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Bethany is on the phone today for a first day follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jeremy. So in a second we'll call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date. But first, Bethany, how long has it been since you heard from Jeremy?

Bethany is on the phone today for a first day follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jeremy. So in a second we'll call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date. But first, Bethany, how long has it been since you heard from Jeremy?

Uh, it's been a few weeks. I haven't heard anything from him, And it's weird because I thought the.

Uh, it's been a few weeks. I haven't heard anything from him, And it's weird because I thought the.

Deal went really well.

Deal went really well.

What y'all do.

What y'all do.

We went and got dinner, sort of like.

We went and got dinner, sort of like.

A happy hour type thing. We got like a couple of different plates and stuff. We shared both of them, and I really liked him, Like we have a lot in common. Both just recently moved here. We're both originally from small towns, and we're both really like.

A happy hour type thing. We got like a couple of different plates and stuff. We shared both of them, and I really liked him, Like we have a lot in common. Both just recently moved here. We're both originally from small towns, and we're both really like.

Career motivated and excited about our jobs and things like that.

Career motivated and excited about our jobs and things like that.

So I don't know, I thought it was a really good match.

So I don't know, I thought it was a really good match.

Did you feel like he liked you?

Did you feel like he liked you?

I thought he did.

I thought he did.

I know.

I know.

It's a weird question because when you get so caught up in liking somebody, you're not really paying attention to if like, wait a minute, yea's true.

It's a weird question because when you get so caught up in liking somebody, you're not really paying attention to if like, wait a minute, yea's true.

Yeah, I thought he liked me, but I haven't heard from him, so I'm not sure.

Yeah, I thought he liked me, but I haven't heard from him, so I'm not sure.

Okay, well I made that a very terrible narrative. I'm not saying that he doesn't like him. Maybe something happened. Did you guys kiss it all?

Okay, well I made that a very terrible narrative. I'm not saying that he doesn't like him. Maybe something happened. Did you guys kiss it all?

Did you hug? How did the day end?

Did you hug? How did the day end?

We didn't kiss at all. It's like hugged in sac to night, but the.

We didn't kiss at all. It's like hugged in sac to night, but the.

Vibe was really positive, like we had a really good time. We were talking a lot, to the point where I thought we were going to have a second date. So yeah, I don't I don't really know what happened.

Vibe was really positive, like we had a really good time. We were talking a lot, to the point where I thought we were going to have a second date. So yeah, I don't I don't really know what happened.

Is there anything you can think of that might be a reason that he's ghosting you?

Is there anything you can think of that might be a reason that he's ghosting you?

I don't know.

I don't know.

The only thing I can think of is that, like, I feel like I definitely.

The only thing I can think of is that, like, I feel like I definitely.

Ate more food than him. We shared some points, and I feel like now I'm kind of worried that I just like ate a lot more of the food.

Ate more food than him. We shared some points, and I feel like now I'm kind of worried that I just like ate a lot more of the food.

Is that actually a thing?

Is that actually a thing?

What do you mean?

What do you mean?

Like, do you guys actually like not like that? I don't know what happened.

Like, do you guys actually like not like that? I don't know what happened.

It's definitely a thing where girls fell self conscious about it, and I know they didn't feel self conscious about.

It's definitely a thing where girls fell self conscious about it, and I know they didn't feel self conscious about.

Yeah, I hear them feel self conscious, but I didn't know if to, Like, I don't know if I know any guys that would want to go somebody after they went on a date with him and they ate a bunch, Like I find I actually think it's cool because it's like, oh, you're relaxed enough to just.

Yeah, I hear them feel self conscious, but I didn't know if to, Like, I don't know if I know any guys that would want to go somebody after they went on a date with him and they ate a bunch, Like I find I actually think it's cool because it's like, oh, you're relaxed enough to just.

Eat a bunch.

Eat a bunch.

Yeah, you know, I would get annoyed, like if it's go to a really nice steakhouse or something and then somebody's self conscious about eating a lot, so then they order a salad because it sounds like fifty bucks anyway, So it's like, just go ahead and spend the money on a steak and enjoy yourself.

Yeah, you know, I would get annoyed, like if it's go to a really nice steakhouse or something and then somebody's self conscious about eating a lot, so then they order a salad because it sounds like fifty bucks anyway, So it's like, just go ahead and spend the money on a steak and enjoy yourself.

