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Alex is on the phone today for our first Date follow up and he's getting ghosted by Riley. So in a second we'll call her and see if she's house, why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him another date. But first, Alex, how long has it been since you heard from Riley?

Alex is on the phone today for our first Date follow up and he's getting ghosted by Riley. So in a second we'll call her and see if she's house, why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him another date. But first, Alex, how long has it been since you heard from Riley?

It's been about ten days?

It's been about ten days?

Okay, now that you're counting, yeah, you how many times have you reached out to her in that time.

Okay, now that you're counting, yeah, you how many times have you reached out to her in that time.

I've sent a few texts, but it's it's been nothing crazy.

I've sent a few texts, but it's it's been nothing crazy.

Okay, we'll tell us about the date.

Okay, we'll tell us about the date.

Yeah, well, we went to an underground concert and it was so much fun.

Yeah, well, we went to an underground concert and it was so much fun.

I thought it would be. Yeah, it was actually.

I thought it would be. Yeah, it was actually.

On my ground.

On my ground.

It was it was in like the basement of the back of this cool It was actually it was pretty cool.

It was it was in like the basement of the back of this cool It was actually it was pretty cool.

Yeah, And I thought it was gonna be like this perfect combination of low pressure but still lots of fun, you know. And we had we had a few drinks. We were viving in the music and she was even dancing a little bit. And I gotta say, she's like super cool too, Like she doesn't even have to try. She's one of those she's just so cool and she knows her music. She wasn't just like oh, I like everything. She had opinions and I respect that, you know.

Yeah, And I thought it was gonna be like this perfect combination of low pressure but still lots of fun, you know. And we had we had a few drinks. We were viving in the music and she was even dancing a little bit. And I gotta say, she's like super cool too, Like she doesn't even have to try. She's one of those she's just so cool and she knows her music. She wasn't just like oh, I like everything. She had opinions and I respect that, you know.

Yeah yeah.

Yeah yeah.

And then the night ended with us grabbing some late night pizza and there was a kiss and it was in the moment and the music was still in the background and everything, but it was kind of cinematic.

And then the night ended with us grabbing some late night pizza and there was a kiss and it was in the moment and the music was still in the background and everything, but it was kind of cinematic.

It felt like it was right out of the movie.

It felt like it was right out of the movie.

It feels really good to hear guys romanticize these kisses too.

It feels really good to hear guys romanticize these kisses too.

It felt like it was perfect.

It felt like it was perfect.

Okay, well, what do you think is the reason she's ghosting you?

Okay, well, what do you think is the reason she's ghosting you?

Then I might be overthinking it, but I might have gotten a little bit too into the concert.

Then I might be overthinking it, but I might have gotten a little bit too into the concert.

What does that mean though?

What does that mean though?

Like a mosh bit?

Like a mosh bit?

Well kind of.

Well kind of.

I mean, like I jumped up on the stage, but like the band invited me. They were like, who's ready to rock? And I just I took initiatives.

I mean, like I jumped up on the stage, but like the band invited me. They were like, who's ready to rock? And I just I took initiatives.

You know, you're like, I am sir, and.

You know, you're like, I am sir, and.

Yeah yeah, and and then maybe there was like I also there was this one moment that I spilled my drink on a guy who like definitely looked like he could.

Yeah yeah, and and then maybe there was like I also there was this one moment that I spilled my drink on a guy who like definitely looked like he could.

Throw me across the room.

Throw me across the room.

Okay, So it was a.

Okay, So it was a.

Pretty pretty big guy. But that's all I can think about. I mean, like I said, I think I'm overthinking it.

Pretty pretty big guy. But that's all I can think about. I mean, like I said, I think I'm overthinking it.

Something happened because of the spilling the drink or.

Something happened because of the spilling the drink or.

I mean, the guy just looks kind of angry, but like I know, he, like I said, he was a pretty big guy. Like he's kind of intimidating. So I backed off pretty easily.

I mean, the guy just looks kind of angry, but like I know, he, like I said, he was a pretty big guy. Like he's kind of intimidating. So I backed off pretty easily.

But it was alation.

But it was alation.

No, no, no, okay, maybe that's why maybe she wants you to fight him.

No, no, no, okay, maybe that's why maybe she wants you to fight him.

Some people are like that, you're joking, but there are some people like that and that's a red flag though. So for you, though, what was she doing while you were on stage?

Some people are like that, you're joking, but there are some people like that and that's a red flag though. So for you, though, what was she doing while you were on stage?

I don't know. I kind of lost her in the crowd at that point. I was kind of you know, it was like adrenaline was high. Lost in the moment type thing.

I don't know. I kind of lost her in the crowd at that point. I was kind of you know, it was like adrenaline was high. Lost in the moment type thing.

She became a peasant people in the in the crowd.

She became a peasant people in the in the crowd.

No, I wanted her to come up. I thought she was going to come up with me, but she didn't.

No, I wanted her to come up. I thought she was going to come up with me, but she didn't.

Okay.

Okay.

So then when you said you kissed m m okay, who did it first?

