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How to Fight Fair (Part 1 of 2)

We spend a lot of time talking—sharing our thoughts, our opinions, our stories—but how often do we really stop and listen? Becky Harling encourages you to develop the one skill that will strengthen every relationship you have—the art of listening. She’ll walk through some practical steps to develop healthy habits that will help you become more intentional, proactive listeners.

 

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We spend a lot of time talking&mdash;sharing our thoughts, our opinions, our stories&mdash;but how often do we really stop and listen? Becky Harling encourages you to develop the one skill that will strengthen every relationship you have&mdash;the art of listening. She&rsquo;ll walk through some practical steps to develop healthy habits that will help you become more intentional, proactive listeners.
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Learning the Lost Art of Listening

Melanie Shankle shares how childhood trauma and a “mean girl” mom affected her life, marriage, and motherhood, bringing a message of hope and healing in Jesus Christ.

 

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Melanie Shankle shares how childhood trauma and a &ldquo;mean girl&rdquo; mom affected her life, marriage, and motherhood, bringing a message of hope and healing in Jesus Christ.
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