by their own needs.
How did you end up here?
Um, I actually worked on the road for about 20 years, um, doing special events and, uh. Ended up in a little town in Tennessee, and my mom got really ill, so I had to move down here to help her. Sorry, I get emotional. Okay.
Take your time.
Take your time.
Yeah.
And, um. I spent so much time helping her that I wasn't really helping myself, so. I found this place online and. Just that I need to get out. So sorry.
That's okay. No, no, no.
That's okay.
So, um, I came down and they hired me that day. They just put me right on. I didn't even need my id, I was shocked. Yeah, but, um. It got me out of the house. And then I met amazing people in our warehouse. Just amazing. Thank you.
We have plenty of Kleenex.
Yes, yes.
Fine. Not napkins. Kleenex.
Kate came with the real good stuff here.
She actually put this box in her purse.
Which, you.
Know, her purse is huge. And there's so much in there. Anyway, that's another story for another time.
And who needed Kleenex today? We all did. So. Okay. Oh, you're.
Referring to the coffee I spilled on my shirt that everybody can see? I tried to see. Look, it's right here, so it's appropriate. Um.
You know.
I came down here to help my mom, but honestly. Yeah. And I'm still helping her. By the way, she's doing phenomenal. Oh, good.
That's good news.
She's a breast cancer survivor. Wow. Um, she's still struggling with diabetes, but she just had a check up the other day, and she's amazing. She's got her health is probably better than mine at this point.
Yeah.
Yeah. Uh, but in the process of coming here, though, I just fell in love with the place. I could definitely go find a job somewhere else. But I don't want to leave because it's just people's stories here and what they're going through. And from the day they arrived to a week later or a month later, just the difference in them. When you.
See that progress, you know that it's it's the Lord at work in their lives, isn't.
It? Absolutely. 100%. 100%. And um, being a faith based program, you know, it's it's I don't even know what to say. It's just amazing.
It's if Jesus were physically walking the streets of Ocala, my guess is he would be here a lot.
Yeah, that's what I'm already here. He's here. Right here. If he's. Yes, yes. It's true. Yes, that's true.
He's definitely.
Here.
But if he was actually. Yeah. You know, walking the streets, he would because, you know, he's in everything. That's one of the things that we love about this ministry. He permeates everything that's done here uh, on a daily basis. And it's so much more than, than just coffee. Obviously. It's so much more than just giving someone some assistance when they need it. It is giving them literally the bread of life and changing where they will spend eternity. No wonder you want to be here when you could be somewhere else.
Yeah. Did you know Jesus before you came here, or did you kind of meet him here?
No.
I knew you knew him before. You just recognized it when you walk in the door.
I was baptized at an early age, and I wrote the Sunday school bus every Sunday morning. And I knew him before.
Oh, I remember the buses.
Yeah.
Yeah, we called it the Bluebird.
Right.
What's the Bluebird bus?
Yes it was.
Have I ever told you.
That I'm fascinated with, uh, school buses? Kate, did we ever have this conversation as a child? I'm weird. Okay, uh, you probably know that if you listen, but, uh, I used to collect, like, uh, miniature school buses. And my hero when I was in third grade was my school bus driver. Mr. Lawson.
Well, yeah.
And our heroes, by.
The way, he was a believer. Hello. You see seeds being planted, and he loved the kids. It was. It was a really neat thing. So, anyway, that's just, uh. But Bluebird is a great brand of bus. I just want school bus. So everybody knows they're based in Georgia. Yeah.
Um.
Car manufacturers, I, you know, as you have a chance to share your story with other people and and we all have a story. Right. And you see the light go on in the rise. Um, especially folks who sometimes when we encounter people who are homeless or dealing with issues, we don't look them in the eye. We don't take time to listen to them. Would you agree that the ministry of listening is vitally important?
Absolutely, absolutely. Because everybody, like you said, everybody has a story. But absolutely.
Carlos Medina, he is a client advocate for, uh, Dignity Roasters for wear gloves and all of that. Uh, Carlos, uh, we want to hear God's story. Um, could you tell us your story of how Jesus found you?
I have a pretty rough story. Starting out in my, like, early 20s, I was, uh, very addicted to drugs, completely strung out, battling that hardcore until about 29. I finally, finally beat it and was able to break free from it. And I still was struggling to just be myself. I was a shell, you know. I was stuck in my house, couldn't leave, couldn't go to the grocery store. About two years of this went by, just anxious as could be. Uh, I found a place through my therapist called Wear Gloves, and they told me, you know, it's a open place where you can be yourself in no judgment. You can just come in and work and try to build yourself up. So I came in, started one day a week, and. Just kept growing from there. So I started one day a week in the warehouse pushing parts. And, um, not too long after that, I got on the litter crew, uh, went out there 20 hours a week, did that for about a year and a half. And, um, I guess they hired me for a manager, and I was managing the warehouse. I'm sorry, I can't, I don't know.
