Dating is a fun, and exciting start of your relationship journey.

But what is it like if you are many miles apart from each other?   How do you navigate a long distance relationship?

In this episode we interview 2 couples, Will & Hannah, and Carlton & Lee, who share their stories with you.

They're wonderful stories, and even if distance doesn't separate you from your loved one, this is a great episode to listen to.

Link to the Vancouver Camp Highlights Video: ps://youtu.be/9jgoAEKHoZo?si=dvY7o349FRLxSCCa 

hesaysshesaysgodsays.com 

Dating is a fun, and exciting start of your relationship journey.
But what is it like if you are many miles apart from each other?   How do you navigate a long distance relationship?
In this episode we interview 2 couples, Will &amp; Hannah, and Carlton &amp; Lee, who share their stories with you.
They're wonderful stories, and even if distance doesn't separate you from your loved one, this is a great episode to listen to.
Link to the Vancouver Camp Highlights Video: ps://youtu.be/9jgoAEKHoZo?si=dvY7o349FRLxSCCa 
hesaysshesaysgodsays.com

So Far Away (Part 1)

Danny and Mandi talk in this episode about Money - an important subject that impacts every marriage.

Some of the topics they cover include:
The importance of communication
Budgets
The "right" level of debt
Keeping up with the Jones'

Some scriptures they share:
Luke 14:28-30 https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Luke-14-28_14-30/
Luke 12:34 https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Luke-12-34/
2 Thessalonians 3:10-12 https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/2-Thessalonians-3-10_3-12/
2 Corinthians 9:7-8 https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/2-Corinthians-9-7_9-8/

Until next time, God bless.

P.S. Feel free to connect on social media, or email us podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com

Danny and Mandi talk in this episode about Money - an important subject that impacts every marriage.
Some of the topics they cover include:
<ul>
<li>The importance of communication</li>
<li>Budgets</li>
<li>The "right" level of debt</li>
<li>Keeping up with the Jones'</li>
</ul>
Some scriptures they share:
<ul>
<li data-pm-slice="1 1 []">Luke 14:28-30 <a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Luke-14-28_14-30/">https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Luke-14-28_14-30/</a> </li>
<li data-pm-slice="1 1 []">Luke 12:34 <a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Luke-12-34/">https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Luke-12-34/</a> </li>
<li data-pm-slice="1 1 []">2 Thessalonians 3:10-12 <a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/2-Thessalonians-3-10_3-12/">https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/2-Thessalonians-3-10_3-12/</a> </li>
<li data-pm-slice="1 1 []">2 Corinthians 9:7-8 <a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/2-Corinthians-9-7_9-8/">https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/2-Corinthians-9-7_9-8/</a> </li>
</ul>
Until next time, God bless.
P.S. Feel free to connect on social media, or email us <a href="mailto:podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com">podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com</a>

Money Honey (Part 1)

If you're a parent, then this is a must-listen episode.  We discuss with Ged & Briar, qualified school counsellors, the challenges of parenting in the digital age.



We cover how to keep your kids safe, the amount of time your kids should use devices & be online, what happens when things go wrong,



It's a challenging, thought-provoking, and even scary episode....that's why it's so important to listen to it.



Please also share with other parents you know - whether they be Christian or not.     

Until next time, He Says, She Says, God Says.







Helpful Sites



The Carly Ryan Foundation (AMAZING resources)



Contract for Internet Usage & Safety



The Social Dilemma documentary



eSafety Government Resources



Fighting Pornography



Internet Filters



Family Zone



Canopy



Bark



Covenant Eyes



Scriptures



https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-22-6/



https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-1-8_1-9/



https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Ephesians-6-4/



10 Strategies to help kids develop resilience.



Resilience is the ability to ‘bounce back’ from life’s difficulties. For many young people it is vital to help them develop resilience strategies that promote well-being and develop coping mechanisms. Many resilient teenagers are seen as resourceful and are emotionally and mentally balanced.



Andrew Fulleris a clinical psychologist and Generation Nextspeaker, he describes resilience as “the happy knack of being able to bungy jump through the pitfalls of life – to rise above adversity and obstacles.”



