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Jake is on the phone today for a first day follow up and he's getting ghosted by Serena. So in a few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Jake, how long has it been since you heard from Serena.

Jake is on the phone today for a first day follow up and he's getting ghosted by Serena. So in a few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Jake, how long has it been since you heard from Serena.

It's been probably about a week and a half.

It's been probably about a week and a half.

Mm.

Mm.

So have you been trying to get a hold of her.

So have you been trying to get a hold of her.

Yeah, I tried to call like a couple times, but I'm trying not to be too pushy. But it's been like maybe two days since the last time I reached out.

Yeah, I tried to call like a couple times, but I'm trying not to be too pushy. But it's been like maybe two days since the last time I reached out.

Okay, have you reached out a bunch?

Okay, have you reached out a bunch?

I don't think so.

I don't think so.

What did it meant?

What did it meant?

I think more than three times if somebody's ghosting you, I feel like more than three times, it's too much.

I think more than three times if somebody's ghosting you, I feel like more than three times, it's too much.

How how's two calls and one text?

How how's two calls and one text?

Oh that's not bad?

Oh that's not bad?

Yeah?

Yeah?

Yeah, well I don't know two calls counts for like two text messages.

Yeah, well I don't know two calls counts for like two text messages.

Oh that's okay. This is where we are now crying voicemail?

Oh that's okay. This is where we are now crying voicemail?

Oh no, no, I didn't a plus.

Oh no, no, I didn't a plus.

Yeah, okay, let's talk about the date.

Yeah, okay, let's talk about the date.

How did that go?

How did that go?

So we went out to trivia night at a bar around town, and it was a lot of fun. We have really good vibes. I love trivia like and I figured it'd be a great.

So we went out to trivia night at a bar around town, and it was a lot of fun. We have really good vibes. I love trivia like and I figured it'd be a great.

Date because there's something interactive. We had a lot of fun, We crushed a few rounds, and our chemistry was it was awesome. The drinks were flowing. Did the team name even became like a little flirty and tide joke between me and her by the.

Date because there's something interactive. We had a lot of fun, We crushed a few rounds, and our chemistry was it was awesome. The drinks were flowing. Did the team name even became like a little flirty and tide joke between me and her by the.

End of the night.

End of the night.

What was the team name?

What was the team name?

The team name was the scores, Like like you're scoring, you know what I mean?

The team name was the scores, Like like you're scoring, you know what I mean?

Okay, Okay, I see where the joke's.

Okay, Okay, I see where the joke's.

Going, right right.

Going, right right.

So and she's also like really really smart, but now in a like web it in your face kind of way.

So and she's also like really really smart, but now in a like web it in your face kind of way.

She was like laughing at my jokes. And nobody ever does that special They layd like fifty to fifty percent of the time, you know what. So, yeah, it all went really well, and there was like there was definitely a kiss at the end of the night.

She was like laughing at my jokes. And nobody ever does that special They layd like fifty to fifty percent of the time, you know what. So, yeah, it all went really well, and there was like there was definitely a kiss at the end of the night.

And it wasn't like fireworks all over the place, but it was a little bit of a spark, a little.

And it wasn't like fireworks all over the place, but it was a little bit of a spark, a little.

Bit of a thing. If you feel what I mean?

Bit of a thing. If you feel what I mean?

Okay, so kind of feel what you mean.

Okay, so kind of feel what you mean.

So what you're saying was it wasn't the best kiss, but it was all right enough that you want to get a hold of her.

So what you're saying was it wasn't the best kiss, but it was all right enough that you want to get a hold of her.

Yeah, I mean, then I guess I wouldn't even say that the kiss was bad.

Yeah, I mean, then I guess I wouldn't even say that the kiss was bad.

Okay, It wasn't like, you know, so stick your foot up in the air type kiss.

Okay, It wasn't like, you know, so stick your foot up in the air type kiss.

I think it was kind of just a it seems like the kisses in the future.

I think it was kind of just a it seems like the kisses in the future.

Are going to be way better, you know what I mean, kind of like it's a little, a little kiss.

Are going to be way better, you know what I mean, kind of like it's a little, a little kiss.

Okay.

Okay.

Was there any moment during the date that fell well, like it could be the reason why you're getting ghosted?

Was there any moment during the date that fell well, like it could be the reason why you're getting ghosted?

