Is it possible to be a good listener, even if that wasn't modeled for you growing up? Jim Daly joins Michelle Nietert, who encourages you to listen to your kids with your eyes. Plus, Danny addresses what to do if you find yourself repeating the same mistakes your parents made.

 

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Listening Well, Even if Your Parents Didn’t Teach You How

Introduction

When Your Kid Asks "Why?"

Worst-Case Scenario

Resources for You

How do you respond well when your kid asks, "why did this bad thing happen?" Jim Daly talks to Michelle Nietert about getting on your children's level, and helping them deal with fear. Also, John and Danny will help you encourage your kids when they're struggling with imagining the worst-case scenario.

 

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Get on Their Level

Open to Your Advice

For Frustrated Parents

Mentors for Your Kids

We Want to Help You

It's challenging when your adult child is making decisions you disagree with. You may wonder, "Will my son or daughter ever ask for my opinion?" Danny shares how you can be a good friend when giving advice, without being a control freak. Also, Jim Daly and Dr. Gary Chapman offer some encouragement if there's emotional distance between you and your adult kids.

 

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It's challenging when your adult child is making decisions you disagree with. You may wonder, "Will my son or daughter ever ask for my opinion?" Danny shares how you can be a good friend when giving advice, without being a control freak. Also, Jim Daly and Dr. Gary Chapman offer some encouragement if there's emotional distance between you and your adult kids.
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Offering vs. Demanding to Give Advice

Adult Child Frustrations?

Steve & Linda's Daughter

An Unmotivated Child

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What if your adult child is not as responsible as you raised them to be? John and Danny bring up common frustrations parents of adult kids have today. Then, Jim Daly talks to Dr. Gary Chapman, who tells an encouraging story of a couple, Steve and Linda, whose daughter went from struggling to thriving.

 

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If Your Adult Child is Irresponsible

How John & Danny Tried Doing Family Devotions

How Tim Struggled with Doing Devotionals

If You've Tried Over & Over Again

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Getting your kids to focus during family devotions is NOT easy. John and Danny discuss some of the ways they tried to implement things like reading the Bible and praying with their children. Also, Jim Daly talks with Tim Shoemaker about how he went from struggling with devotion times, to getting his kids to love them.

 

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Starting Family Devotions

Parents Who Are Concerned About AI

Things to Be Aware of with AI

If Your Child is Addicted to Technology

Resources to Help You

How do you teach your kids to navigate the world of technology and AI, when we're surrounded by them? Danny shares how parents can set a better example for not being on your phones all the time. Also, Arlene Pellicane and Jim Daly address some of the pitfalls with using AI too much.

 

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Using Wisdom with AI

Learning to Let Go of Teens

The End Goal of Parenting

How Friendship Can Develop with Your Kids

If You Need Help

Letting go of your children is a challenging process as they get older, but it's a necessary part of parenting. John and Danny open up about how they learned to let go in the teen years. Plus, Jim Daly talks to Dr. Ken Wilgus and Jessica Pfeiffer, who share what the goal is for something called Planned Emancipation.

 

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Planned Emancipation’s Goal

Kids Need Consequences & Planned Emancipation

Don't Bail Your Kids Out

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How do you avoid putting your identity in your kids' behavior? Jim Daly speaks with Dr. Ken Wilgus and Jessica Pfeiffer on how children need to face consequences for their choices, and a concept called Planned Emancipation. Also, John and Danny explain why it's hard but necessary to let your kids suffer if they make bad decisions.

 

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When Your Teen Needs Independence

When Your Child is Afraid

Helping Kids Process Their Emotions

Be a Safe Person for Your Child's Feelings

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What should you say when your child says, "I'm scared?" John and Danny bring up some of their experiences of helping their kids overcome fear. Plus, Jim Daly and Michelle Nietert discuss what patterns you should pay attention to if your kid seems afraid.

 

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Don’t Shut Down their Feelings

Dealing with Messiness and Melissa's Son

How Parents Can Trust God After a Tragedy

What do you do if tragedy strikes? Jim Daly interviews Melissa Hannigan on how God comforted her after her son died. Also, Danny shares how he's seen others trust God, even during a difficult time.

 

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When the Worst Has Happened

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