Tips for building resilience in children*
1. Make connections
Teach children how to make friends and develop empathy. Encourage them to be a friend in order to get friends. At school, watch to make sure that one child is not being isolated. Connecting with people provides social support and strengthens resilience.
2. Teach children to help others
Children who may feel helpless can be empowered by helping others. Ask for help with a task they can master. At school, brainstorm with children about ways they can help others.
3. Daily routine
Following a routine can be comforting to children, especially younger children who crave structure in their lives. Encourage children to develop their own routines.
4. Take a break
Although it is important to stick to routines, endlessly worrying can be counter-productive. Show children how to focus on something besides what’s worrying them.
5. Self-care for children
Teach child the importance of making time to eat properly, groom themselves, exercise and rest. Children need ‘down time’ to relax, so make sure that not all free time is filled with a scheduled activity.
6. Goals
Teach children to set reasonable goals and move toward them one step at a time. Moving toward that goal and receiving praise for doing so will focus children on what they have accomplished.
7. Nurture a positive self-view
Help children remember ways that they have successfully handled hardships in the past and how this can help them handle future challenges. Help children learn to trust themselves to solve problems and make appropriate decisions.
8. Be optimistic
Even when children are facing very painful events, help them look at the situation in a broader context. A positive outlook enables children to see the good things in life and keep going even in the hardest times.
9. Self-discovery
Change and tough times are often when children learn the most about themselves. Help children to see that this is a good time to find out “what they are made of.”  Change can be scary for young people, help them to see that change is part of life.
10. Make home a safe haven
In high school, taunting and bullying can intensify – home should be a haven, especially as your teen encounters more freedom and choices and looks to home to be a constant, safe and emotionally secure place in his or her life.



The Resilience Doughnut
Developed in Australia, The Resilience Doughnut builds resilience by considering both the internal qualities of a resilient person as well as the factors in the person’s environment which support and interact with those internal qualities. It is simple and practical and can be taught in a workshop format to school students.



SAY HI!



Let us know any questions you might have, and we will try and answer them in a future episode (we won’t identify you personally on-air). Send an email to podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com.  You can also connect on Facebook and Instagram and Twitter or check out our webpage www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com.

If you're a parent, then this is a must-listen episode.  We discuss with Ged &amp; Briar, qualified school counsellors, the challenges of parenting in the digital age.
 
We cover how to keep your kids safe, the amount of time your kids should use devices &amp; be online, what happens when things go wrong,
 
It's a challenging, thought-provoking, and even scary episode....that's why it's so important to listen to it.
 
Please also share with other parents you know - whether they be Christian or not.  
Until next time, He Says, She Says, God Says.
 
 
 
Helpful Sites
 
<a href="https://www.carlyryanfoundation.com/">The Carly Ryan Foundation (AMAZING resources)</a>
 
<a href="https://www.carlyryanfoundation.com/resources/online-safety-contract">Contract for Internet Usage &amp; Safety</a>
 
<a href="https://www.netflix.com/title/81254224">The Social Dilemma documentary</a>
 
<a href="https://www.esafety.gov.au/">eSafety Government Resources</a>
 
<a href="https://fightthenewdrug.org/">Fighting Pornography</a>
 
Internet Filters
 
<a href="https://www.familyzone.com/anz/families?gclid=EAIaIQobChMIhufRu86Q5AIVGA4rCh2ntAGpEAAYASAAEgKomfD_BwE">Family Zone</a>
 
<a href="https://canopy.us/">Canopy</a>
 
<a href="https://www.bark.us/">Bark</a>
 
<a href="https://www.covenanteyes.com/">Covenant Eyes</a>
 
Scriptures
 
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-22-6/">https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-22-6/</a>
 
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-1-8_1-9/">https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-1-8_1-9/</a>
 
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Ephesians-6-4/">https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Ephesians-6-4/</a>
 
10 Strategies to help kids develop resilience.
 
Resilience is the ability to ‘bounce back’ from life’s difficulties. For many young people it is vital to help them develop resilience strategies that promote well-being and develop coping mechanisms. Many resilient teenagers are seen as resourceful and are emotionally and mentally balanced.
 
<a href="http://www.andrewfuller.com.au/index.php?Do=ContentView&amp;pageno=100">Andrew Fuller</a> is a clinical psychologist and <a href="https://www.generationnext.com.au/">Generation Next </a>speaker, he describes resilience as “the happy knack of being able to bungy jump through the pitfalls of life – to rise above adversity and obstacles.”
 
Tips for building resilience in children* 1. Make connections Teach children how to make friends and develop empathy. Encourage them to be a friend in order to get friends. At school, watch to make sure that one child is not being isolated. Connecting with people provides social support and strengthens resilience. 2. Teach children to help others Children who may feel helpless can be empowered by helping others. Ask for help with a task they can master. At school, brainstorm with children about ways they can help others. 3. Daily routine Following a routine can be comforting to children, especially younger children who crave structure in their lives. Encourage children to develop their own routines. 4. Take a break Although it is important to stick to routines, endlessly worrying can be counter-productive. Show children how to focus on something besides what’s worrying them. 5. Self-care for children Teach child the importance of making time to eat properly, groom themselves, exercise and rest. Children need ‘down time’ to relax, so make sure that not all free time is filled with a scheduled activity. 6. Goals Teach children to set reasonable goals and move toward them one step at a time. Moving toward that goal and receiving praise for doing so will focus children on what they have accomplished. 7. Nurture a positive self-view Help children remember ways that they have successfully handled hardships in the past and how this can help them handle future challenges. Help children learn to trust themselves to solve problems and make appropriate decisions. 8. Be optimistic Even when children are facing very painful events, help them look at the situation in a broader context. A positive outlook enables children to see the good things in life and keep going even in the hardest times. 9. Self-discovery Change and tough times are often when children learn the most about themselves. Help children to see that this is a good time to find out “what they are made of.”  Change can be scary for young people, help them to see that change is part of life. 10. Make home a safe haven In high school, taunting and bullying can intensify – home should be a haven, especially as your teen encounters more freedom and choices and looks to home to be a constant, safe and emotionally secure place in his or her life.
 