So then when you said you kissed m m okay, who did it first?

You or her?

You or her?

I mean it was I felt like I think it was mutual. You always like that moment where it was like like the conversation kind of died, and it kind of like it was like a moment where we were just kind of looking at each other's eyes for a second.

I mean it was I felt like I think it was mutual. You always like that moment where it was like like the conversation kind of died, and it kind of like it was like a moment where we were just kind of looking at each other's eyes for a second.

Like the felt right.

Like the felt right.

You know, what was the last thing she said to you?

You know, what was the last thing she said to you?

She said she had a great night and that she she would want to see me again.

She said she had a great night and that she she would want to see me again.

So okay, I really don't know what's going on.

So okay, I really don't know what's going on.

All right, Well we'll see if we figure it out for you. Then we'll play a song come Back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay, okay, all right, we'll play a song come Back and get your first Day follow up, Next.

All right, Well we'll see if we figure it out for you. Then we'll play a song come Back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay, okay, all right, we'll play a song come Back and get your first Day follow up, Next.

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If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up. Alex is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Riley. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and see if we can get him another date if he still wants one after here's the reason why. But first, Alex, remind us about your date again.

If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up. Alex is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Riley. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and see if we can get him another date if he still wants one after here's the reason why. But first, Alex, remind us about your date again.

Yeah, well I took her to an underground concert sort of thing. I thought it would be fun and we had a great time, like she was dancing. We really hit it off. It felt like we even. Just at the end of the night, she said she wanted to see me again, but I don't know. I've been going over my mind maybe why she.

Yeah, well I took her to an underground concert sort of thing. I thought it would be fun and we had a great time, like she was dancing. We really hit it off. It felt like we even. Just at the end of the night, she said she wanted to see me again, but I don't know. I've been going over my mind maybe why she.

Hasn't reached out again or responded.

Hasn't reached out again or responded.

And there was just a couple of incidents like I jumped up on stage after they invited me, and I don't know. I was just five and I was having a good time, but I was super into it and it seemed like she was really into it too.

And there was just a couple of incidents like I jumped up on stage after they invited me, and I don't know. I was just five and I was having a good time, but I was super into it and it seemed like she was really into it too.

Okay, well we'll see if we can figure it out for you. Then are you ready for us to call her?

Okay, well we'll see if we can figure it out for you. Then are you ready for us to call her?

Yeah?

Yeah?

Okay, here we go.

Okay, here we go.

Hello.

Hello.

Hi is this Riley? Hey Riley? How are you? This is the Jubil Show. It's a radio show. Hi, Riley. My name is Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria and my name's Jubel. How's it going show?

Hi is this Riley? Hey Riley? How are you? This is the Jubil Show. It's a radio show. Hi, Riley. My name is Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria and my name's Jubel. How's it going show?

No, this is so kind of joke.

No, this is so kind of joke.

Great. No, have you listened to the show before?

Great. No, have you listened to the show before?

I haven't. I'm sorry.

I haven't. I'm sorry.

Yeah, that's fine.

Yeah, that's fine.

No, it's fine. Well, don't worry about it. Maybe now you'll check it out because you're actually on the show. We do a segment on the show. It's called the First Day follow Up. It's where if you go out on a date with somebody and you ghost them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.

No, it's fine. Well, don't worry about it. Maybe now you'll check it out because you're actually on the show. We do a segment on the show. It's called the First Day follow Up. It's where if you go out on a date with somebody and you ghost them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.

So, can you think of anybody who you want to email us about you?

So, can you think of anybody who you want to email us about you?

I'm being I guess, is it Alex?

I'm being I guess, is it Alex?

You are correct? Yeah?

You are correct? Yeah?

Alex emailed us and told us about your date. He said, it's been like ten days and he hasn't heard anything from you, and he's confused because he thought you really liked him and even at the end of your day, he said, you want to see him again?

Alex emailed us and told us about your date. He said, it's been like ten days and he hasn't heard anything from you, and he's confused because he thought you really liked him and even at the end of your day, he said, you want to see him again?

Oh my god. Of course Alex waid through something like this.

Oh my god. Of course Alex waid through something like this.

Yeah, I ghosted him, Okay, so why, yeah, can you tell us?

Yeah, I ghosted him, Okay, so why, yeah, can you tell us?

Because he embarrassed me so much I couldn't I couldn't deal with him anymore.

Because he embarrassed me so much I couldn't I couldn't deal with him anymore.

He was so embarrassing. Why why is the embarrassing?

He was so embarrassing. Why why is the embarrassing?

So he took me to this concert and like he just like full on jumped on stage and like tried to take the mic like the band had to stop.

So he took me to this concert and like he just like full on jumped on stage and like tried to take the mic like the band had to stop.

He told us about that, and he said that the band like asked him to get on stage.

He told us about that, and he said that the band like asked him to get on stage.

No, it wasn't that, Like he was not like corny cocks, Like they didn't like pull him up out of the crowd, like he like jumped on the stage on his own and tried to take the mics from the singer and.

