"An affair is the murder of a marriage." Pastor Gary Thomas explains how extra-marital affairs develop and how to avoid them. He also offers hope and healing for spouses who want to restore their relationship.

 

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"An affair is the murder of a marriage." Pastor Gary Thomas explains how extra-marital affairs develop and how to avoid them. He also offers hope and healing for spouses who want to restore their relationship.
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Preventing Heartbreak: Strategies to Stop an Affair Before It Starts (Part 1 of 2)

How we begin our day often determines the direction of our thoughts, our emotions, and even our relationships. And for many of us, the first thing we reach for isn’t prayer or Scripture—it’s our phone. Pastor Kevin A. Thompson helps you break unhealthy “doomscrolling” habits as you start your day—by encouraging you to rely on Scripture as your source of hope and strength for daily life. He’ll walk us through what real, biblical hope looks like…how it anchors us when circumstances feel overwhelming…how it quietly shapes our values, beliefs, and everyday decisions…and how that hope naturally overflows to bless our families, our churches, and our communities.

 

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How we begin our day often determines the direction of our thoughts, our emotions, and even our relationships. And for many of us, the first thing we reach for isn&rsquo;t prayer or Scripture&mdash;it&rsquo;s our phone. Pastor Kevin A. Thompson helps you break unhealthy &ldquo;doomscrolling&rdquo; habits as you start your day&mdash;by encouraging you to rely on Scripture as your source of hope and strength for daily life. He&rsquo;ll walk us through what real, biblical hope looks like&hellip;how it anchors us when circumstances feel overwhelming&hellip;how it quietly shapes our values, beliefs, and everyday decisions&hellip;and how that hope naturally overflows to bless our families, our churches, and our communities.
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Starting Your Day in a Better Way

We spend a lot of time talking—sharing our thoughts, our opinions, our stories—but how often do we really stop and listen? Becky Harling encourages you to develop the one skill that will strengthen every relationship you have—the art of listening. She’ll walk through some practical steps to develop healthy habits that will help you become more intentional, proactive listeners.

 

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We spend a lot of time talking&mdash;sharing our thoughts, our opinions, our stories&mdash;but how often do we really stop and listen? Becky Harling encourages you to develop the one skill that will strengthen every relationship you have&mdash;the art of listening. She&rsquo;ll walk through some practical steps to develop healthy habits that will help you become more intentional, proactive listeners.
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Learning the Lost Art of Listening

Melanie Shankle shares how childhood trauma and a “mean girl” mom affected her life, marriage, and motherhood, bringing a message of hope and healing in Jesus Christ.

 

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Melanie Shankle shares how childhood trauma and a &ldquo;mean girl&rdquo; mom affected her life, marriage, and motherhood, bringing a message of hope and healing in Jesus Christ.
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