The Resilience Doughnut Developed in Australia, <a href="http://www.theresiliencedoughnut.com.au/">The Resilience Doughnut</a> builds resilience by considering both the internal qualities of a resilient person as well as the factors in the person’s environment which support and interact with those internal qualities. It is simple and practical and can be taught in a workshop format to school students.
 
SAY HI!
 
Let us know any questions you might have, and we will try and answer them in a future episode (we won’t identify you personally on-air). Send an email to <a href="mailto:podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com">podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com</a>.  You can also connect on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/hesaysshesaysgodsayspodcast">Facebook</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hesaysshesaysgodsays/">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/HeSaysSheSaysG1">Twitter</a> or check out our webpage <a href="http://www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com">www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com</a>.

Parenting in the Digital Age

In this episode, we will be exploring the topic of retirement with three different couples.  We'll be hearing from Tom and Jan, Mike and Helga, and Jock and Hellen, who have all retired and have some interesting stories to share with us.

If you're not at retirement age, then this is a must listen for you too!  Retirement is a significant milestone in our lives and can bring with it a range of emotions, from excitement and anticipation to uncertainty and even fear.  

Each of our guests today has approached retirement in their unique way, and their experiences offer valuable insights into this important life transition.

There’s a lot to think about.

So, sit back, relax, and join us as we explore retirement through the eyes of these three lovely couples.

In this episode, we will be exploring the topic of retirement with three different couples.  We'll be hearing from Tom and Jan, Mike and Helga, and Jock and Hellen, who have all retired and have some interesting stories to share with us.
If you're not at retirement age, then this is a must listen for you too!  Retirement is a significant milestone in our lives and can bring with it a range of emotions, from excitement and anticipation to uncertainty and even fear.  
Each of our guests today has approached retirement in their unique way, and their experiences offer valuable insights into this important life transition.
There’s a lot to think about.
So, sit back, relax, and join us as we explore retirement through the eyes of these three lovely couples.

To Retirement & Beyond

Have you ever thought about exactly what makes you feel loved?  Ever felt “unloved”, but not 100% sure why?  Do you know what you’re partner needs from you to feel loved?



In this episode, we unpack this very important and interesting topic.



A huge thank you to Jeff and Liz who share their experiences and tell us about a great resource you can use called “5 Love Languages”.



LINKS to other Information

5 Love Languages Book  https://bit.ly/3BgPVr0 or https://open.spotify.com/show/0AKpN8oze7LTnrZgUUAFHA?si=0a8638603e744b96



SCRIPTURES discussed

https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Acts-20-35/

https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Luke-24-32/

https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Galatians-6-10/



SAY HI !

Let us know any questions you might have, and we will try and answer them in a future episode (we won’t identify you personally on-air). Send an email to podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com.   You can also connect on Facebook, Instagram or via the website www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com

Have you ever thought about exactly what makes you feel loved?  Ever felt “unloved”, but not 100% sure why?  Do you know what you’re partner needs from you to feel loved?
 
In this episode, we unpack this very important and interesting topic.
 
A huge thank you to Jeff and Liz who share their experiences and tell us about a great resource you can use called “5 Love Languages”.
 
LINKS to other Information
5 Love Languages Book  <a href="https://bit.ly/3BgPVr0">https://bit.ly/3BgPVr0</a> or <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/0AKpN8oze7LTnrZgUUAFHA?si=0a8638603e744b96">https://open.spotify.com/show/0AKpN8oze7LTnrZgUUAFHA?si=0a8638603e744b96</a>
 
SCRIPTURES discussed
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Acts-20-35/">https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Acts-20-35/</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Luke-24-32/">https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Luke-24-32/</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Galatians-6-10/">https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Galatians-6-10/</a>
 
SAY HI !
Let us know any questions you might have, and we will try and answer them in a future episode (we won’t identify you personally on-air). Send an email to <a href="mailto:podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com">podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com</a>.   You can also connect on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/hesaysshesaysgodsayspodcast">Facebook</a>, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hesaysshesaysgodsays/">Instagram</a> or via the website <a href="http://www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com">www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com</a>

How We Feel Loved

Remember back when you only had yourself to worry about, and now with a family, you must divide your time up in what seems like a million ways?



What happens when you get the balance wrong? Or you focus so much time on your family that you don't spend any 1:1 time with your spouse?  Or have no time for yourself at all?



Until next time, He Says, She Says, God Says.







