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Craig is on the phone today for a first date follow up and he's getting ghosted by Bailey. So in a few minutes, we're gonna call her and see if she tells us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Craig, what's up. How long has it been since you heard from Bailey.

Craig is on the phone today for a first date follow up and he's getting ghosted by Bailey. So in a few minutes, we're gonna call her and see if she tells us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Craig, what's up. How long has it been since you heard from Bailey.

It's been about a week.

It's been about a week.

Okay, seems like the sweet spot, you know, in that week. Did you try to reach out to her at all?

Okay, seems like the sweet spot, you know, in that week. Did you try to reach out to her at all?

Yeah, I have. I don't know, I don't know what's going on. Was happening.

Yeah, I have. I don't know, I don't know what's going on. Was happening.

I thought it went really well, so I'm not sure why she's not getting back to me. Okay, what'd y'all do? We went to We went to this restaurant on the water I would say, EPU placed nice.

I thought it went really well, so I'm not sure why she's not getting back to me. Okay, what'd y'all do? We went to We went to this restaurant on the water I would say, EPU placed nice.

Yeah, they have like.

Yeah, they have like.

Great appetizers and stuff. And then we talked a lot, and I mean she did bring car cards to.

Great appetizers and stuff. And then we talked a lot, and I mean she did bring car cards to.

The date, like to do a reading.

The date, like to do a reading.

Yeah, but she really didn't know how to how to use them.

Yeah, but she really didn't know how to how to use them.

So it was kind of like fun and shoots, kind of like a like an icepicker type deal. And yeah, we we were both like making up stories about what our future would be like.

So it was kind of like fun and shoots, kind of like a like an icepicker type deal. And yeah, we we were both like making up stories about what our future would be like.

And it was cool.

And it was cool.

We kind of it kind of just like, you know, talked about how much kids we wanted and grew up on a farm and it was fun. It was like we will she was saying, was saying something similar as well, and yeah, then it was going everything was going great. And we walked, I walked into her car and we kind of, you know, we made out of the parking lot and we did for a while and it was great.

We kind of it kind of just like, you know, talked about how much kids we wanted and grew up on a farm and it was fun. It was like we will she was saying, was saying something similar as well, and yeah, then it was going everything was going great. And we walked, I walked into her car and we kind of, you know, we made out of the parking lot and we did for a while and it was great.

And then I don't know, and I want to get it, you know, to hold her. She's like really really fun.

And then I don't know, and I want to get it, you know, to hold her. She's like really really fun.

She's like really fun, spontaneous type person, which I'm really like looking for right now, and I really like the excitement she brings.

She's like really fun, spontaneous type person, which I'm really like looking for right now, and I really like the excitement she brings.

Did anything happen on the date that was awkward at all?

Did anything happen on the date that was awkward at all?

Yeah, a little bit because.

Yeah, a little bit because.

Afterwards I realized, I actually, I'm kind of embarrassed. I actually because when I got home, I realized, like I spilled olive oil on my my my pants, like my my from the bread from like my my crotch area.

Afterwards I realized, I actually, I'm kind of embarrassed. I actually because when I got home, I realized, like I spilled olive oil on my my my pants, like my my from the bread from like my my crotch area.

Okay, and I didn't notice at all until I until I got home. So the only thing I'm thinking of.

Okay, and I didn't notice at all until I until I got home. So the only thing I'm thinking of.

I'm afraid that she thought, like, you know, I feed myself, or like something worse from the makeout.

I'm afraid that she thought, like, you know, I feed myself, or like something worse from the makeout.

I got too excited.

I got too excited.

Oh so was this a book? So it's a big oil stain that was on your pants.

Oh so was this a book? So it's a big oil stain that was on your pants.

Yeah, it's because I dropped bread on me and the breads had a lot of oil on it.

Yeah, it's because I dropped bread on me and the breads had a lot of oil on it.

Yeah, and I didn't, I didn't even know. I would have talked, that would have mentioned I didn't even know. So that's the only thing I think why sheould not be might be not be calling.

Yeah, and I didn't, I didn't even know. I would have talked, that would have mentioned I didn't even know. So that's the only thing I think why sheould not be might be not be calling.

You back, especially if it's in a certain area. I mean, yeah, and I tried, like on her next day. She didn't answer. Yeah, I don't know if it's the pants or it's something else.