Oh man, Honestly, I can't really think it anything. I mean, maybe I got two into the game because I was carrying the team at a certain point, but I don't think I was being annoying. I mean, it could be that I did like challenge the host on on a wrong answer.

Oh man, Honestly, I can't really think it anything. I mean, maybe I got two into the game because I was carrying the team at a certain point, but I don't think I was being annoying. I mean, it could be that I did like challenge the host on on a wrong answer.

The question was what's the capital of Australia, and they said Sydney. It's it's It's it's not Sydney. So I corrected him kind of loudly.

The question was what's the capital of Australia, and they said Sydney. It's it's It's it's not Sydney. So I corrected him kind of loudly.

Well, I think that's the right thing to do in trivia if it's all about correct answers.

Well, I think that's the right thing to do in trivia if it's all about correct answers.

I did call a team out because they were cheating.

I did call a team out because they were cheating.

I just that's not bad unless they weren't cheating.

I just that's not bad unless they weren't cheating.

And of cheating, right, I mean we won anyway, so it didn't matter.

And of cheating, right, I mean we won anyway, so it didn't matter.

But still, I'm like, you can't cheat. It's trivia. What was she.

But still, I'm like, you can't cheat. It's trivia. What was she.

Doing during the time you were yelling at the at the host? Was she did she look embarrassed or was she like.

Doing during the time you were yelling at the at the host? Was she did she look embarrassed or was she like.

Yeah, you know, I don't know, and that's probably not good.

Yeah, you know, I don't know, and that's probably not good.

Okay, but but I didn't yell. Yell is a very strong word for what it was.

Okay, but but I didn't yell. Yell is a very strong word for what it was.

Okay, well, we'll see if we can figure it out. We'll play a song come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay, Okay, thanks, all right, we'll get your first day follow up.

Okay, well, we'll see if we can figure it out. We'll play a song come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay, Okay, thanks, all right, we'll get your first day follow up.

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Right in the middle of your first day follow up if you're just joining us, Jake is on the phone. He's getting ghosted by Serena. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another day if he still wants one. But before we do that, Jake, tell us what happened on your date again?

Right in the middle of your first day follow up if you're just joining us, Jake is on the phone. He's getting ghosted by Serena. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another day if he still wants one. But before we do that, Jake, tell us what happened on your date again?

Real quick.

Real quick.

So we went out to go play trivia. We had a really.

So we went out to go play trivia. We had a really.

Good time, lots of fun chemistry, but I think I might have gotten a little bit too intent.

Good time, lots of fun chemistry, but I think I might have gotten a little bit too intent.

But she didn't seem.

But she didn't seem.

Too bothered about it at that, you know, at when it happened.

Too bothered about it at that, you know, at when it happened.

And we did kiss at the end of the night.

And we did kiss at the end of the night.

But the kiss wasn't kick your leg up kiss. It was just a spark. I love that. Yeah, okay, all right, you ready for us to call her?

But the kiss wasn't kick your leg up kiss. It was just a spark. I love that. Yeah, okay, all right, you ready for us to call her?

Oh?

Oh?

Yeah, okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man speak to Serena. Please, uh hey, Serena, how are you. This is a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show. Hi, Serena. My name's Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria and I'm Jewel.

Yeah, okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man speak to Serena. Please, uh hey, Serena, how are you. This is a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show. Hi, Serena. My name's Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria and I'm Jewel.

How you doing?

How you doing?

Wait? Is this a prank?

Wait? Is this a prank?

No, this is not a prank. Have you ever listened to The Jebel Show before? I No, you don't have to apologize. It's fine.

No, this is not a prank. Have you ever listened to The Jebel Show before? I No, you don't have to apologize. It's fine.

It happens like rarely that somebody doesn't listen very rarely.

It happens like rarely that somebody doesn't listen very rarely.

But you know, maybe you don't want to know, so, yeah, I just have to be up really early for work though. It probably just yeah, yeah, well yeah, it's fine. You are starring on it though, right now.

But you know, maybe you don't want to know, so, yeah, I just have to be up really early for work though. It probably just yeah, yeah, well yeah, it's fine. You are starring on it though, right now.

Okay, we do a segment on the show called the First Date follow Up. That's where if you go out with somebody and then you ghost them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And somebody emailed us about you. Oh okay, you know who would email us?

Okay, we do a segment on the show called the First Date follow Up. That's where if you go out with somebody and then you ghost them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And somebody emailed us about you. Oh okay, you know who would email us?

Not sure?

Not sure?