DOWNLOADABLE Time Calculator

Excel Document Download

Google Sheet https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tODv6XL0TW_HWmN740kqaqXhVAlZ9Iul/edit?usp=sharing&ouid=101992147845262759050&rtpof=true&sd=true



SCRIPTURES discussed



https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/1-Corinthians-7-32_7-35/



https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Matthew-6-25_6-33/



LINKS to other Information



https://relationships.org.au/wp-content/uploads/ra-rel-ind-survey-2008-report.pdf



www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com



REACH OUT!



Let us know any questions you might have, and we will try and answer them in a future episode (we won’t identify you personally on-air). Send an email to podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com.  You can also connect on Facebook and Instagram and Twitter or check out our webpage www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com.

© 2022 The Revival Fellowship. All rights reserved

Remember back when you only had yourself to worry about, and now with a family, you must divide your time up in what seems like a million ways?
 
What happens when you get the balance wrong? Or you focus so much time on your family that you don't spend any 1:1 time with your spouse?  Or have no time for yourself at all?
 
Until next time, He Says, She Says, God Says.
 
 
 
DOWNLOADABLE Time Calculator
<a href="http://hesaysshesaysgodsays.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Where-does-the-time-go.xlsx"></a> <a href="http://hesaysshesaysgodsays.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Where-does-the-time-go.xlsx">Excel Document</a><a href="http://hesaysshesaysgodsays.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Where-does-the-time-go.xlsx"> Download</a>
Google Sheet <a href="https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tODv6XL0TW_HWmN740kqaqXhVAlZ9Iul/edit?usp=sharing&amp;ouid=101992147845262759050&amp;rtpof=true&amp;sd=true">https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tODv6XL0TW_HWmN740kqaqXhVAlZ9Iul/edit?usp=sharing&amp;ouid=101992147845262759050&amp;rtpof=true&amp;sd=true</a>
 
SCRIPTURES discussed
 
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/1-Corinthians-7-32_7-35/">https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/1-Corinthians-7-32_7-35/</a>
 
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Matthew-6-25_6-33/">https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Matthew-6-25_6-33/</a>
 
LINKS to other Information
 
<a href="https://relationships.org.au/wp-content/uploads/ra-rel-ind-survey-2008-report.pdf">https://relationships.org.au/wp-content/uploads/ra-rel-ind-survey-2008-report.pdf</a>
 
<a href="http://www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com">www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com</a>
 
REACH OUT!
 
Let us know any questions you might have, and we will try and answer them in a future episode (we won’t identify you personally on-air). Send an email to <a href="mailto:podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com">podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com</a>.  You can also connect on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/hesaysshesaysgodsayspodcast">Facebook</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hesaysshesaysgodsays/">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/HeSaysSheSaysG1">Twitter</a> or check out our webpage <a href="http://www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com">www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com</a>.
© 2022 <a href="http://therevivalfellowship.org/">The Revival Fellowship</a>. All rights reserved

Once it was me, now it's + 3

In this episode, we delve into how Introvert & Extrovert personality traits and how this affect marriages.



“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances; if there is any reaction, both are transformed”



The terms "introvert" and "extrovert" were devised by Dr Carl Jung in the 1920s.   The common misconception around these terms is that people think that "introverts" are shy, while "extroverts" are "outgoing" -- there are outgoing introverts and shy extroverts. The main difference between these two temperaments comes down to how energy is gained. Extroverts gain energy by surrounding themselves with others, while Introverts gain energy and recharge by spending time alone.



There’s a 3rd category, called Ambiverts, which are smack in the middle between the two.



Introverts are more aware of & sensitive to external stimulation – too much and it overwhelms, just right and they feel comfortable



Extroverts, less sensitive to external stimulation, means they thrive on lots of activity, people, talking etc and are wired to seek external reward stimulation.



Well-Known INTROVERTS: 



Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, Steven Spielberg, Meryl Streep, Al Gore, Mark Zuckerberg, Hillary Clinton, Michael Jordan, Steve Wozniak, Elon Musk, JK Rowling, Eleanor Roosevelt, Audrey Hepburn, Albert Einstein, Rosa Parks and Mahatma Gandhi.



Well-Known EXTROVERTS: 

Bill Clinton, Oprah, Martin Luther King Jnr, Muhammad Ali, Nelson Mandela, Steve Jobs, Margaret Thatcher…and everybody on TikTok.



BIBLE EXTROVERTS?



PETER: He was often front and centre in the action:


He’s first in - Matthew 4:18 “And he (Jesus) said to them, ‘Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men.’ Immediately they (Peter and his brother Andrew) left their nets and followed him. ”
Peter is fast to jump in the water in Matthew 14:29 “… So Peter got out of the boat and walked on the water and came to Jesus”
Peter doesn’t ponder – he’s fast to ask questions, to understand Jesus’ teaching “But Peter said to him (Jesus), ‘Explain the parable to us.’” Matthew 15:15
Peter is not going to hold back, rebuking even Jesus. Matthew 16:22Then Peter took him, and began to rebuke him, saying, Be it far from thee, Lord: this shall not be unto thee”.
Peter goes to extremes John 13:8Peter saith unto him, Thou shalt never wash my feet. Jesus answered him, If I wash thee not, thou hast no part with me. 9 Simon Peter saith unto him, Lord, not my feet only, but also [my] hands and [my] head!’”
Peter takes up the fight John 18:10Then Simon Peter having a sword drew it, and smote the high priest's servant, and cut off his right ear”



DAVID:  He was often front and centre, and never one to back down from a fight.  He was a natural leader and became the King. 