You back, especially if it's in a certain area. I mean, yeah, and I tried, like on her next day. She didn't answer. Yeah, I don't know if it's the pants or it's something else.

I don't know. I don't, I don't, I don't know.

I don't know. I don't, I don't, I don't know.

Then you said you've texted her. What did you say?

Then you said you've texted her. What did you say?

Just Hey, how's it going? I had fun? But like love to do that again, like you a lot.

Just Hey, how's it going? I had fun? But like love to do that again, like you a lot.

Yeah, you can't really explain over text. I feel like if I got a message like a guy trying to explain what that was, I don't know how i'd react. Well, especially if she didn't see it.

Yeah, you can't really explain over text. I feel like if I got a message like a guy trying to explain what that was, I don't know how i'd react. Well, especially if she didn't see it.

Maybe she did. I didn't want to like take a picture of my pants, like, hey, weird?

Maybe she did. I didn't want to like take a picture of my pants, like, hey, weird?

All right, well, yeah, that would be worse. Cig, Hey, you want to talk to you about this? What is this? All right? Well, we'll play a song come back, and then call her see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay, okay, great, all right, we'll play a song come back.

All right, well, yeah, that would be worse. Cig, Hey, you want to talk to you about this? What is this? All right? Well, we'll play a song come back, and then call her see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay, okay, great, all right, we'll play a song come back.

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Right in the middle of your first Date follow Up and if you're just joining us, Craig is on the phone and we're about to call Bailey, a girl that he went out with who's now ghosting him, and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Craig, why don't you catch everybody up on your situation.

Right in the middle of your first Date follow Up and if you're just joining us, Craig is on the phone and we're about to call Bailey, a girl that he went out with who's now ghosting him, and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Craig, why don't you catch everybody up on your situation.

Oh yeah, I went up this girl, Quete Bailey. We had a lot of fun with the seafood place.

Oh yeah, I went up this girl, Quete Bailey. We had a lot of fun with the seafood place.

We uh, you know, played tear cards, messed around, joked around me a little bit. I think going well. I think everything went well until I got home and I realized I had some oil from the bread and I spilled on my pants and I just staying in my crotch area and doesn't look uh, doesn't look great.

We uh, you know, played tear cards, messed around, joked around me a little bit. I think going well. I think everything went well until I got home and I realized I had some oil from the bread and I spilled on my pants and I just staying in my crotch area and doesn't look uh, doesn't look great.

So and I in a call texted, I haven't heard back, so I don't know. She's kind of good. She's ghosting you.

So and I in a call texted, I haven't heard back, so I don't know. She's kind of good. She's ghosting you.

I'm so sorry. I'm laughing, but I mean, come on, yeah, I mean it is even if she is ghosting you.

I'm so sorry. I'm laughing, but I mean, come on, yeah, I mean it is even if she is ghosting you.

Because of that, it's still pretty funny. I know it is. All right, you're ready for us to call her?

Because of that, it's still pretty funny. I know it is. All right, you're ready for us to call her?

Yeah?

Yeah?

Sure, yeah, Okay, here we go.

Sure, yeah, Okay, here we go.

Hello.

Hello.

Hi, I'm asking to Bailey please. Yeah, she Hi Bailey. How are you? Money is Jewbel And this is a radio show. It's called the Jewbil Show. Hi, the whole show's here. I'm Nina, Hi, and I'm Victoria.

Hi, I'm asking to Bailey please. Yeah, she Hi Bailey. How are you? Money is Jewbel And this is a radio show. It's called the Jewbil Show. Hi, the whole show's here. I'm Nina, Hi, and I'm Victoria.

Oh Hi, I'm good. H Hi guy, thanks for calling. I guess yeah.

Oh Hi, I'm good. H Hi guy, thanks for calling. I guess yeah.

Have you listened to the show before?

Have you listened to the show before?

Yeah?

Yeah?

Cool. So we're calling because this is a first day follow up where if you go on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, they can get they can have us get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And you're currently ghosting.

Cool. So we're calling because this is a first day follow up where if you go on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, they can get they can have us get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And you're currently ghosting.

Somebody, Okay, maybe do you.

Somebody, Okay, maybe do you.

Have any idea who would email us?

Have any idea who would email us?

Oh, yeah, you know casually. You know, I have met some people, so I'm not exactly sure.

Oh, yeah, you know casually. You know, I have met some people, so I'm not exactly sure.

Okay, Bailey's busy, so it could be a number of people. You want to throw out a name?