No, this is good.
This is fine.
This is real. We're just chatting literally over a cup of coffee.
Yeah. Um, these stories are hope for other people who have people like your teenage self in their lives that they're praying for. They're hoping for the outcome that you sit there today being. So, uh, you know, this is a good story. It's going to help a lot of people. Yeah.
And that's that's why I love working here, is because I can help people that are going through the same things. I was, you know, I was lost, broken, and I found this place. And I've just been able to grow and build up my confidence and everything like that. And now, you know, I worked in the warehouse managing that which I never thought I could ever manage anything. You know, I was always a construction, you know, in the warehouse, laboring. So it was incredible just to have that opportunity. And I always wanted some, some responsibility. I needed responsibility, and they gave me a place where I could find that in myself, you know, that I didn't know I had. So I did the, um, managing the warehouse, learned all that, um, mastered it, loved it. Um, about two years I did that, and now they asked me to take on a new position. Client advocate. It's a completely new position here at Wear Gloves, and it's very needed. So yeah, my main job is to focus mainly on each individual person and what they need and what I can try to get resources for them or anything. You know. How long have.
You been doing that in that?
Uh, I just started probably three weeks ago.
Oh, so it's really fresh. It's new, very fresh.
Yeah. I've never had an office before, so. Oh, yeah. I have an office with an AC.
Look at you. Oh.
It's nice.
Yeah, yeah. Okay. It's the AC.
That was the cherry on top of the cake. That's great. Yeah. Wow. Look what God has done in your life and continues to do. Isn't that.
Neat? Yeah.
It's incredible.
You know.
And what you're doing now is so. Because if somebody needs something, if somebody like you said, they, they don't even have a bike, maybe they can't walk all over town trying to get help you. They don't even know where to go, but you can help them. It's like one stop shopping for help.
That's what we that's what I want to make it, you know? Yeah. I want to have as much in-house as we can have. And whatever resources I can find outside we can send them to. But, you know, it's it's hard because they a lot of them don't have vehicles or, you know, they're struggling to pay for the bus. And yeah, that's one thing I'm working on too, is getting some bus vouchers here. And we can maybe help them with that too. So it's kind of a challenge.
It's kind of a challenge with the public transportation, isn't it? It can be crazy.
Especially around here. It's not very.
Good. Yeah. Do you would it be accurate to say that God is involved you in the work here, and you are blessed even more than the people who are being blessed through the ministry? Would that be an accurate statement?
I'm not sure. I know. I'm very blessed and I feel very blessed. And I'm I'm lucky to be here. I didn't think I would make it past 30 years old, you know, I'd already made that decision. I wasn't going to make it past 30, and now I'm here at 35. I've been sober for six years, and I keep growing every day like I'm on the radio today, which is crazy.
So you.
Just started your new position three weeks ago, and now you're on the radio every.
Single day.
Who knows what God is going to pull on you? You never really know.
I appreciate it, you know? Yeah. It's awesome.
And you get to see other people come along. You know, the stories when they they walk in the first day, they don't even know what's available or maybe even really what they need on top of what they need immediately. They have.
No idea, you.
Know, they need somebody.
In their corner. Yeah. And that's what advocate really is. Right.
And I was there and I know exactly what they're feeling. You know just terrified. You don't know. You just you know want to live to the next day or, you know, just try to do something, you know. Yeah. And you're here and we're going to make your family part of our family and build you up as much as we can. You know, uh, if I could do it, anyone can do it, so that's for sure. And I've seen a lot of people come in here, um, within a few months to six months, they're a different person, so it's awesome. Yeah. It's awesome. I could be a part of that.
Everything is gospel infused around here. In fact, I'm looking at the chalkboard, which is nicely placed here in the cafe, uh, and it's in a frame and, uh, it says begins at noon on Mondays. There is a Bible study here. Wednesday. Addiction recovery by appointment. Mental health. Coaching and at the very bottom it says everyone welcome. Yes. This is so this is so key. And we've got Charlotte with us here at the table. Hey, Charlotte, are you involved with the Bible study?
I am.
Tell us more about the Bible study.
We are studying the book by Joyce Myers, battlefield of the mind, and it is fantastic and very timely. It seems like every week when we come in, it's like, how did how did she know we were going to be dealing with this this week?
Oh God knew. Yeah.
God knew. God knew.
How long have you been involved with, uh, with the work here?
Um, I think like six years. It doesn't seem that long. Um, I just totally fell in love with it. At first, I was like, Ken, what am I doing here? I there's nothing for me to do. And I would leave. And then I was like, no, when I get to meet the people and understand their stories and see how it's so similar to all of us, you know, you just fall in love with them.