Yeah, So hopefully that's not it, because that would be ridiculous.

Yeah, So hopefully that's not it, because that would be ridiculous.

Yeah.

Yeah.

So like you just like walked me to my car and we said good night and we hugged.

So like you just like walked me to my car and we said good night and we hugged.

It's sort of I don't know. There was an implication that he was going to call a text or something, and I didn't hear anything.

It's sort of I don't know. There was an implication that he was going to call a text or something, and I didn't hear anything.

Did you reach out to him?

Did you reach out to him?

I did reach out to him.

I did reach out to him.

I texted him once and I didn't get a response. I didn't want to text him too much because I didn't want.

I texted him once and I didn't get a response. I didn't want to text him too much because I didn't want.

To, like, yeah, I don't want him or anything. And I really I just thought you was gonna text me or call me, so all right.

To, like, yeah, I don't want him or anything. And I really I just thought you was gonna text me or call me, so all right.

And you literally have no idea why he's.

And you literally have no idea why he's.

Ghosting Yeah, I mean, it's just like, I guess.

Ghosting Yeah, I mean, it's just like, I guess.

The only thing I can think it was the food thing. I don't know. Maybe I was eating too loud or I was like being too messy.

The only thing I can think it was the food thing. I don't know. Maybe I was eating too loud or I was like being too messy.

Or all right, Okay, well we'll see if we can figure it out for you. We'll play a song come Back, and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you, and maybe get you another date if you still want one.

Or all right, Okay, well we'll see if we can figure it out for you. We'll play a song come Back, and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you, and maybe get you another date if you still want one.

Okay, some kid, all right, we'll play a song come Back. Get your first Day follow Up.

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Right in the middle of your first Date follow Up if you're just joining us, Bethany is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jeremy. So in a second we're gonna call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghostinger, and maybe get her another date if she still wants one. But before we do that, Bethany, why don't you catch everybody up on your situation?

Right in the middle of your first Date follow Up if you're just joining us, Bethany is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jeremy. So in a second we're gonna call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghostinger, and maybe get her another date if she still wants one. But before we do that, Bethany, why don't you catch everybody up on your situation?

Yeah, So basically, I went on to date with this guy a.

Yeah, So basically, I went on to date with this guy a.

Week or so ago.

Week or so ago.

We had a great time, got drinks, dinner.

We had a great time, got drinks, dinner.

I thought it went really well.

I thought it went really well.

We have a lot in common.

We have a lot in common.

I was really into him.

I was really into him.

He walked me in my car, we said good night, and I just like didn't hear from him at all.

He walked me in my car, we said good night, and I just like didn't hear from him at all.

And I texted him and he just didn't respond. So now I'm just not sure what's going on, and I would.

And I texted him and he just didn't respond. So now I'm just not sure what's going on, and I would.

Really like to know.

Really like to know.

Okay, make sure it's not because you ate a lot.

Okay, make sure it's not because you ate a lot.

Yeah, yeah, and I would like to know it's not because I ate a lot.

Yeah, yeah, and I would like to know it's not because I ate a lot.

All right, We're about to call him right now. Are you ready?

All right, We're about to call him right now. Are you ready?

Yep?

Yep?

Okay, here we go. Hey is this Jeremy? Yeah, Jeremy was that man? How are you? My name is Jewbel and host a radio show. It's called The Jewbill Show.

Okay, here we go. Hey is this Jeremy? Yeah, Jeremy was that man? How are you? My name is Jewbel and host a radio show. It's called The Jewbill Show.

Hi, Jeremy, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria.

Hi, Jeremy, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria.

How are you?

How are you?

Hi? I'm going fine?

Hi? I'm going fine?

Sweet? Do you listen to the show ever?

Sweet? Do you listen to the show ever?

I mean, I'm familiar.

I mean, I'm familiar.

Okay, I don't know if you're familiar or not with a segment we do. It's called the first date follow up. That's where if you go on a date with somebody and then you ghost them, that person can ask us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an email about you from somebody.

Okay, I don't know if you're familiar or not with a segment we do. It's called the first date follow up. That's where if you go on a date with somebody and then you ghost them, that person can ask us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an email about you from somebody.

Oh, okay, can you think of anybody that you're ghosting currently?

Oh, okay, can you think of anybody that you're ghosting currently?

Uh?

Uh?

Pray not?

Pray not?