2 Samuel 6:13 And it was [so], that when they that bare the ark of the LORD had gone six paces, he sacrificed oxen and fatlings. 14 And David danced before the LORD with all [his] might; and David [was] girded with a linen ephod. 15 So David and all the house of Israel brought up the ark of the LORD with shouting, and with the sound of the trumpet.





BIBLE INTROVERTS?

MOSES presents as a clear introvert


Numbers 12:3 Now the man Moses [was] very meek
Exodus 3:1 Now Moses kept the flock of Jethro his father in law, the priest of Midian: and he led the flock to the backside of the desert, and came to the mountain of God, [even] to Horeb.
Exodus 4:10 And Moses said unto the LORD, O my Lord, I [am] not eloquent, neither heretofore, nor since thou hast spoken unto thy servant: but I [am] slow of speech, and of a slow tongue. 11 And the LORD said unto him, Who hath made man's mouth? or who maketh the dumb, or deaf, or the seeing, or the blind? have not I the LORD? 12 Now therefore go, and I will be with thy mouth, and teach thee what thou shalt say.
God also goes on to partner him with Aaron, who is likely an Extrovert, in fact tells that Aaron will speak to the people
Exodus 4:16 And he shall be thy spokesman unto the people: and he shall be, [even] he shall be to thee instead of a mouth, and thou shalt be to him instead of God.



JESUS?  More likely an Ambivert



He was clearly involved in any kind of group situation: speaking to crowds of thousands, teaching and leading His small group of disciples, initiating tough one-on-one conversations.



He was sociable, as well as having a calming, peaceful nature – all while being able to front up to leadership of His day



The key here is – where did Jesus go to recharge?


Luke 6:12And it came to pass in those days, that he went out into a mountain to pray, and continued all night in prayer to God.
Matthew 14:13When Jesus heard [of it], he departed thence by ship into a desert place apart: and when the people had heard [thereof], they followed him on foot out of the cities.
Matthew 14:23 And when he had sent the multitudes away, he went up into a mountain apart to pray: and when the evening was come, he was there alone.
Matthew 4:1 Then was Jesus led up of the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted of the devil. 2 And when he had fasted forty days and forty nights, he was afterward an hungred.
Whether he spend time alone to recharge, or to spend time with his Father, what we do see in Jesus is the best traits, the absolute strengths, of both introverts and extroverts.







REFERENCES IN THIS EPISODE:



Personality Profile



www.16personalities.com



“Quiet” Book by Susan Cain

https://www.amazon.com/Quiet-Power-Introverts-World-Talking/dp/0307352153

Dr Carl Jung



https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carl_Jung



© 2022 The Revival Fellowship. All rights reserved

In this episode, we delve into how Introvert &amp; Extrovert personality traits and how this affect marriages.
 
“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances; if there is any reaction, both are transformed”
 
The terms <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Extraversion_and_introversion">"introvert" and "extrovert"</a> were devised by Dr Carl Jung in the 1920s.   The common misconception around these terms is that people think that "introverts" are shy, while "extroverts" are "outgoing" -- there are outgoing introverts and shy extroverts. The main difference between these two temperaments comes down to how energy is gained. Extroverts gain energy by surrounding themselves with others, while Introverts gain energy and recharge by spending time alone.
 
There’s a 3rd category, called <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Extraversion_and_introversion#Ambiversion">Ambiverts</a>, which are smack in the middle between the two.
 
Introverts are more aware of &amp; sensitive to external stimulation – too much and it overwhelms, just right and they feel comfortable
 
Extroverts, less sensitive to external stimulation, means they thrive on lots of activity, people, talking etc and are wired to seek external reward stimulation.
 
Well-Known INTROVERTS: 
 
Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, Steven Spielberg, Meryl Streep, Al Gore, Mark Zuckerberg, Hillary Clinton, Michael Jordan, Steve Wozniak, Elon Musk, JK Rowling, Eleanor Roosevelt, Audrey Hepburn, Albert Einstein, Rosa Parks and Mahatma Gandhi.
 
Well-Known EXTROVERTS: 
Bill Clinton, Oprah, Martin Luther King Jnr, Muhammad Ali, Nelson Mandela, Steve Jobs, Margaret Thatcher…and everybody on TikTok.
 
BIBLE EXTROVERTS?
 
