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Evan is on the phone today for our first Day follow up and he's getting ghosted by Ruby. So in a few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date. But first, Evan, how long has it vin since you heard from Ruby?

Evan is on the phone today for our first Day follow up and he's getting ghosted by Ruby. So in a few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date. But first, Evan, how long has it vin since you heard from Ruby?

It's been about four days?

It's been about four days?

Okay, that's too bad. Yeah, have you hit her up a bunch in that time?

Okay, that's too bad. Yeah, have you hit her up a bunch in that time?

I did try a couple of times. Yeah, I don't want to overdo it, but reached out and definitely got nothing back.

I did try a couple of times. Yeah, I don't want to overdo it, but reached out and definitely got nothing back.

Okay, And you feel like that's weird, Like you feel like four days is a long time?

Okay, And you feel like that's weird, Like you feel like four days is a long time?

Did not hear from her?

Did not hear from her?

Yeah, we're kind of hitting it off, so it is it's out of the ordinary.

Yeah, we're kind of hitting it off, so it is it's out of the ordinary.

Well, tell us about your date.

Well, tell us about your date.

Well, Ruby and I went to Rooftop Bar and you know, it had the best view of the city. It was it's her idea. Actually it was super cool. Well, you know, I can't really beat it for our first daid. Just great, great place to grab drinks, shared a charcoterie board, and you know our conversation was just really easy, natural. The vibe was laid back and plenty of kind of flirty moments. She's hilarious, you know, we're making each other laugh the whole night, and they were just sparked, you know, the kind of can't bake. We ended up taking a walk after and because we were both a little buzzed, and before we said good night, there are a few kisses and yeah, you know, it's just a kind of date you'd never want to stop.

Well, Ruby and I went to Rooftop Bar and you know, it had the best view of the city. It was it's her idea. Actually it was super cool. Well, you know, I can't really beat it for our first daid. Just great, great place to grab drinks, shared a charcoterie board, and you know our conversation was just really easy, natural. The vibe was laid back and plenty of kind of flirty moments. She's hilarious, you know, we're making each other laugh the whole night, and they were just sparked, you know, the kind of can't bake. We ended up taking a walk after and because we were both a little buzzed, and before we said good night, there are a few kisses and yeah, you know, it's just a kind of date you'd never want to stop.

Okay, well, why do you think you're hitting? Ghosted?

Okay, well, why do you think you're hitting? Ghosted?

Then? Honestly really confused. You know, we were texting NonStop for two days after, so things are you know, they felt promising and then nothing, it just stopped.

Then? Honestly really confused. You know, we were texting NonStop for two days after, so things are you know, they felt promising and then nothing, it just stopped.

So wait, you went on the date and you ended up hearing from her after the date.

So wait, you went on the date and you ended up hearing from her after the date.

Yeah, after the date for about two days and.

Yeah, after the date for about two days and.

Then it stopped.

Then it stopped.

Right Could it be something you texted?

Right Could it be something you texted?

I don't think so. I mean I don't think it was. I did text her a pick of me, like in the bathroom with a towel on as a tease, like I thought it would be harmless.

I don't think so. I mean I don't think it was. I did text her a pick of me, like in the bathroom with a towel on as a tease, like I thought it would be harmless.

Okay, is that the last time you heard from her?

Okay, is that the last time you heard from her?

I believe so.

I believe so.

Hard trip and if I got ghosted after that.

Hard trip and if I got ghosted after that.

She was teasing me about having ABS, so I just decided to show her. You know, I don't know, maybe it was too much. It wasn't like a pick or anything.

She was teasing me about having ABS, so I just decided to show her. You know, I don't know, maybe it was too much. It wasn't like a pick or anything.

You know, do you have abs?

You know, do you have abs?

Or was joking around me and like check out mine, but you don't have them?

Or was joking around me and like check out mine, but you don't have them?

You know I have abs? Yeah, I mean I just wanted to prove myself.

You know I have abs? Yeah, I mean I just wanted to prove myself.

Okay, that could be it. So was a selfie, yeah, I.

Okay, that could be it. So was a selfie, yeah, I.

Mean if you stop talking to you right after that, then that probably it probably has something to do with that.

Mean if you stop talking to you right after that, then that probably it probably has something to do with that.

I don't know. I mean, I don't think it was that bad or racy or anything.

I don't know. I mean, I don't think it was that bad or racy or anything.

But what did you say when you send the picture of yourself in a towel?

But what did you say when you send the picture of yourself in a towel?

Nothing much, just I think it's put like a little blurble like you know, here proved or something like along those lines.

Nothing much, just I think it's put like a little blurble like you know, here proved or something like along those lines.

Okay, well we'll see if we can help you out with then then. I mean, it just kind of strange that wild stop talking to you right after that, so that might be the reason. But we'll play a song come back and see if we can get you a second date. In your first day follow up.