Have you gone on any dates recently? This is from Bethany?

Have you gone on any dates recently? This is from Bethany?

I take it.

I take it.

Yes.

Yes.

Bethany emailed us and then we talked to her about your day a little bit, and she said, it's been like a few weeks and you haven't talked to her, So she's wondering if you would mind telling us why you're ghosting her.

Bethany emailed us and then we talked to her about your day a little bit, and she said, it's been like a few weeks and you haven't talked to her, So she's wondering if you would mind telling us why you're ghosting her.

Well, I mean I had a great time with her. We I really liked it because we went out, we had food, and she's nice to talk to. But I got really excited, and so I was starting to show my bro you know, like pictures of the night, and I was telling her about her, and you know, one of them, my guy h Rob. Actually he said, wait a minute, no, I know who this is. I know Bethany. Actually I went out with her for a while A few weeks ago. I actually went out with her and we ended up, we slept together, and every day afterward she kept just trying to get a hold of me. It was like this constant hey, what's up, and I couldn't. I couldn't like get her, I couldn't drop a hint that she would understand. So I eventually text her on like I don't know, like a third or fourth day, just to say that hey, we're not a good match. And then then she stopped bugging me. So I was like, oh, I do not want to get into that, you know, I do. I don't want to wade into any of that.

Well, I mean I had a great time with her. We I really liked it because we went out, we had food, and she's nice to talk to. But I got really excited, and so I was starting to show my bro you know, like pictures of the night, and I was telling her about her, and you know, one of them, my guy h Rob. Actually he said, wait a minute, no, I know who this is. I know Bethany. Actually I went out with her for a while A few weeks ago. I actually went out with her and we ended up, we slept together, and every day afterward she kept just trying to get a hold of me. It was like this constant hey, what's up, and I couldn't. I couldn't like get her, I couldn't drop a hint that she would understand. So I eventually text her on like I don't know, like a third or fourth day, just to say that hey, we're not a good match. And then then she stopped bugging me. So I was like, oh, I do not want to get into that, you know, I do. I don't want to wade into any of that.

Well it sounds like, yeah, I'm not sure what waiting into that means. But because to me, he finally nipped it in the butt by telling her what was what. So really it was his fault that it got weird if you think about it, So you actually would have had the power to communicate with her what you wanted from her, and especially if you were excited.

Well it sounds like, yeah, I'm not sure what waiting into that means. But because to me, he finally nipped it in the butt by telling her what was what. So really it was his fault that it got weird if you think about it, So you actually would have had the power to communicate with her what you wanted from her, and especially if you were excited.

Doesn't mean that you guys have have the same situation. I don't know, I feel a little triggered by that excuse.

Doesn't mean that you guys have have the same situation. I don't know, I feel a little triggered by that excuse.

I'm sorry, I guess I just I didn't I don't want to even get involved with any of that, Like I'm not gonna I don't want it to get to the point where I've got to send out a text of like, hey, don't do this anymore.

I'm sorry, I guess I just I didn't I don't want to even get involved with any of that, Like I'm not gonna I don't want it to get to the point where I've got to send out a text of like, hey, don't do this anymore.

That's just I know, Well, why are you dating? Like are you dating to be casual or are you dating to meet someone? So why are you anticipating telling somebody I don't want to hear from you.

That's just I know, Well, why are you dating? Like are you dating to be casual or are you dating to meet someone? So why are you anticipating telling somebody I don't want to hear from you.

I mean, like, I just I want to meet people and hang out, and I didn't want to keep it kind of casual, which is nice, but I just I'm not going to be with someone who's gonna be.

I mean, like, I just I want to meet people and hang out, and I didn't want to keep it kind of casual, which is nice, but I just I'm not going to be with someone who's gonna be.

Who wants to talk to you. Are you kidding me? I'm sorry.

Who wants to talk to you. Are you kidding me? I'm sorry.

Well, Jeremy, thanks for being honest with us.

Well, Jeremy, thanks for being honest with us.

We'll also let you know that Beth and he is actually on the phone and wants to talk to you, and she's been listening.

We'll also let you know that Beth and he is actually on the phone and wants to talk to you, and she's been listening.

Hi. Uh Okay, I gotta say, I'm like a little.

Hi. Uh Okay, I gotta say, I'm like a little.