No, it wasn't that, Like he was not like corny cocks, Like they didn't like pull him up out of the crowd, like he like jumped on the stage on his own and tried to take the mics from the singer and.

They had just wo's been a little confused, different stories he said.

They had just wo's been a little confused, different stories he said.

He said that they saw him having fun and they were like get up on stage with us.

He said that they saw him having fun and they were like get up on stage with us.

No, like he said, dude, like like some other like maybe they were talking to some like cute girl or but went for it, like they were not wanting.

No, like he said, dude, like like some other like maybe they were talking to some like cute girl or but went for it, like they were not wanting.

Him on the stage.

Him on the stage.

Oh that's funny.

Oh that's funny.

Oh maybe he was standing next to some hot girl and got confused.

Oh maybe he was standing next to some hot girl and got confused.

He didn't tell us that they kicked him off the stage.

He didn't tell us that they kicked him off the stage.

Yeah, like security had to like escort him off the stage.

Yeah, like security had to like escort him off the stage.

Oh yeah, we missed that part.

Oh yeah, we missed that part.

Okay. Is that is that the reason you're ghosting him?

Okay. Is that is that the reason you're ghosting him?

Yeah?

Yeah?

Well it was just yeah, he just started like no awareness, like it was just everything. I feel like it was just like so embarrassing.

Well it was just yeah, he just started like no awareness, like it was just everything. I feel like it was just like so embarrassing.

Hey, hey, can I say something now?

Hey, hey, can I say something now?

Yeah, yes again, Alex, Hey, Riley, that's Alex. He's actually on the phone listing and wants to talk to you.

Yeah, yes again, Alex, Hey, Riley, that's Alex. He's actually on the phone listing and wants to talk to you.

He's on the phone right, how yeah, that was him.

He's on the phone right, how yeah, that was him.

He wants to say something now.

He wants to say something now.

Yeah, So I just want to clarify this. Nobody nobody helped me. I mean nobody. Nobody kicked me off the stage. They just helped me off the stage.

Yeah, So I just want to clarify this. Nobody nobody helped me. I mean nobody. Nobody kicked me off the stage. They just helped me off the stage.

They like escorted you back, like off of the stage.

They like escorted you back, like off of the stage.

I don't know what concert you were at, Riley, because that's not what happened. The security guard literally gave me his hand to help me down. I'm sure it's just a stafety thing.

I don't know what concert you were at, Riley, because that's not what happened. The security guard literally gave me his hand to help me down. I'm sure it's just a stafety thing.

I can picture that.

I can picture that.

No, that's not that's not what happened. Like are you are you crazy?

No, that's not that's not what happened. Like are you are you crazy?

Like they literally like escorted you off the stage, like they just stopped the song to get you off stage.

Like they literally like escorted you off the stage, like they just stopped the song to get you off stage.

They didn't stop, They didn't have to stop. They just wanted to.

They didn't stop, They didn't have to stop. They just wanted to.

What are you even talking about?

What are you even talking about?

They asked us to leave like we got like kicked out when got pizza.

They asked us to leave like we got like kicked out when got pizza.

They weren't kicking us out.

They weren't kicking us out.

They asked us to leave because like I was up on the stage, people were gonna start swarming the swarming me from.

They asked us to leave because like I was up on the stage, people were gonna start swarming the swarming me from.

For autographs. That's funny.

For autographs. That's funny.

Yeah, I mean the crowd went crazy when I went up there.

Yeah, I mean the crowd went crazy when I went up there.

They were crazy and they were mad you interrupted the shovel.

They were crazy and they were mad you interrupted the shovel.

That's not how I maybe they thought that was going to murder you.

That's not how I maybe they thought that was going to murder you.

How are you confusing this?

How are you confusing this?

The security guard said, you guys are eighty stakes that you cannot come back here.

The security guard said, you guys are eighty stakes that you cannot come back here.

Ever, it sounds like you got kicked out. Yeah, I had you miss that one.

Ever, it sounds like you got kicked out. Yeah, I had you miss that one.

That's not how I thought we did.

That's not how I thought we did.

We got kicked out.

We got kicked out.

How do you not know me? Listen? I mean you and I, that me and that security guard. We like this pumps on the way in. I thought we were buddies. I thought he was just kidding around.

How do you not know me? Listen? I mean you and I, that me and that security guard. We like this pumps on the way in. I thought we were buddies. I thought he was just kidding around.

They this bump everyone.

They this bump everyone.

Well, Riley, would you like another day with Alex? Will pay for it?

Well, Riley, would you like another day with Alex? Will pay for it?

No? No, thank you?

No? No, thank you?

I mean, I know everyone wants to like a viral, but not for the wrong reasons.

I mean, I know everyone wants to like a viral, but not for the wrong reasons.

Well that really sucks because I thought we were really vibing together at the whole concert.

Well that really sucks because I thought we were really vibing together at the whole concert.

Well, I'm sorry. I guess that just shows like how unaware you are.

Well, I'm sorry. I guess that just shows like how unaware you are.

Okay, Well, then cheer loss. I guess no autographs for you.

Okay, Well, then cheer loss. I guess no autographs for you.

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