PETER: He was often front and centre in the action:
 
<ul>
<li>He’s first in - <a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Matthew-4-18/">Matthew 4:18</a> “And he (Jesus) said to them, ‘Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men.’ Immediately they (Peter and his brother Andrew) left their nets and followed him. ”</li>
<li>Peter is fast to jump in the water in <a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Matthew-14-29/">Matthew 14:29</a> “… So Peter got out of the boat and walked on the water and came to Jesus”</li>
<li>Peter doesn’t ponder – he’s fast to ask questions, to understand Jesus’ teaching “But Peter said to him (Jesus), ‘Explain the parable to us.’” Matthew 15:15</li>
<li>Peter is not going to hold back, rebuking even Jesus. <a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Matthew-16-22/">Matthew 16:22</a> Then Peter took him, and began to rebuke him, saying, Be it far from thee, Lord: this shall not be unto thee”.</li>
<li>Peter goes to extremes <a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/John-13-8/">John 13:8</a> Peter saith unto him, Thou shalt never wash my feet. Jesus answered him, If I wash thee not, thou hast no part with me. 9 Simon Peter saith unto him, Lord, not my feet only, but also [my] hands and [my] head!’”</li>
<li>Peter takes up the fight <a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/John-18-10/">John 18:10</a> Then Simon Peter having a sword drew it, and smote the high priest's servant, and cut off his right ear”</li>
</ul>
 
DAVID:  He was often front and centre, and never one to back down from a fight.  He was a natural leader and became the King. 
 
<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/2-Samuel-6-13/">2 Samuel 6:13</a> And it was [so], that when they that bare the ark of the LORD had gone six paces, he sacrificed oxen and fatlings. 14 And David danced before the LORD with all [his] might; and David [was] girded with a linen ephod. 15 So David and all the house of Israel brought up the ark of the LORD with shouting, and with the sound of the trumpet.</li>
</ul>
 
 
BIBLE INTROVERTS?
MOSES presents as a clear introvert
 
<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Numbers-12-3/">Numbers 12:3</a> Now the man Moses [was] very meek</li>
<li><a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Exodus-3-1/">Exodus 3:1</a> Now Moses kept the flock of Jethro his father in law, the priest of Midian: and he led the flock to the backside of the desert, and came to the mountain of God, [even] to Horeb.</li>
<li><a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Exodus-4-10/">Exodus 4:10</a> And Moses said unto the LORD, O my Lord, I [am] not eloquent, neither heretofore, nor since thou hast spoken unto thy servant: but I [am] slow of speech, and of a slow tongue. 11 And the LORD said unto him, Who hath made man's mouth? or who maketh the dumb, or deaf, or the seeing, or the blind? have not I the LORD? 12 Now therefore go, and I will be with thy mouth, and teach thee what thou shalt say.</li>
<li>God also goes on to partner him with Aaron, who is likely an Extrovert, in fact tells that Aaron will speak to the people</li>
<li><a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Exodus-4-16/">Exodus 4:16</a> And he shall be thy spokesman unto the people: and he shall be, [even] he shall be to thee instead of a mouth, and thou shalt be to him instead of God.</li>
</ul>
 
JESUS?  More likely an <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Extraversion_and_introversion#Ambiversion">Ambivert</a>
 
He was clearly involved in any kind of group situation: speaking to crowds of thousands, teaching and leading His small group of disciples, initiating tough one-on-one conversations.
 
He was sociable, as well as having a calming, peaceful nature – all while being able to front up to leadership of His day
 
The key here is – where did Jesus go to recharge?
 
<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Luke-6-12/">Luke 6:12</a> And it came to pass in those days, that he went out into a mountain to pray, and continued all night in prayer to God.</li>
<li><a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Matthew-14-13/">Matthew 14:13</a> When Jesus heard [of it], he departed thence by ship into a desert place apart: and when the people had heard [thereof], they followed him on foot out of the cities.</li>
<li><a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Matthew-14-23/">Matthew 14:23</a> And when he had sent the multitudes away, he went up into a mountain apart to pray: and when the evening was come, he was there alone.</li>
<li><a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Matthew-4-1/">Matthew 4:1</a> Then was Jesus led up of the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted of the devil. 2 And when he had fasted forty days and forty nights, he was afterward an hungred.</li>
<li>Whether he spend time alone to recharge, or to spend time with his Father, what we do see in Jesus is the best traits, the absolute strengths, of both introverts and extroverts.</li>
</ul>
 
 
 
REFERENCES IN THIS EPISODE:
 
Personality Profile
 
<a href="http://www.16personalities.comW">www.16personalities.com</a>
 
“Quiet” Book by Susan Cain
https://www.amazon.com/Quiet-Power-Introverts-World-Talking/dp/0307352153
Dr Carl Jung
 
<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carl_Jung">https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carl_Jung</a>
 
© 2022 <a href="http://therevivalfellowship.org/">The Revival Fellowship</a>. All rights reserved

Introverts and Extroverts

This episode will make you laugh, it will make you cry and it will melt your heart.