Okay, Bailey's busy, so it could be a number of people. You want to throw out a name?

Okay, excuse is it Craig?

Okay, excuse is it Craig?

Yes, congratulations, you did wear something? You got that right, it's Craig. He emailed us and told us about your date. And he says that you haven't talked to him for a week, and he's wondering if you'll tell us why.

Yes, congratulations, you did wear something? You got that right, it's Craig. He emailed us and told us about your date. And he says that you haven't talked to him for a week, and he's wondering if you'll tell us why.

I mean, it actually might kind of sounds super stupid, but yeah, I guess I have been avoiding him.

I mean, it actually might kind of sounds super stupid, but yeah, I guess I have been avoiding him.

So I didn't like his shoes.

So I didn't like his shoes.

Well, it's wrong with his shoes.

Well, it's wrong with his shoes.

She was wearing these like these like half sneaker kind of like half hiking boot kind of shoe. You know, are dates and and he just felt a little too like you know, crunchy granola for me. Okay, you know there's like that type of granola. Guys, I don't know, that shouldn't be a big deal. I know that sounds probably a lot of people think that sounds super stupid, But for me, at.

She was wearing these like these like half sneaker kind of like half hiking boot kind of shoe. You know, are dates and and he just felt a little too like you know, crunchy granola for me. Okay, you know there's like that type of granola. Guys, I don't know, that shouldn't be a big deal. I know that sounds probably a lot of people think that sounds super stupid, But for me, at.

This point in my life, like it just seems like that's his vibe.

This point in my life, like it just seems like that's his vibe.

And I'm like way too tired and like getting older, like to try to change a man and like make a man fit into like the kind of style of life that I would live, and and to change how he acts.

And I'm like way too tired and like getting older, like to try to change a man and like make a man fit into like the kind of style of life that I would live, and and to change how he acts.

Or how he dresses.

Or how he dresses.

So yeah, I just feel like I'm past that teaching stage of my life and I just want to find a man who is like an.

So yeah, I just feel like I'm past that teaching stage of my life and I just want to find a man who is like an.

Already trained, ready to be like the way that I like him.

Already trained, ready to be like the way that I like him.

So you don't want to have to train a dude again to get into that.

So you don't want to have to train a dude again to get into that.

Yeah, Like, let's be real, we all know we train our men. I mean, come on, like you know, the drastic like women kind of you know, we train our dude to be in the way that we.

Yeah, Like, let's be real, we all know we train our men. I mean, come on, like you know, the drastic like women kind of you know, we train our dude to be in the way that we.

Like our dudes.

Like our dudes.

And it just seemed like I'd have to work too hard to try to change him. And I shouldn't want to have to change somebody from who they are.

And it just seemed like I'd have to work too hard to try to change him. And I shouldn't want to have to change somebody from who they are.

You shouldn't. Yeah, you're right there, you shouldn't want to do that.

You shouldn't. Yeah, you're right there, you shouldn't want to do that.

I mean, I get wanting to influence somebody, Like if you really like somebody and you really hate their shoes, I mean, there's definitely a way to be like babe, you know, you look really cute and.

I mean, I get wanting to influence somebody, Like if you really like somebody and you really hate their shoes, I mean, there's definitely a way to be like babe, you know, you look really cute and.

I know, and that seems simple, but it just seems like the way, like I know, I guess I just felt like I was like, oh, this is going to take like months years of like trying to like maybe make you be the dude that I'm usually into, but this is not your style. So at this point I was just like, eh, you know what, forget it. Like he is actually super hot. I had a great time with him.

I know, and that seems simple, but it just seems like the way, like I know, I guess I just felt like I was like, oh, this is going to take like months years of like trying to like maybe make you be the dude that I'm usually into, but this is not your style. So at this point I was just like, eh, you know what, forget it. Like he is actually super hot. I had a great time with him.

I just yeah.

I just yeah.

After that, I was just like, this isn't going to go past the first day.

After that, I was just like, this isn't going to go past the first day.

Did you know that Craig is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you?

Did you know that Craig is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you?

Uh?

Uh?

Noll Hi?

Noll Hi?

Hell, I mean good.

Hell, I mean good.

I'm sorry that you had to hear all that. It's nothing personal.

I'm sorry that you had to hear all that. It's nothing personal.

