He’s been on our screens making us laugh for years, most recently in Colin From Accounts, but in this chat Patrick Brammall unpacks one of his more meaty roles to date… Being a first time dad!  Patty’s path to parenthood is a little unique with him and his wife Harriet Dyer adopting a baby girl in 2021 (Harriet is also co-creator/co-star of Colin From Accounts). Patty talks us through this experience, how it’s fundamentally changed him, his perspectives and priorities. And given his daughter was just 2 and a half when we recorded this, Patty is the first to admit that he really is still trying to figure this dadding thing out!!

Patty is so honest about the ups and the downs, his hopes and fears, the sleep deprivation and the toll it’s taking on his face, and how he is still coming to terms with the fact that his time will never be his own again (well, not for the next 15 years or so). Patty, like all of us, is attempting this parenting Rubik's cube on the fly, and sometimes it's working, and sometimes it’s not!!

And if that wasn’t enough, we have a brief musical interlude from a neighbour. This episode has got it all!

Huge thanks to Patty (and Harriet) for sharing this really personal story, and for carving time out of a pretty jammed schedule to chat with us.

In Australia Seasons 1 and 2 of Colin From Accounts is on Binge - and it’s really really great. If you have not seen it you really should watch it, like tonight.

You can drop us a line anytime at howotherdadsdad.com - we love hearing from you guys. Thanks for listening!

*Producer Note - Despite anything Hamish says to the contrary, all music contained within this episode is fully licensed for all necessary exploitation and distribution, including the music which the neighbour started playing through Hamish’s Bluetooth speaker inadvertently. 

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Big thanks to our great friends at HERTZ, our exclusive sponsor for the whole of Season 3!  Just like us, they are big fans of adventure and memory making and in a great deal for HODD listeners, if you need a rental car in Australia, head to hertz.com.au/hodd for 25% off the base rate.  What a great deal!  Ts&Cs apply.  See website for details.

He’s been on our screens making us laugh for years, most recently in <a href="https://binge.com.au/shows/show-colin-from-accounts!18466">Colin From Accounts</a>, but in this chat Patrick Brammall unpacks one of his more meaty roles to date… Being a first time dad!  Patty’s path to parenthood is a little unique with him and his wife Harriet Dyer adopting a baby girl in 2021 (Harriet is also co-creator/co-star of Colin From Accounts). Patty talks us through this experience, how it’s fundamentally changed him, his perspectives and priorities. And given his daughter was just 2 and a half when we recorded this, Patty is the first to admit that he really is still trying to figure this dadding thing out!!
Patty is so honest about the ups and the downs, his hopes and fears, the sleep deprivation and the toll it’s taking on his face, and how he is still coming to terms with the fact that his time will never be his own again (well, not for the next 15 years or so). Patty, like all of us, is attempting this parenting Rubik's cube on the fly, and sometimes it's working, and sometimes it’s not!!
And if that wasn’t enough, we have a brief musical interlude from a neighbour. This episode has got it all!
Huge thanks to Patty (and Harriet) for sharing this really personal story, and for carving time out of a pretty jammed schedule to chat with us.
In Australia Seasons 1 and 2 of Colin From Accounts is on <a href="https://binge.com.au/shows/show-colin-from-accounts!18466">Binge</a> - and it’s really really great. If you have not seen it you really should watch it, like tonight.
You can drop us a line anytime at howotherdadsdad.com - we love hearing from you guys. Thanks for listening!
*Producer Note - Despite anything Hamish says to the contrary, all music contained within this episode is fully licensed for all necessary exploitation and distribution, including the music which the neighbour started playing through Hamish’s Bluetooth speaker inadvertently. 
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Big thanks to our great friends at HERTZ, our exclusive sponsor for the whole of Season 3!  Just like us, they are big fans of adventure and memory making and in a great deal for HODD listeners, if you need a rental car in Australia, head to<a href="http://hertz.com.au/hodd"> hertz.com.au/hodd</a> for 25% off the base rate.  What a great deal!  Ts&amp;Cs apply.  See website for details.