John and Hetty have been married for over 64 years – and are still madly in love with each other.  While their background and marriage may be different from yours, there are some wonderful insights in here that we can all learn from.



We discuss so much in this episode, from starting a marriage with almost nothing, having babies at home, a high kicking chorus girl, no electricity in your home, handwashing cloth nappies, 7 family members living in one caravan…it’s a fascinating insight into life, love, and marriage over more than 6 decades



Let us know any questions you might have, and we will try and answer them in a future episode (we won’t identify you personally on-air) –send an email podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com.  You can also connect with us on Facebook and Instagram and Twitter or check out our webpage www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com.



Until next time, He Says, She Says, God Says.





REFERENCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

The movie they saw on their first date:  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trouble_in_Store

Their home City, Hull  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kingston_upon_Hull

Post War Immigration to Australia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-war_immigration_to_Australia



OTHER PODCASTS TO LISTEN TO:

John & Hetty share their Amazing, Miraculous Healings.

http://revivalontheairtoday.com/



SOME SCRIPTURES FOR YOU

Proverbs 31

10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her priceis far above rubies.

11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.

12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.

13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.

14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.

15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.

16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.

17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.

18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.

19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.

20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.

21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.

22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.

23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.

24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.

25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.

26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.

27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.

28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.

29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.

30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.

31Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.



© 2022 The Revival Fellowship. All rights reserved

This episode will make you laugh, it will make you cry and it will melt your heart.
 
John and Hetty have been married for over 64 years – and are still madly in love with each other.  While their background and marriage may be different from yours, there are some wonderful insights in here that we can all learn from.
 
We discuss so much in this episode, from starting a marriage with almost nothing, having babies at home, a high kicking chorus girl, no electricity in your home, handwashing cloth nappies, 7 family members living in one caravan…it’s a fascinating insight into life, love, and marriage over more than 6 decades
 
Let us know any questions you might have, and we will try and answer them in a future episode (we won’t identify you personally on-air) –send an email <a href="mailto:podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com">podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com</a>.  You can also connect with us on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/hesaysshesaysgodsayspodcast">Facebook</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hesaysshesaysgodsays/">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/hesaysshesaysg1">Twitter</a> or check out our webpage <a href="http://www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com">www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com</a>.
 
Until next time, He Says, She Says, God Says.
 
 
REFERENCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE
The movie they saw on their first date:  <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trouble_in_Store">https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trouble_in_Store</a>
Their home City, Hull  <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kingston_upon_Hull">https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kingston_upon_Hull</a>
Post War Immigration to Australia <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-war_immigration_to_Australia">https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-war_immigration_to_Australia</a>
 
OTHER PODCASTS TO LISTEN TO:
John &amp; Hetty share their Amazing, Miraculous Healings.
<a href="http://revivalontheairtoday.com/">http://revivalontheairtoday.com/</a>
 
SOME SCRIPTURES FOR YOU
Proverbs 31
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-10/">10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her priceis far above rubies.</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-11/">11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-12/">12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-13/">13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-14/">14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-15/">15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-16/">16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-17/">17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-18/">18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-19/">19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-20/">20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-21/">21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-22/">22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-23/">23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-24/">24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-25/">25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-26/">26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-27/">27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-28/">28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-29/">29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-30/">30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.</a>
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-31-31/">31Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.</a> 
© 2022 <a href="http://therevivalfellowship.org/">The Revival Fellowship</a>. All rights reserved

This is 60 years of Marriage

In this episode, Ben interviews David, who is a mental health practitioner.  Originally, this was only meant to be a short introduction to an interview we did with a couple about mental health in their marriage.



We decided to turn Ben & David’s conversation into an episode on its own.



They cover a range of topics including:


What is Anxiety, Depression?
Why do they affect some people more than others?
How does it affect people, both person who is suffering from Mental Illness and their partner?
What is Anorexia Nervosa, and its link to depression?
What can you do to help, or get help?



Just a quick warning about the content.  We obviously believe in the ability for God to heal all manner of physical, emotional, and mental illnesses, however if you need immediate help regarding suicide or mental health, please contact Beyondblue Support Service via phone on 1300 22 4636 or www.beyondblue.org.au or contact LifeLine on 13 11 14 or www.lifeline.org.au. Both of these services are available 24/7.



Subscribe for free using your podcast app, Spotify or on our website

You can also connect with us on Facebook and Instagram and Twitter or check out our webpage www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com.



REFERENCES IN THIS EPISODE:

Other podcasts to listen to:
Healing from Anxiety with married couple Squid and Beth.

https://revivalontheairtoday.com/e/29-squid-and-beth-tell-of-crippling-anxiety-his-amazing-healing/
Healing from Anorexia Nervosa with Alison.

https://revivalontheairtoday.com/e/alison/



SCRIPTURES COVERED IN THIS EPISODE:

James 5:16 Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.



© 2022 The Revival Fellowship. All rights reserved

In this episode, Ben interviews David, who is a mental health practitioner.  Originally, this was only meant to be a short introduction to an interview we did with a couple about mental health in their marriage.
 
