In the final episode of 40 Before 40, Carl sat down with Zanele Njapha, widely known as The UnLearning Lady, to explore one of the most important skills for the next chapter of life: unlearning.

A South African transformation specialist, keynote speaker, and CEO of The UnLearner, Zanele unpacked why so many people become stuck in their habits, beliefs, and identities as they get older, how childhood experiences and core memories shape the way we see the world, and why growth often requires letting go of ideas that once kept us safe.

From building new habits and embracing uncertainty to redefining work, purpose, and lifelong learning, Zanele shared practical tools for challenging limiting beliefs and creating meaningful change.