Bit shocked to buy what I'm hearing right now, Like I do, I know, I know exactly what you're talking about. I remember Rom obviously. Okay, So he's he was really nice at first. We had a really good date. We talked about going on.

Bit shocked to buy what I'm hearing right now, Like I do, I know, I know exactly what you're talking about. I remember Rom obviously. Okay, So he's he was really nice at first. We had a really good date. We talked about going on.

A second date, and that's like kind of the reason I slipped with him and he slept together and then he just completely goes to me again, just.

A second date, and that's like kind of the reason I slipped with him and he slept together and then he just completely goes to me again, just.

Keep having me me And yeah, I texted him a few times.

Keep having me me And yeah, I texted him a few times.

We had just slept together, but I wasn't I didn't text him like crazy. I literally texted him a couple of times, and then he messaged back saying.

We had just slept together, but I wasn't I didn't text him like crazy. I literally texted him a couple of times, and then he messaged back saying.

He didn't want to see me anymore. I yeah, I mean I was bummy.

He didn't want to see me anymore. I yeah, I mean I was bummy.

I trust I trust Rob's judgment and if if it was too much for him, then it's it's gonna be too much for me, you.

I trust I trust Rob's judgment and if if it was too much for him, then it's it's gonna be too much for me, you.

Know, I got I gotta was not too much.

Know, I got I gotta was not too much.

I literally texted him like a few times because we had like maybe a passion. But I feel like if we put someone trust Robb's judgment on this one.

I literally texted him like a few times because we had like maybe a passion. But I feel like if we put someone trust Robb's judgment on this one.

Jeremy, how many friends do you have? Like how many is in your inner circle? And can we have all of their names so Bethany knows not to date any single one of them because you guys have interested in bro rules.

Jeremy, how many friends do you have? Like how many is in your inner circle? And can we have all of their names so Bethany knows not to date any single one of them because you guys have interested in bro rules.

Oh just I think you know we're tight.

Oh just I think you know we're tight.

We like to make sure that we're all on the same page about this kind of stuff.

We like to make sure that we're all on the same page about this kind of stuff.

Your friends are all on the same page about, like how you date.

Your friends are all on the same page about, like how you date.

Yeah, I mean, aren't yours.

Yeah, I mean, aren't yours.

Yeah, they don't tell me who to see and not. Well, yes they do. Yeah, but different, Jeremy.

Yeah, they don't tell me who to see and not. Well, yes they do. Yeah, but different, Jeremy.

But different. Okay, I think worked out a really nice sort of system.

But different. Okay, I think worked out a really nice sort of system.

You know.

You know.

I talk about my date now, well my friend knows, Hey, don't don't do that, and I'm like, okay, well, ty Rob, I go in.

I talk about my date now, well my friend knows, Hey, don't don't do that, and I'm like, okay, well, ty Rob, I go in.

I talked about what kind of girls to see.

I talked about what kind of girls to see.

I trust Rob.

I trust Rob.

If he says, hey, that's not that's not a good one, then like that's not a good one, you know. Yeah, I mean, look with us, it's it's dogs before broads, you know what.

If he says, hey, that's not that's not a good one, then like that's not a good one, you know. Yeah, I mean, look with us, it's it's dogs before broads, you know what.

Yeah, stops before broads before listen.

Yeah, stops before broads before listen.

Jeremy, I respect your friends circle, but Bethany, it's time to get out.

Jeremy, I respect your friends circle, but Bethany, it's time to get out.

It's time to go.

It's time to go.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I am not about this.

I am not about this.

At all.

At all.

I do not like that mentality from a grown man. So I'm good.

I do not like that mentality from a grown man. So I'm good.

I still have an Actually, Jeremy, would you like to go on another date with Bethany?

I still have an Actually, Jeremy, would you like to go on another date with Bethany?

Will pay for it? Dogs before?

Will pay for it? Dogs before?

No, No, I.

No, No, I.

Got to listen to the dods.

Got to listen to the dods.

All right, you guys, if you guys bark when you see each other, what was that dog?

All right, you guys, if you guys bark when you see each other, what was that dog?

It was a bulldog, Bethany. I'm assuming you're cool. You don't want another date.

It was a bulldog, Bethany. I'm assuming you're cool. You don't want another date.

Yeah, I would like to never see either of them again.

Yeah, I would like to never see either of them again.

To be honest, there's rough in these streets.

To be honest, there's rough in these streets.

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