Okay, well we'll see if we can help you out with then then. I mean, it just kind of strange that wild stop talking to you right after that, so that might be the reason. But we'll play a song come back and see if we can get you a second date. In your first day follow up.

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Right in the middle of today's first day follow up, if you're just joining us, Evan is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Ruby. So we're about to call her and see if she tell us why she's ghosting him and hopefully get him a second date. But first, Evan, why don't you break down your date for us one more time.

Right in the middle of today's first day follow up, if you're just joining us, Evan is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Ruby. So we're about to call her and see if she tell us why she's ghosting him and hopefully get him a second date. But first, Evan, why don't you break down your date for us one more time.

Yeah, we had a lot of great moments on our dates. Barks flew, everything was perfect, sought, we had a connection, and you know, two days after the date, I've not heard from her.

Yeah, we had a lot of great moments on our dates. Barks flew, everything was perfect, sought, we had a connection, and you know, two days after the date, I've not heard from her.

And the last thing that you sent her was, let's not forget this part, a picture of yourself in the bathroom and a towel.

And the last thing that you sent her was, let's not forget this part, a picture of yourself in the bathroom and a towel.

I did send her my ab.

I did send her my ab.

All right, Well, are you ready to see if that's the reason you're getting ghosted?

All right, Well, are you ready to see if that's the reason you're getting ghosted?

Yeah, let's do it.

Yeah, let's do it.

Okay, here we go. I'm gonna call her right now. Hi, Mas speak to Ruby. Please, Hey Ruby, how are you? This is a radio show. It's called the Jubil Show.

Okay, here we go. I'm gonna call her right now. Hi, Mas speak to Ruby. Please, Hey Ruby, how are you? This is a radio show. It's called the Jubil Show.

Hi Ruby, my name is Nina.

Hi Ruby, my name is Nina.

Hi, I'm Victoria and I'm Jubeil. How are you.

Hi, I'm Victoria and I'm Jubeil. How are you.

Okay?

Okay?

I'm good.

I'm good.

Have you ever listened to the show? Before I have dope. Thank you? Well, what if I told you that you were the star of a first eight follow up? Right now?

Have you ever listened to the show? Before I have dope. Thank you? Well, what if I told you that you were the star of a first eight follow up? Right now?

Oh god?

Oh god?

Yeah, we got an email about you from somebody that you're ghosting, and they don't know why. You know, who would emails.

Yeah, we got an email about you from somebody that you're ghosting, and they don't know why. You know, who would emails.

I'm pretty sure it's probably Evan.

I'm pretty sure it's probably Evan.

You're a very smart ruby. Evan told us about your date, said that he really liked you, thought you guys had an awesome time, but you texted for a little while after and then you just ghosted him, and he wants to know what's up? Would you mind telling us?

You're a very smart ruby. Evan told us about your date, said that he really liked you, thought you guys had an awesome time, but you texted for a little while after and then you just ghosted him, and he wants to know what's up? Would you mind telling us?

I mean, like, look, I really I thought Evan was great and we had an amazing time. But then after my date, my friend showed me something and it just it kind of killed the vibe for me.

I mean, like, look, I really I thought Evan was great and we had an amazing time. But then after my date, my friend showed me something and it just it kind of killed the vibe for me.

Okay, what was it?

Okay, what was it?

Okay?

Okay?

So I tested my friend a picture of Evan when we were on the base because she wanted to look like And then the next night she sends me a picture of him with some other girl, like literally the night after we went on the date, and then she was at another bar and they were making out.

So I tested my friend a picture of Evan when we were on the base because she wanted to look like And then the next night she sends me a picture of him with some other girl, like literally the night after we went on the date, and then she was at another bar and they were making out.

No, no, no, no, you've got it wrong.

No, no, no, no, you've got it wrong.

That's Evan. He's actually on the phone and wants to talk to you.

That's Evan. He's actually on the phone and wants to talk to you.

Oh my god. I mean, like, yeah, okay, I knew. I guess I knew this was coming. Oh man, hi.

Oh my god. I mean, like, yeah, okay, I knew. I guess I knew this was coming. Oh man, hi.

Hi, Uh look you've got it all wrong.

Hi, Uh look you've got it all wrong.

It's not no, no, no, Evan. You are literally in the picture.

It's not no, no, no, Evan. You are literally in the picture.

I mean, it's not hard to recognize someone when you were just right there, you know.

I mean, it's not hard to recognize someone when you were just right there, you know.

Oh okay, Yeah it happened, but it's not what you think. Like she's she's someone I've been cooking up with for a while, and I was I was going to tell her it was over because I wanted to focus on you that night, and I just I didn't get to it yet.

Oh okay, Yeah it happened, but it's not what you think. Like she's she's someone I've been cooking up with for a while, and I was I was going to tell her it was over because I wanted to focus on you that night, and I just I didn't get to it yet.