Are you ghosting anyone?

Are you ghosting anyone?

I mean I'm out here dating I don't know.

I mean I'm out here dating I don't know.

Okay. His name is Jake. You know that's a lot of guys you remember him?

Okay. His name is Jake. You know that's a lot of guys you remember him?

Oh my gosh.

Oh my gosh.

Okay, okay, yeah, this is something Jake would do, like triton n Jake.

Okay, okay, yeah, this is something Jake would do, like triton n Jake.

Kay, I love that.

Kay, I love that.

And he says that it's been a week and a half since you guys hung out. He thought the date was good, but you been ghosting him?

And he says that it's been a week and a half since you guys hung out. He thought the date was good, but you been ghosting him?

Can you tell us why?

Can you tell us why?

Definitely? Jake?

Definitely? Jake?

All right, yeah, no, it's nice.

All right, yeah, no, it's nice.

Nice and the guy it's just takes too much that look. I love a competitive guy.

Nice and the guy it's just takes too much that look. I love a competitive guy.

But you know, we went out for a game of Tribia and it turned into like this full full blown game show host thing like he was standing up in high fiving strangers and just giving ted talks between rounds and people thought he worked there.

But you know, we went out for a game of Tribia and it turned into like this full full blown game show host thing like he was standing up in high fiving strangers and just giving ted talks between rounds and people thought he worked there.

Well, excuse me for bring us some enthusiasm to the game.

Well, excuse me for bring us some enthusiasm to the game.

He's on the phone listening and he wants to talk to you.

He's on the phone listening and he wants to talk to you.

Yeah, no, hi, Jake. I just you also accused a group of elderly women of cheating.

Yeah, no, hi, Jake. I just you also accused a group of elderly women of cheating.

Yeah they were.

Yeah they were.

They were suspiciously good at pop culture.

They were suspiciously good at pop culture.

How are they gonna know? Like, how are they gonna know this stuff?

How are they gonna know? Like, how are they gonna know this stuff?

And I swear I saw one of them looking at their phone.

And I swear I saw one of them looking at their phone.

Okay, And let's not also forget that you argued with the trivia host for a solid five minute.

Okay, And let's not also forget that you argued with the trivia host for a solid five minute.

I was maybe nineteen streeting off a card old he was wrong. I was educating him, Jake. The whole bar was chanting for you to sit down.

I was maybe nineteen streeting off a card old he was wrong. I was educating him, Jake. The whole bar was chanting for you to sit down.

The whole bar chanted firm sit down.

The whole bar chanted firm sit down.

Oh my god. They were not telling me to sit down.

Oh my god. They were not telling me to sit down.

They were chanting my name because I was correct.

They were chanting my name because I was correct.

Is that really what happened?

Is that really what happened?

Oh my god, Jake, we were losing, all right.

Oh my god, Jake, we were losing, all right.

I need someone who can handle losing with dignity.

I need someone who can handle losing with dignity.

Oh come on, I do handle loving well.

Oh come on, I do handle loving well.

It just doesn't happen to me very often.

It just doesn't happen to me very often.

That's what I'm talking about.

That's what I'm talking about.

I mean, it was already bad, but when you threatened to burn down the place because we were losing, that.

I mean, it was already bad, but when you threatened to burn down the place because we were losing, that.

It was a joke. I'm not God wasn't gonna actually.

It was a joke. I'm not God wasn't gonna actually.

Do that, So you're not denying it. You didnlace down, but I.

Do that, So you're not denying it. You didnlace down, but I.

Didn't mean it. Joke.

Didn't mean it. Joke.

And Joe really take like the owner came out at that point and was saying we had to go.

And Joe really take like the owner came out at that point and was saying we had to go.

Well, we were already leaving, all right, Well like we got.

Well, we were already leaving, all right, Well like we got.

Roll now, Serena, would you like go out with Jake again? We'll pay for it, you know, thank you?

Roll now, Serena, would you like go out with Jake again? We'll pay for it, you know, thank you?

It was so good.

It was so good.

Well, all right, fine, I guess I'll take my undefeated record somewhere else and enjoy losing it life.

Well, all right, fine, I guess I'll take my undefeated record somewhere else and enjoy losing it life.

Serena, Okay, well right, I hope you find you're someone.

Serena, Okay, well right, I hope you find you're someone.

And you can burn down places together.

And you can burn down places together.

It was a joke. I gonna do that. Jubele's First Date follow up

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