Yeah.
And, um, it's this place is full of God's love, and it changes them. And it's changing me.
Yes. And that's how it works, isn't it? You know, sometimes I know, um, someone was here earlier saying how she was so tired and had and had been giving, giving, giving. And, um, and then she came here and she's giving more, but now it's filling her up, right? Yes, it.
Is. And it's so wonderful to see the everyone grow. And, you know, Carlos and Jessica and Melissa and all the people, you just see them growing and it's beautiful. It's just a beautiful thing.
It's a community of a community of God's people. And everybody is, you know, I think sometimes, uh, we know a lot about what God's Word has to say. We know a lot about God, but are we really taking that knowledge and putting it into play in our lives? And sometimes we're like, well, I don't know even how. Okay, I realize I'm convicted about that. My knowledge is so much more than my action and my activity, but I don't know where to plug in. I don't know what to do. I don't know what I'm gifted. I kind of sort of do. Maybe this is why ministries like Dignity Roasters, like where gloves are so, so vitally important is because it brings the body of Christ together. It's like a hub. Okay, I know I can plug in here. It's already set up, it's already running. What can I contribute? And that's kind of the way you approach this. So it seems to me.
Yeah, it's it's putting your faith, you know, with feet on it. Yeah. And I feel like I'm at church every time I'm here.
And you weren't sure, but you kept coming back because you knew he was doing something and you were going to figure out what it is you wanted you to do.
Ken and Wendy came to our church one year, and the second year they came and went, and the first year I was like, oh, that's really cool. And the second year I was like, I got to go talk to Ken. And so he signed me up. And like I said, at first I was like, what am I doing here? You know, they don't really need my help. But then when I realized it's the people and making the relationships, then it just blossomed.
Do you love to listen to the folks who I know you do? I was a I actually knew the answer to the question, but I'm going to ask it anyway. The Ministry of Listening. We're referring to that earlier. I think it's an often very unappreciated part of our lives. As believers, we can offer ministry to people just by paying attention to what they are saying and acknowledging them. And many of these precious folks have not had anybody, or at least not for a long time, who actually sit down and take time with them and listen to what they are saying.
Um.
I have a lot of best friends here.
That's great. We've made some new best friends around here, I think, since we've been here. Um, what do what do you want to say to people who, uh, talk themselves out of opportunities to serve others? Because we are very good as human beings of coming up with excuses to not do things. Everything from not sharing the gospel. Oh, no. You know, I'm afraid, uh, what if they reject me all the way to. Well, you know, I don't have the time to do this, that and whatever. What would you say to that person who's really struggling with putting their faith into play? And, and, uh, what would you say the first step or two might be for them to take action. Mm.
Just listen to the Holy Spirit. And if he puts it on your heart to come by, give it a month and you'll be hooked.
Yeah, yeah.
Whatever ministry that may be, because we have a lot of folks listening from various other parts of Florida, but also parts of the country, maybe even the world. But that's that's the challenge for all of us, isn't it? We need to know where we can plug in, but we have to. God doesn't take those steps for us. He guides us. But we need to take the steps in faith, right?
So I'm supposed to just keep it to ourselves, you know, sit at home or work or play or whatever you're doing? You need to share it.
We need to have Ken and Wendy back with us, uh, to kind of wrap things up here and put a nice bow on this package, which has been a gift to us to be here at Dignity Roasters. And again, they, uh, they are the folks who came up with the morning's coffee blend that you know and love. What is your heart? What do you want people to to know about? You know, what is God placed on your heart right now? Today, as we're sitting here talking over coffee.
Well, um, our ministry is pretty much evolves around the greatest commandment, you know, how do we best love this person that God puts in front of us? You know, I think when Jesus answered that question and said, the greatest commandment is to love your neighbor and love God, that that's not really an option. You know, I think, um, I think you've kind of, uh, spoke about that a little bit today. When Wendy and I met, um, her son Brandon was five years old. I fell in love with her. I couldn't truly love her without seeking to love her son. You know, everybody understands that. That's God, you know? How can we possibly love God without seeking to love those that he loves? Which is everybody, especially the ones that come in your path. So that's what we try to do. And I think that that's where the joy comes from. You know, it's not by making money. We've been there and it's fun, but it's not joyful like working here is every day. I thought I'd be tired, retired by now, but that's not really in the plan. I don't think, since we're dreaming. But it's.
You're having too much fun to retire. It's true, it's true. Right. But it's meaningful for you guys.
And you've met some of the clients that work here that are great friends, you know, and we're proud of them. And we're proud of all the volunteers. Like you've met a lot of them. Also, it's just an honor to be a small part in God's plan here in Ocala with this. And we know that he's the one behind all this. So we really refused to take any credit other than being a very small part of this.