So you were, oh with someone else right after your date making out with her?

So you were, oh with someone else right after your date making out with her?

Technically, yeah, Egan, you were just with.

Technically, yeah, Egan, you were just with.

Me and then you just go and make out with someone else.

Me and then you just go and make out with someone else.

I mean, I understand people date multiple people, but it just it felt.

I mean, I understand people date multiple people, but it just it felt.

Wrong to me.

Wrong to me.

I swear, I swear I'm done with her. I'm not seeing anyone else. I like you. I was going to tell her that the next day, but it was like, it wasn't like that anymore, Like you're the one that I want to date.

I swear, I swear I'm done with her. I'm not seeing anyone else. I like you. I was going to tell her that the next day, but it was like, it wasn't like that anymore, Like you're the one that I want to date.

Did you tell her that?

Did you tell her that?

I told her?

I told her?

I mean, I wouldn't want to see a picture of the dude that I just want to date with, mixed like messing around with somebody else again, Like she said, I get people are dating other people, but if I don't know, I wouldn't feel good about that either.

I mean, I wouldn't want to see a picture of the dude that I just want to date with, mixed like messing around with somebody else again, Like she said, I get people are dating other people, but if I don't know, I wouldn't feel good about that either.

I just would have too many questions.

I just would have too many questions.

Yeah, like are you just saying that like you want to date me? Or like did you hook up with her that night? You know, that's just how it ful to me.

Yeah, like are you just saying that like you want to date me? Or like did you hook up with her that night? You know, that's just how it ful to me.

Did you hook up her? Yeah, but it was it was just like a last like last round type of thing. I swear I told her about you at that point, and that was the last time.

Did you hook up her? Yeah, but it was it was just like a last like last round type of thing. I swear I told her about you at that point, and that was the last time.

You told her after you hooked up.

You told her after you hooked up.

You're not hooked up with her after you told her about me, Like seriously, No, I told her about you after I hooked up with Herful Okay, so you hooked up with her after you told her about me?

You're not hooked up with her after you told her about me, Like seriously, No, I told her about you after I hooked up with Herful Okay, so you hooked up with her after you told her about me?

Like seriously, No, I hooked up with her and then I told her about you, like it's but but that's because things felt so different with you, Like we've been on one date. It's a like I cheated on you or anything. I was just I was trying to do the right thing.

Like seriously, No, I hooked up with her and then I told her about you, like it's but but that's because things felt so different with you, Like we've been on one date. It's a like I cheated on you or anything. I was just I was trying to do the right thing.

I mean, it would have been her if you told her before and didn't.

I mean, it would have been her if you told her before and didn't.

Hook up the way.

Hook up the way.

Okay, I get that, but it was, you know, it was just kind of desperate. Instead, I didn't get to see you, and you know, I was just trying to break things off and it didn't go as smoothly as I hoped it would.

Okay, I get that, but it was, you know, it was just kind of desperate. Instead, I didn't get to see you, and you know, I was just trying to break things off and it didn't go as smoothly as I hoped it would.

I mean, if we were to date and you didn't see me, you can't hook up with other people.

I mean, if we were to date and you didn't see me, you can't hook up with other people.

Like, I'm not trying to do that. I swear.

Like, I'm not trying to do that. I swear.

It's kind of tricky because he kind of does have a point. He is trying to do the right thing, like he didn't cheat on anybody, and she's out of the picture now.

It's kind of tricky because he kind of does have a point. He is trying to do the right thing, like he didn't cheat on anybody, and she's out of the picture now.

Ruby, would you like to go on a second date with Evan? We'll pay for it.

Ruby, would you like to go on a second date with Evan? We'll pay for it.

I mean, Evan, are there any other people I need to know about?

I mean, Evan, are there any other people I need to know about?

I mean, yeah, well yes, but I want to text them and let them know I'm not available via text. I'm not going to meet up with them. I will show you the text.

I mean, yeah, well yes, but I want to text them and let them know I'm not available via text. I'm not going to meet up with them. I will show you the text.

What do you think, Ruby, It sounds like serious?

What do you think, Ruby, It sounds like serious?

I mean, like honestly, we did just go in one date and it was like a really really good date. But I swear to God, Evan, if any of my friends send me more pictures of you out with other women.

I mean, like honestly, we did just go in one date and it was like a really really good date. But I swear to God, Evan, if any of my friends send me more pictures of you out with other women.

You're gonna wish that I was just ghosting you.

You're gonna wish that I was just ghosting you.

It will be very promise you'll never see that again. I don't want to to ever meet that side of you again.

It will be very promise you'll never see that again. I don't want to to ever meet that side of you again.

Okay, sure, all right, we'll go out again.

Okay, sure, all right, we'll go out again.

Are you happy?

Are you happy?

Yeah? Thank you, You're welcome.

Yeah? Thank you, You're welcome.

You wise.

You wise.

First date, fallow up

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