Hamish Blake chats with other dads he really admires (and whose phone number he had relatively easy access to) about their approach to dadding, and in the process hopefully learn a little, steal some of their hard earned wisdom and help us all dad a tiny bit better.

Hamish Blake chats with other dads he really admires (and whose phone number he had relatively easy access to) about their approach to dadding, and in the process hopefully learn a little, steal some of their hard earned wisdom and help us all dad a tiny bit better.

How Other Dads Dad with Hamish Blake

How Patrick Brammall Dads - An atypical path to dadding, and all the typical ups and downs!

Behavioural Paediatrician Dr Billy Garvey returns to tell us about the science behind the stories of Season 3.  Dr Billy has picked some moments where our generous guests have touched on areas on which there is lots of evidenced based research, and then he breaks it down to some super simple stuff that we can all put into practice.

In this stacked episode we look at… Improving self esteem through kids developing mastery of something (Bret McKenzie Ep), how to be an authoritative parent, not an authoritarian and how there is a big difference! (Wippa’s Ep), talk about composure and how important our own self regulation is (Nathan Fa’avae Ep), the importance of making sure we are always adapting our parenting based on the kid that is in front of us (Andy Griffiths Ep), the power of working on ourselves and the protective elements that can help kids avoid trauma or help them deal with it (Wayne Hope Ep) and why being honest with our kids and creating an a safe environment where they can always tell what they think is so important (Paddy Brammall Ep). Some really great stuff.

Huge thanks to Billy.  He is so generous with his time to listen to all our episodes and apply his clinical wisdom.  You can get more of Billy and his podcast Pop Culture Parenting HERE or his great book, 10 Things I Wish You Knew About Your Child’s Mental Health. 

Equally huge thanks to all our guests that came on this season and shared their stories and wisdom. Obviously this podcast wouldn’t exist without their generosity and we were so lucky to chat with them.

And giant thanks to you guys for listening and taking an interest. We love making this show and it’s a great privilege to have you guys tune in. 

Xx Hame & Tim

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And lastly a tip of the cap to our fantastic sponsor HERTZ who are instrumental in making this podcast happen.  We are all about getting out there and adventuring with your kids, and HERTZ can help you make it happen. Visit hertz.com.au/hodd to access an exclusive 25% off the base day rate for your next car hire.  T&Cs and exclusions apply. Not all Hertz Locations offer this special discount rate.

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There are some references to domestic violence in this episode. If you know somebody that is suffering from domestic violence and needs help, 1800Respect.org.au is a good place to start.

1800RESPECT is the national domestic, family, and sexual violence counselling, information and support service.

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic or family violence, you can call 1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732, text 0458 737 732 or visit the website for online chat and video call services:

Behavioural Paediatrician Dr Billy Garvey returns to tell us about the science behind the stories of Season 3.  Dr Billy has picked some moments where our generous guests have touched on areas on which there is lots of evidenced based research, and then he breaks it down to some super simple stuff that we can all put into practice.
In this stacked episode we look at… Improving self esteem through kids developing mastery of something (<a href="https://howotherdadsdad.com/episode/how-bret-mckenzie-dads-a-creative-play-masterclass-from-a-master-of-creativity">Bret McKenzie Ep</a>), how to be an authoritative parent, not an authoritarian and how there is a big difference! (<a href="https://howotherdadsdad.com/episode/how-michael-wippa-wipfli-dads-nothing-is-impossible-except-maybe-a-serious-conversation-with-hame">Wippa’s Ep</a>), talk about composure and how important our own self regulation is (<a href="https://howotherdadsdad.com/episode/how-nathan-faavae-dads-creating-the-ultimate-team-your-family">Nathan Fa’avae Ep</a>), the importance of making sure we are always adapting our parenting based on the kid that is in front of us (<a href="https://howotherdadsdad.com/episode/how-andy-griffiths-dads-bum-jokes-imagination-and-loving-what-is">Andy Griffiths Ep</a>), the power of working on ourselves and the protective elements that can help kids avoid trauma or help them deal with it (<a href="https://howotherdadsdad.com/episode/how-wayne-hope-dads-stepdadding-working-on-yourself-dadding-after-trauma-and-creating-joy">Wayne Hope Ep</a>) and why being honest with our kids and creating an a safe environment where they can always tell what they think is so important (<a href="https://howotherdadsdad.com/episode/how-patrick-brammall-dads-an-atypical-path-to-dadding-and-all-the-typical-ups-and-downs">Paddy Brammall Ep</a>). Some really great stuff.
Huge thanks to Billy.  He is so generous with his time to listen to all our episodes and apply his clinical wisdom.  You can get more of Billy and his podcast Pop Culture Parenting <a href="https://www.guidinggrowingminds.com">HERE</a> or his great <a href="https://www.penguin.com.au/books/ten-things-i-wish-you-knew-about-your-childs-mental-health-9781761345838">book</a>, 10 Things I Wish You Knew About Your Child’s Mental Health. 
Equally huge thanks to all our guests that came on this season and shared their stories and wisdom. Obviously this podcast wouldn’t exist without their generosity and we were so lucky to chat with them.
And giant thanks to you guys for listening and taking an interest. We love making this show and it’s a great privilege to have you guys tune in. 
Xx Hame &amp; Tim
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And lastly a tip of the cap to our fantastic sponsor HERTZ who are instrumental in making this podcast happen.  We are all about getting out there and adventuring with your kids, and HERTZ can help you make it happen. Visit <a href="http://hertz.com.au/hodd">hertz.com.au/hodd</a> to access an exclusive 25% off the base day rate for your next car hire.  T&amp;Cs and exclusions apply. Not all Hertz Locations offer this special discount rate.
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There are some references to domestic violence in this episode. If you know somebody that is suffering from domestic violence and needs help, <a href="http://1800respect.org.au">1800Respect.org.au</a> is a good place to start.
1800RESPECT is the national domestic, family, and sexual violence counselling, information and support service.
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic or family violence, you can call 1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732, text 0458 737 732 or visit the<a href="https://1800respect.org.au/"> website</a> for online chat and video call services:

Wild Rule Breaking Season 3 Finale with Dr Billy Garvey

One of Hamish’s oldest and dearest friends finally sits down on the HODD couch for a well overdue chat. Wippa and Hame talk all the time, but not often about the deep stuff that drives them to be better dads.

In a conversation that is equal parts serious and silly, Hame and Wip discuss the formative impact of Wip’s own dad, dealing with big questions children unexpectedly ask, how Wip tries to show his kids that nothing is impossible, and why setting out to build a birdhouse that ultimately becomes home to a rare rat is still a massive win for the family. Oh, and they laugh a lot. At times because Wip has told a funny story, but more often because he has told an entirely inappropriate story with explicit language to match.

Apologies in advance. We should have known better.

You can of course catch Wippa with Fitzy and Kate Ritchie on NOVA FM.

And you can learn more about the good work Wip is doing with 36 Months HERE.

Last episode for the season comes out next week and luckily for us Dr Billy is back with some actual expertise… so get the pens ready.

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And big thanks to HERTZ who are our exclusive sponsor in season 3.  And just like us, Hertz are all about making memories and having adventures.  So if you need a great car to complete your next family getaway, head to hertz.com.au/hodd for a great discount. Terms and conditions do apply.  See the website for details on these, as some exclusions do apply.

One of Hamish’s oldest and dearest friends finally sits down on the HODD couch for a well overdue chat. Wippa and Hame talk all the time, but not often about the deep stuff that drives them to be better dads.
In a conversation that is equal parts serious and silly, Hame and Wip discuss the formative impact of Wip’s own dad, dealing with big questions children unexpectedly ask, how Wip tries to show his kids that nothing is impossible, and why setting out to build a birdhouse that ultimately becomes home to a rare rat is still a massive win for the family. Oh, and they laugh a lot. At times because Wip has told a funny story, but more often because he has told an entirely inappropriate story with explicit language to match.
Apologies in advance. We should have known better.
You can of course catch Wippa with Fitzy and Kate Ritchie on <a href="https://www.novaentertainment.com.au/fitzy-wippa-with-kate-ritchie-talent-page">NOVA FM</a>.
And you can learn more about the good work Wip is doing with 36 Months <a href="https://www.36months.com.au">HERE</a>.
Last episode for the season comes out next week and luckily for us Dr Billy is back with some actual expertise… so get the pens ready.
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And big thanks to HERTZ who are our exclusive sponsor in season 3.  And just like us, Hertz are all about making memories and having adventures.  So if you need a great car to complete your next family getaway, head to <a href="http://hertz.com.au/hodd">hertz.com.au/hodd</a> for a great discount. Terms and conditions do apply.  See the website for details on these, as some exclusions do apply.