I think it's kind of shallow to be honest, especially like over shoes, like I have other pairs of shoes. I mean yeah, I mean I think it's I don't know how you judge someone based off one appearance one day, but I guess that's your thing.

I think it's kind of shallow to be honest, especially like over shoes, like I have other pairs of shoes. I mean yeah, I mean I think it's I don't know how you judge someone based off one appearance one day, but I guess that's your thing.

It's kind of what you do so well.

It's kind of what you do so well.

I mean, and I'm probabized if you were like confused. I mean, I know, we had like an awesome kiss at the end of the night, and that was great. It's just like to me, of course they made out, you know, like I had to laugh of a startin a and you were there, you know, like make ups were just like innocent and fun. Like I think maybe by us kissing, you probably thought it would be more serious after that. Like I don't know, it didn't have to mean anything, Like I just thought it was a one great date and that was a great time.

I mean, and I'm probabized if you were like confused. I mean, I know, we had like an awesome kiss at the end of the night, and that was great. It's just like to me, of course they made out, you know, like I had to laugh of a startin a and you were there, you know, like make ups were just like innocent and fun. Like I think maybe by us kissing, you probably thought it would be more serious after that. Like I don't know, it didn't have to mean anything, Like I just thought it was a one great date and that was a great time.

But that was just like believe it that okay, I mean, that's that's fine. I mean I guess you had a lot of past trauma about training guys or whatever that what that means. But there was just a pair of shoes, So I mean, it's fine, it's cool.

But that was just like believe it that okay, I mean, that's that's fine. I mean I guess you had a lot of past trauma about training guys or whatever that what that means. But there was just a pair of shoes, So I mean, it's fine, it's cool.

No worries.

No worries.

I hope you uh, you know, bring bring a pair of shoes to your next date. Do you want the guy to wear so so you feel more comfortable.

I hope you uh, you know, bring bring a pair of shoes to your next date. Do you want the guy to wear so so you feel more comfortable.

Yeah, I mean I wouldn't really need to bring the shoes. I was obviously looking for a man who just like knows how to dress on.

Yeah, I mean I wouldn't really need to bring the shoes. I was obviously looking for a man who just like knows how to dress on.

A date, is what I got to mean. Like, I mean you do you.

A date, is what I got to mean. Like, I mean you do you.

I'm sure you have plenty of other great shoes then, like why was that like the choice to represent who you are on date one, so I wouldn't say this is all on me, just like I don't think it has anything to do with trauma. It's just called I don't want to waste my time on someone you like. He isn't really putting the thought in on a date.

I'm sure you have plenty of other great shoes then, like why was that like the choice to represent who you are on date one, so I wouldn't say this is all on me, just like I don't think it has anything to do with trauma. It's just called I don't want to waste my time on someone you like. He isn't really putting the thought in on a date.

I mean, I think a lot of girls like what I wear. I mean I didn't like your I don't.

I mean, I think a lot of girls like what I wear. I mean I didn't like your I don't.

Like your makeup, but I wasn't trying to end the entire relationship because you couldn't. You don't know how to put on makeup. I guess that's your thing, So you know, I just thought you had a bad makeup day. I won't see how well you didn't the next time. But I guess we're not doing that.

Like your makeup, but I wasn't trying to end the entire relationship because you couldn't. You don't know how to put on makeup. I guess that's your thing, So you know, I just thought you had a bad makeup day. I won't see how well you didn't the next time. But I guess we're not doing that.

Sol No, and like you said, you'll find You said there's plenty of girls who like your shoes, so definitely go find one of them and you'll have a second date.

Sol No, and like you said, you'll find You said there's plenty of girls who like your shoes, so definitely go find one of them and you'll have a second date.

I'm sure.

I'm sure.

Are we sure about that? Bailey? Would you like another day with Craig? Will pay for it?

Are we sure about that? Bailey? Would you like another day with Craig? Will pay for it?

No, I'm good. I you know, I like somebody who really wants to bring it and wants to respect me on the date. I'll pass.

No, I'm good. I you know, I like somebody who really wants to bring it and wants to respect me on the date. I'll pass.

Uh No, I'm good as well.

Uh No, I'm good as well.

I'd rather not go on a second date someone who's empty and Shallo has trauma over shoes.

I'd rather not go on a second date someone who's empty and Shallo has trauma over shoes.

And shirts and the very questionable makeup choices

And shirts and the very questionable makeup choices

Jubile's first date fallow up

Jubile's first date fallow up