Summary: Sister, this one is for every mama who has watched her kid melt down on a court, a field, or a report card and known in her gut it was about more than the score.

On this episode Malaine unpacks why identity is the battlefield of this hour, why the attack always starts with the parent before it trickles down to the child, and what it actually looks like to raise a son or daughter who is rooted in Christ instead of rooted in performance. Pulling from her years coaching 35+ kids a season through Kingdom Sports, Malaine shows you the pattern she keeps seeing on the sidelines. A child having a bad game starts rewriting reality. No one is passing to me. I don't even like this team. That is not a bad day. That is a performance based identity cracking under pressure, and it is happening to Christian kids and non Christian kids alike. This episode will show you where to look in your own home, and it will hand you the Scripture and the language to fight for your child's identity before the enemy gets to define it for them.

Featured Quote "You can tell them their identity is in Christ, but if you don't model that, it's not gonna change things. They see and then they do."

Key Takeaways Identity is not something you teach your kids with a lecture. It is something they catch from watching whether yours is solid. The enemy is not subtle about this one. He wants your child's identity wrapped up in achievement, appearance, friendships, or performance, because anything external can be knocked out from under them. Firstborns carry a weightier assignment and are attacked more intensely. So are kids from bloodlines touched by Freemasonry, witchcraft, or the occult. Know what you are praying against. A meltdown on the field is rarely just about the field. When a child's identity is performance based, a bad game feels like an identity crisis, and it will look like tears, shaking, or a sudden refusal to play. You cannot give your kids what you do not have. Get intimate with Jesus first. Everything else is downstream of that.

Scripture

"Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the LORD thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest." Joshua 1:9 (KJV) 

"I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me." Philippians 4:13 (KJV)

"Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ." Philippians 1:6 (KJV)

Call to Action

If this episode named something you have been watching in your own kids and you do not know where to start, Kingdom Kids inside the Eden House community was built for exactly this. It equips mamas to pray over their children with real spiritual intelligence and to stand at the gate for their family instead of reacting to every meltdown. Go get equipped. Your kid's identity is not going to fight for itself. Head to theedenhouse.co and get into Kingdom Kids today.

While you are at it, go check the Culture Cast's episode with Dr. Robin Perry Braun on Freemasonry and its impact on the family bloodline, and grab her book Like a Son. Link below. And if you have not read the Children's Deliverance Prayer Book yet, that is your next step for praying targeted, specific prayers over your kids. Link below as well.

Listen and Connect Faith on the Fringe Podcast: https://faithonthefringepodcast.com/

Eden House: theedenhouse.co

The Deliverance Institute for Women: thedeliveranceinstitute.com

Kingdom Kids: https://app.moonclerk.com/pay/32xd6038luj1

The Culture Cast episode with Dr. Robin Perry Braun: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/is-freemasonry-in-your-bloodline-making-you-sick-dr/id1797035500?i=1000787309599 Children's Deliverance Prayer Book: https://www.theedenhouse.co/category/all-products