How Michael “Wippa” Wipfli Dads - Nothing is impossible, (Except, maybe a serious conversation with Hame)

Andy is responsible for igniting a love of reading in millions of kids. It’s a complex alchemy, but bum jokes have played a large part in it. From The Day My Bum Went Psycho to the hugely popular Treehouse series (which he created with longtime collaborator Terry Denton and which was edited by his wife Jill), Andy has written wild, boundless and very funny adventures that have drawn many kids into the beautiful escapism of books who otherwise may have missed out.

With more than 30 books to his name (and as an ex-school teacher), Andy has become an expert in delving into young minds, and knowing what is going to excite, amaze and keep them turning the page. So we were very excited to chat to Andy and see what he might have gleaned from his unique vantage point as a kids author, and of course from his own dadding journey.  

Andy is extremely humble, but passes on some wonderful wisdom and also shares perhaps one of the best ideas we’ve heard for the gathering and preserving family lore. The Family Book. It’s near the end of the chat, so listen out for it!

Andy is a big believer in creating space for kids to be who they are, not who we want them to be (a familiar refrain we hear from our learned guests dad) and tries to practise a simple ethos through it all.  Loving What Is - because that’s what’s happening!  Great words to live by, for sure.

Massive thanks to Andy - we loved this chat.  You can find out lots more about Andy HERE and find his new book, The Land of Lost ThingsHERE.

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And if you love family adventures, hit the road and take one!  But before you do, get in touch with our best friends and the exclusive sponsor of How Other Dads Dad… HERTZ.  Visit hertz.com.au/hodd to access an exclusive 25% off the base day rate for your next car hire.  T&Cs and exclusions apply. Not all Hertz Locations offer this special discount rate.

Andy is responsible for igniting a love of reading in millions of kids. It’s a complex alchemy, but bum jokes have played a large part in it. From The Day My Bum Went Psycho to the hugely popular Treehouse series (which he created with longtime collaborator Terry Denton and which was edited by his wife Jill), Andy has written wild, boundless and very funny adventures that have drawn many kids into the beautiful escapism of books who otherwise may have missed out.
With more than 30 books to his name (and as an ex-school teacher), Andy has become an expert in delving into young minds, and knowing what is going to excite, amaze and keep them turning the page. So we were very excited to chat to Andy and see what he might have gleaned from his unique vantage point as a kids author, and of course from his own dadding journey.  
Andy is extremely humble, but passes on some wonderful wisdom and also shares perhaps one of the best ideas we’ve heard for the gathering and preserving family lore. The Family Book. It’s near the end of the chat, so listen out for it!
Andy is a big believer in creating space for kids to be who they are, not who we want them to be (a familiar refrain we hear from our learned guests dad) and tries to practise a simple ethos through it all.  Loving What Is - because that’s what’s happening!  Great words to live by, for sure.
Massive thanks to Andy - we loved this chat.  You can find out lots more about Andy <a href="https://andygriffiths.com.au/">HERE</a> and find his new book, The Land of Lost Things <a href="https://andygriffiths.com.au/adventures-unlimited-series/the-land-of-lost-things/">HERE</a>.
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And if you love family adventures, hit the road and take one!  But before you do, get in touch with our best friends and the exclusive sponsor of How Other Dads Dad… HERTZ.  Visit <a href="http://hertz.com.au/hodd">hertz.com.au/hodd</a> to access an exclusive 25% off the base day rate for your next car hire.  T&amp;Cs and exclusions apply. Not all Hertz Locations offer this special discount rate.

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