Behind closed doors, Ireland’s swingers’ scene is bigger,and bolder than you might think. 
Jennifer Zamparelli meets Graham, a proud member of the community, who lifts the lid on what really happens at a swingers’ party, how jealousy can turn into joy, and why “ethical non-monogamy” isn’t just about sex. 
 

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Just Between Us with Jennifer Zamparelli

From jealousy to joy: What really happens at an Irish swingers’ party 

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An experts guide to Dirty Talk: How to find your voice in the bedroom

Remember the birds and the bees chat? Yeah… neither do we. This week Jen is joined by sex educator Olivia Teahan to unpack the weird, funny and deeply awkward ways Irish people learned about sex or more accurately, didn’t.  Funny, honest and surprisingly reassuring, this episode is all about learning to relax, communicate better, and enjoy sex without all the baggage because it is supposed to be FUN.  

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Porn used to be all about what you see. Now, women are putting the headphones in and letting imagination do the heavy lifting. Jen dives headfirst into the wildly addictive world of audio erotica.  From sexy Irish accents and fantasy roleplay, to why millions of women are listening to smut while doing the Tesco shop. 

From jealousy to joy: What really happens at an Irish swingers’ party

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