In this episode of 40 Before 40, Carl sat down with relationship architect and author Shelley Lewin for a deeply honest conversation about friendship, loneliness, vulnerability, and the connections that shape our lives.From the "200-hour rule" of building meaningful friendships to the emotional risks of letting people truly see you,
Shelley shared powerful insights into why genuine human connection matters more than ever. Together, they explored what it takes to create lasting friendships as adults, how to navigate loneliness, and why investing in the right relationships can have a profound impact on our well-being.
It was a thoughtful and relatable conversation about finding your tribe, protecting your peace, and building the kind of relationships that help us thrive.

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