We decided to turn Ben &amp; David’s conversation into an episode on its own.
 
They cover a range of topics including:
 
<ul>
<li>What is Anxiety, Depression?</li>
<li>Why do they affect some people more than others?</li>
<li>How does it affect people, both person who is suffering from Mental Illness and their partner?</li>
<li>What is Anorexia Nervosa, and its link to depression?</li>
<li>What can you do to help, or get help?</li>
</ul>
 
Just a quick warning about the content.  We obviously believe in the ability for God to heal all manner of physical, emotional, and mental illnesses, however if you need immediate help regarding suicide or mental health, please contact Beyondblue Support Service via phone on 1300 22 4636 or <a href="http://www.beyondblue.org.au">www.beyondblue.org.au</a> or contact LifeLine on 13 11 14 or <a href="http://www.lifeline.org.au">www.lifeline.org.au</a>. Both of these services are available 24/7.
 
Subscribe for free using your podcast app, Spotify or on our website
You can also connect with us on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/hesaysshesaysgodsayspodcast">Facebook</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hesaysshesaysgodsays/">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/hesaysshesaysg1">Twitter</a> or check out our webpage <a href="http://www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com">www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com</a>.
 
REFERENCES IN THIS EPISODE:
Other podcasts to listen to:
<ul>
<li>Healing from Anxiety with married couple Squid and Beth.</li>
</ul>
<a href="https://revivalontheairtoday.com/e/29-squid-and-beth-tell-of-crippling-anxiety-his-amazing-healing/">https://revivalontheairtoday.com/e/29-squid-and-beth-tell-of-crippling-anxiety-his-amazing-healing/</a>
<ul>
<li>Healing from Anorexia Nervosa with Alison.</li>
</ul>
<a href="https://revivalontheairtoday.com/e/alison/">https://revivalontheairtoday.com/e/alison/</a>
 
SCRIPTURES COVERED IN THIS EPISODE:
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/James-5-16/">James 5:16</a> Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.
 
© 2022 <a href="http://therevivalfellowship.org/">The Revival Fellowship</a>. All rights reserved

Mental Health & Marriage

What happens when two people, with very different backgrounds, fall in love & get married?

Our guests in this episode, Dan and Cindy, tell us their amazing story.

Some of the key themes in this episode include:

· You can’t build a marriage by modelling it exactly on your parents

· The many different roles a spouse might need to play

· Why working through problems with your spouse builds a stronger marriage· How love can grow stronger and stronger

· The importance of listening

And much, much more….

Please reach out to us – let us know any questions you might have, and we will try and answer them in a future episode (we won’t identify you personally on-air) – do this by sending us an email podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com.
You can also connect with us on Facebook and Instagram and Twitter or check out our webpage www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com.

Until next time, .He Says, She Says, God Says

REFERENCES IN THIS EPISODE

:Mr “Fix It” Episode on He Says She Says God Says


SCRIPTURES COVERED IN THIS EPISODE:

Genesis 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

James 5:6 Confess your faults one to another…

.Ecclesiastes 4:12 And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.



© 2022 The Revival Fellowship. All rights reserved

What happens when two people, with very different backgrounds, fall in love &amp; get married?
Our guests in this episode, Dan and Cindy, tell us their amazing story.
Some of the key themes in this episode include:
· You can’t build a marriage by modelling it exactly on your parents
· The many different roles a spouse might need to play
· Why working through problems with your spouse builds a stronger marriage· How love can grow stronger and stronger
· The importance of listening
And much, much more….
Please reach out to us – let us know any questions you might have, and we will try and answer them in a future episode (we won’t identify you personally on-air) – do this by sending us an email <a>podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com</a>. You can also connect with us on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/hesaysshesaysgodsayspodcast">Facebook</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hesaysshesaysgodsays/">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/hesaysshesaysg1">Twitter</a> or check out our webpage <a href="http://www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com/">www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com</a>.
Until next time, .He Says, She Says, God Says REFERENCES IN THIS EPISODE
:<a href="https://hesaysshesaysgodsays.com/mr-fix-it/">Mr “Fix It” Episode</a> on He Says She Says God Says
 SCRIPTURES COVERED IN THIS EPISODE:
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Genesis-2-24/">Genesis 2:24</a> Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/James-Chapter-5/#16">J</a><a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/James-Chapter-5/#16">ames 5:6</a> Confess your faults one to another…
.<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Ecclesiastes-4-12/">Ecclesiastes 4:12</a> And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.
 
© 2022 <a href="http://therevivalfellowship.org/">The Revival Fellowship</a>. All rights reserved

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Different Backgrounds, Same Marriage?

The Podcast about Marriages & Relationships where God is at the centre

Marriages are under huge pressure today with approx 50% ending in divorce.  How does a marriage where God is at the centre differ?  We interview couples who've been there before on topics that affect many marriages.

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